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Posted: 3/27/2006 3:44:17 PM | | touching and cuddling is something I really cannot get enough of... | |
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Posted: 3/27/2006 4:08:59 PM | I am a very affectionate person and when I am in a relationship, I think that touching is a very important part of showing your partner that you truly adore him/her and it doesn't have to always mean that you have to get nekked after the touching.
To me, it a great form of foreplay. | |
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Posted: 3/27/2006 7:29:53 PM | Kdblueeyes
That was just the excess food you were wearing Dude  | |
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Posted: 3/27/2006 9:45:08 PM | I think touch is very important - as is eye contact - and verbal affirmation - but I think it's important to know the different love languages people speak in - acts of affection, touch, verbal affirmation etc.
Watch how often people who are unaware of different 'love' languages end up misunderstanding and misinterpreting their partners, kids, lovers, friends etc intentions, actions, behavior because they are not speaking the same language!
Learn your partners language - speak it fluently - figure out yours and ask for it!
Your partner should know that lots of touch means to you: 'I care about you and am intimate with you'
..and you should be aware that it may not have that meaning to him! For him, he may feel connected and loved when you tell him how wonderful he is...
Yes touch is important very important (especially to you!) but stay open to diversity and different meaning making systems! | |
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Posted: 3/27/2006 9:50:59 PM | I think the most important part of a relationship is the love,
bond,connection,communication,openness,& trust between
the two.Having said that,I'm a very touchy,feely person too &
love all of it but...it still doesn't compare to the actual lovemaking...
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Posted: 3/27/2006 9:53:19 PM | | touch.....is often taken for granted....until you long for it.....it's then that you realize the magnitude and worth of what can sometimes be an oblivious simple act.... | |
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Posted: 3/27/2006 10:10:29 PM | | the sensory of touch is enough to let me know if I am interested in going any further with a particular person. I believe that there is a physical , electrical current exchanged between people, which is why some people give you goose bumps, and others send your skin crawling-listen to your instincts. | |
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Posted: 3/28/2006 10:47:58 AM | ...well and if you close your eyes, 'grade' of touch gets profound. Is it the moment when earth starts slowly to rotate...? | |
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Posted: 3/28/2006 10:51:22 AM | | well, w/out touch we would die alot sooner. I love touching, and cuddling. | |
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Posted: 3/28/2006 11:25:00 AM | Touch Me
Feel Me
Hold Me!!!
All the way!! Without that life is not as fun. | |
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Posted: 3/28/2006 12:27:21 PM | | It's good to see that the need to be touched and the desire for touch is a strong as the sex we all talk about on here. Touching can be one of the strongest bonds between two people. We have the desire to be touched right from the time of birth. The closeness and the bonding between Mother and child is so stong. Have you touched a loved one today?? | |
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Posted: 3/28/2006 1:34:30 PM | I am very fortunate to be able to touch people at work all day long. Their bodies are not strong and beautiful. Many of them are touched rarely in their lives, if ever.
Now I touch strangers too, a lot more than I used to. I think getting older has made that easier, more comfortable for me, and maybe for them too.
Touching is the best part of sex. My hunger for skin contact may be the biggest part of my sexual desire.
I love to touch my son. He’s my favorite person to touch in the whole world.
I have gone for long periods in my life without touch. I felt some essential part of my humanity was missing as a result. If it ever happens again, I hope it is by choice, not a lack of opportunity. | |
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Posted: 3/28/2006 2:21:16 PM | princessnaughty
Joined: 11/4/2005
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Posted: 3/28/2006 1 00 PM
Touch Me
Feel Me
Hold Me!!!
All the way!! Without that life is not as fun.
You have the right idea, on this TOUCHING THING   | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 12:42:49 PM | Leanne...I think touching is very important & we should only choose partners that desire the same level of touching as ourselves.
I dated a wonderful guy once, in the vehicle, he would always stroke my thigh, I loved that. Just the connection that he wanted to always touch me. I have never forgotten him...
Great thread Leanne!
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Posted: 3/29/2006 1:20:19 PM | I think this is an area where many men miss the boat. There are men who desire this connection butthere are also many who have been trained that they should not desire and or need such affection and so, in the attempt to be manly men...they neglect this area and the relationship suffers. i think for men it can be a way to express your love and desire to be close even when the penis is not involved. A hug anda nice kiss can go a long way.  | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 1:22:27 PM | Hezron, I totally agree.
I think it has alot to do with how comfortable one is with their own body. If a person doesn't thing the are 'touchable'...it is very difficult for them to imagine touching someone else.
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Posted: 3/29/2006 1:28:47 PM | I am totally a touchie feelie person. It so makes a relationship stronger!! So everyone just reach out and touch someone!! | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 1:31:33 PM | A chorus from one of my favorite songs:
Seems like a touch, touch too much
You know it's much too much, much too much
I really want to feel your touch too much
Girl you know you're getting me much too much
Seems like a touch
Just a dirty little touch
I really need your touch
Cause you're much too much too much
~ Ac/dc
~Pour | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 1:33:25 PM | | The power of touch goes a long way. Shows intimacy, caring, a bonding and just plains feels good to be either giver or receiver. Good thread. | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 2:07:16 PM | Touching is like giving a smile only 10 times better! I think touching is essential!
Depending on who you are with and the relationship between you, touching can mean so many different things theraputic, concern, a great way to show you care.
To my children, it can show love, reassurance and encouragment.
To an eldery person who never is touched by a warm and caring hand..it can mean everything.
With your partner, it can show love, admiration, desire, even lust and passion.
I am such a touchy feely person, it feels good to be touched and to touch others. | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 4:41:18 PM | | So true, that touch is what makes us human-but we are fortunate that we can consciously take it to the next level-where touch becomes a non-verbal que to stop, stay, or start. We make the signals, hoping that the reciprecant "gets it". I believe that we all conscious ,or not, make the physical connection-so listen to your guts! | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 5:35:16 PM | The small little touches when you don't expect it are the absolute best. when you get that tingling sensation as your partner give you that tiny touch on the small of the back, back of the neck, etc. can be the highlite of your day.
Touch is soooooooo important!!! If I find a guy and he's not affectionate, then that can be a deal breaker!!! | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 6:02:55 PM | | Ya...Im a touchy feely kinda gal... | |
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Posted: 4/10/2006 10:52:29 PM | So the big question-- where is the bestest place to be touched ?       | |
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Posted: 4/10/2006 10:55:22 PM | | it is all about the hugs and snuggles.....or as i call it huggles.....i find it very sensual but at same time a good way to non sexually say you care....i give good huggles..... | |
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