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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/14/2006 10:25:07 PM | Yes I am Honestly seeking a Mrs .RIGHT .
And no not a Mrs .right now.
And nope never ever think I will chase a woman as thats not me .
I ask only one and if I get a no then find I move along and not bother her again.
Yes it is very disappointing on here as lots of ladies I match what thier seeking & they match what I am seeking but . Too many guys on here so the women never try to connect with someone for anything unless he's managed to be mr popular on here.
It seems that some guys like me are a strange rare breed on pof . And when you ladies read my profile you turn up your noses and run away. Well thats okay as I am only seeking one honest caring loving lady for long term and not short term . Nope I too don't see many serious women on pof either . But I have noticed alot of women just playing the field and trying to POF Stars on here!!LOL
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/15/2006 3:12:39 AM | msg 22 n 27
You both are running along the same train of thought I have. There was also another post by a woman saying the same thing.
Interesting how many people are sending emails yet getting limited or no response.
I've watched threads by the women saying how they get responses from men that seem to be just out for sex. Yet the simple hello messages get read and not responded to, read and deleted, or unread and deleted.
I have sent a few notes to women who's profile has had something that intruiged me...and who's photo has caught my eye....and more often than not I don't even get a hello in return. Those that do respond I get "Thank you". Well, what a well thought out response!
As for comments on the original thread....
Did I come to this site looking for my soul-mate? NO
Is there a chance to find them here? Possibly..why close the door on opportunity
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/15/2006 3:39:46 AM | Yep QT, I am one of the peeps looking for long term. I am not sure what that is at the moment as I think one has to date in order to see if long term has a possibility. Thats why I have dating on my profile, to date first, get to know you and maybe it will turn into long term.
But I know I am not looking for Mr. Right. I am looking for "right" for me.
But one thing I believe in is being honest from the start. If your just looking for someone to hang out with then say that.
I was talking with someone yesterday and in agreement we both have said, unless you know what your looking for there is too much temptation here.
Don't get me wrong, I have met many wonderful friends here, both male and female and glad that I have, but in all seriousness, ultimately, it would be nice to have a connection where both parties are on the same page with what they desire in the end. | |
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2006 1:05:27 AM | I know that I am getting into this thread a little on the late side but oh well. 'shape' I have a pretty good idea what you're feeling. The last date I had was about 8yrs ago, I had gone out with this gal about 6 times or so when I found out she was just after a free meal and ride to some places. I thought she was a little shy as I never even had a good nite kiss with her and then I found out she was doing the same thing to 2 other guys as well and (excuse the slang) was dissing each of us to other people. Needless to say I quit her.
Now to the original question of the forum. Yes 'qt_tibbs' I am seriously looking for a Mrs. Right but the lack of any good luck over the years seems to be leading me to the conclusion that I may never find her, much less even a Mrs. Right Now. I haven't set high standards to be met (you can see them in my profile) but there are a reasonable few things I am looking for. I know that a Mrs. Right Now is probably not the best way to go but, for reasons I'll not get into here, it might be my only choice. I just really wish it wasn't. For anyone wanting to know the honest truth about my reasons you can e-mail me through the site, you too 'tibbs.
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2006 1:33:07 AM | according to my profile:
When I was younger, I wanted to be Mr. Right, and as I got older, liked being Mr. Right Now, but really I just want to be MR.NOW. It's as simple as that.
Theres six billion people on this planet. The idea of tying myself down to one disgusts me. If you are lucky and can find that person who interests you 100%, then great for you. One day, there is a remote possibility, I might find that person.
But if I like to rollerblade and you don't, I am not going to feel guilty rollerblading with someone else. And that goes for any activity. There is just some stuff I don't like, and if you do , go find someone else to do it with. But most partners can't handle that, especially if that activity is sex.
good luck finding your twin. i'm still searching.
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2006 1:10:02 PM | Hello out there. I have not been on this site long. However I came on knowing what I wanted. Just not the approach to find it. I'm tired of being hurt, I'm tired of games. I admit I do have to be attracted physically to a woman I think that its pretty standard. I dont expect to start calling up some super model for a date. I just know im not interested in someone I don't feel that chemistry with. I don't just care about "looks" I want a decently attractive woman who's funny and energetic as well as positive.
I dont consider my wants and needs too difficult. I'm looking for an attractive young woman who's been through some of the same experiences relationship wise (I don't belive a person can truly understand till they've had their heart broken). I send out lots of emails but have yet to get one reply, no one adds me to their favorites list and all my forum posts get deleted.
I'm about ready to admit defeat with this site. Patients with women has never been a strong point. I'm making one last attempt at a post on here, Whats a nice guy got to do to meet a nice girl, in Ottawa?
So this is it guys and gals, I'm in need of some serious advice here. What is it im doing wrong, did i write too long a profile? Do women prefer long profiles with lots of stuff about the guy or just short and to the point?
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2006 1:21:21 PM | Well qt tibbs, I sure hope there are people here looking for MR./Mrs.Right, otherwise there is no reason me being here. Tha's why we have the choice of selecting "Long Term", but just because some don't choose that, does'nt mean they are not looking for it. Getting to someone takes time and patience (the downfall in my opinion and also why I chose "hang out") and there are those that you will just know they are not right for you after chatting or meeting for the first time.
Is internet dating better than going out to bars or social events? There is a slight difference, here you can judge if someone would be right for you by what's in their profile, and yet who knows, right? After chatting and/or meeting someone from here ,it is'nt that different from meeting a person anywhere else - will it work out or not? - we don't know. The best thing we can do is live life one day at a time keeping our heads up and take it with a smile, not dwell on the past and see a bright future for ourselves. But that's just my opinion.
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2006 3:40:30 PM | Haven't read all the replies, sorry.
I get the feeling that most people are looking for the right person, but will take what is in front of them at the time, if only just a short time. I have done it, and most people I know have done it too. Human nature I think.
I hope I find someone who I will stick with for a long time......my ex was a 15 year deal, so I'm hoping the next one will be much longer than that. There are no guarantees though, and if I make a mistake, well, I will at least learn from it. | |
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2006 4:43:26 PM | I think we are all looking for that special Mr or Ms Right, and in a perfect world we would find them and live happily ever after. But reality does have a nasty habit of biting us you know where.
After being hurt in love like many of us have, you do wonder if there is someone out there who will be your equal and complete you. Should we become cynical and give up? Of course not. But sometimes we are looking too hard, and rather than look than for that "right" person, we are looking for that "perfect" person.
By limiting ourselves we let a lot of good people who might be an ideal match slip through the cracks, and that is a shame. Some of us will connect and some of us never will, but you have to keep hoping, and like I always have thought, you start out with friendship, because that is the foundation for everything. Friendship can grow into more if the chemistry and spark are there. Until then, just keep looking, don't let rejection destroy your confidence, and hopefully you will find that ideal person to spend quality time with. | |
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2006 4:59:42 PM | Hey well I see theres lots of CHUM on Pof !LOL
Yes they know who they are for sure !!
And yes most women on here can not decide what they want or they would be dating instead of wasting their time chattin on POF . Sure bash me for what ever turns you on ladies. But it is very noticable to any one who reads these forums . Most of the women on pof will say their looking & what ever. But most are not really trying at all and really probbly don't want to find the right guy as then they would miss the playin on here . As for me hey if I find my lady either on here or some place else then cool and I am outta here . Nope I won't chase any woman as if I am not some ladies great catch then theres not much hope for most of the single men on pof at all.
But as any one will notice the women figure the guys must do the fishing and the women can just sit there like dead bait !!
Well I don't care sit there like dead bait ladies as if you can't answer an email then are you worth any single mans time !!
Yes easter was here and I shot the dam rabbit as he shit on my lawn . Now I 'm BBQ'in his ass and gonna eat the bugger!!
I bet if this don't make the women pissed nothing would !! | |
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:37:31 AM | Simply amazing how so many say they are looking for same thing.. yet not to many seem to be finding it. I believe that as we get older the relationships certainly get more complicated. No no keeps it simple anymore. When we were younger there were not nearly as many complications and expectations put on your significant other are not nearly as high. Now we seem to be saying I am being more "picky". I am not saying that anyone should settle for whoever falls in your lap, there certainly should be chemistry and compatibility. Those that play the games are the ones that ruin it for those who don't. You find someone you think is your match (so to speak) and then find out there are just killing time until something better comes along. Speak the truth. If that is the case be honest. The heart only takes so much before it shuts down and says I can't feel anymore.
Many bring the baggage from past relationships into new ones. That doesn't work. I am not saying you can't learn from past relationships we just have to learn to let go of the past and concentrate on today only! We have to forgive both in ourself and others before we can move on. Deal with the demons so we can start a new. We can't keep that nagging devil in the back of our mind saying hold back make sure this is the one before you can feel whole heartly for that person. Life is about taking chances and we all know (those that are serious about LTR) that we must take them or we become the wallflowers waiting on someone to come and water us so we can grow. Life doesn't work that way. You have to get out there and take part.
Those of us that resort to dating sites to find our match, I believe, find it tougher than if you meet someone elsewhere. Words are exactly that just words. I don't like the club scene and work long hours during the week. How do you meet people if you aren't out there... so we resort to the internet. We trust that the words are right and hope with our hearts that it is not a game.
I think it is terrible when someone sends an e-mail and they get no response. The least someone can do is send one back, even if it says sorry I am not interested. A response is warranted if someone took the time to send you one.
I wish for everyone who is seriously looking to find their match the best of luck! Happy fishing! I think someone should tell me what lure to use as I don't seem to be using the right one!
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| Is There Any Serious People Out Here Looking To Find Mr./Mrs.Right???...Honestly!!!!!
Posted: 4/23/2006 2:05:37 PM | Yes i am seriously trying to find that speical man ....... but i have not had alot of luck on P.O.F...... many guys i chat with have long term or dating on their profile and then when you start chatting..... or after you meet............. they change their story........ but that is not just on here that is everywhere. Being a single mom working full time...... i dont get many opportunities to go out often......... but when you do...... where do you go to meet someone......... bored of the bar scene..........
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