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Posted: 12/21/2006 8:41:08 PM | Okay.. .. if the above comment it true.. .. I WOULD LIKE TO BE TOUCHED RIGHT NOW!!!!
With my stats.. .. I need as much help as humanly possilbe.. .. so ...who is going to do the touching.. .. .. and quickly.. .. I'm not getting any younger 
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Posted: 12/21/2006 9:11:52 PM | There's a massive spanner in he works here though.
Modern womens society is so man hating and so rape phobic that ALL forms of touching are illegal.
Each and every form of touch, affection, and any number of other things are illegal.
Even non sexual contiact such as a hug of greeting is legalally listed as sexual or as a preleude to rape and is ilegal.
For all the monaing and groaning fro the women, about lack of male affectio, this is the bottom line.
A half centruy ago, when prostitution was both illegal and unaceptable, women made a point of not dressing too gaudily because of the risk of being mistaken for prostitutes.
Same with modern men and their adversion to touching somebody. Both times its a risky business that could land you in the slammer. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2007 6:21:09 PM |
The most important part of a relationship is not the actual act of having sex together, but the touching that goes on throughout the time you spend together. Holding hands, rubbing your back, stroking your hair, placing a hand on your knee, a kiss on the cheek, cuddling, playing footsies, a gentle smack on the butt, you name it.
I've had a couple of relationships get started by playing footsie during a candlelit dinner. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2007 9:12:03 PM | That's what I miss most...
The feeling of her hands and lips on me.
The smell of her hair, and the wonderful joy of my cheek against her shoulder.
I'd do most anything for some more of that intimate love and respect through simple touch.
Amazing how so few want it from me, or for me... Yet all past liaisons tell me, even now, how they did miss the feeling of my skin.
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Posted: 1/26/2007 7:17:59 AM | i agree with you david...i miss the holding hands and the unexpected kisses from my mate.
the cuddling on the couch is another big one i miss
i guess im just a real softy | |
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Posted: 1/26/2007 7:51:13 AM | Always keep those good feelings of touch in your heart - never loose the desire to touch or be touched. It will come again in your life and you will want to have that unabashed desire to find that wonderful experience you once had!! 
BTW - Simply holding hands with someone can be a calming affect on anything bad that happens in your day! | |
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Posted: 1/26/2007 9:32:41 AM | Touching is why we are all on this site. We are starved for some physical touch. Babies will die with out it, even if they are feed and cared for. Why do we think that would change as we get older. We are not meant to be alone. Thats why dating is fun. We get to touch someone else, on hand holding, dancing, hugging, kissing. These things all make us feel wonderful inside. We all need to be much more tactile...  | |
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Posted: 1/26/2007 9:50:12 AM | Do both men and women belive this to be true? yes it adds to the mood it makes u feel they are interested in u ..........and they aren't just laying there thinking omg is she done yet !
How important is this connection throughout the day?
this can be very important as u are doing your house work and he is giving u the signs to " rubs your butt " it can be a thrill
as u both tease each other all day when the time comes we have found the orgasm are more intense.........  | |
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Posted: 1/26/2007 3:52:47 PM | | Oh yeah, I agree with you....touching is SO important....those soft touches, kisses just make everything sooooooo good.... | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 4:30:33 PM | | Touch is letting someone know your thier, its okay, your safe, loved, wanted! | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 7:42:54 PM |
but the touching that goes on throughout the time you spend together. Holding hands, rubbing your back, stroking your hair, placing a hand on your knee, a kiss on the cheek, cuddling, playing footsies, a gentle smack on the butt, you name it. Any kind of loving gesture to connect with your partner will enhance the lovemaking in the bedroom.
I couldn't agree more, reading this reminds me of how much a person can miss being in a relationship... | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 8:51:42 AM | | In whatever way that works, they need to touch your heart. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 11:05:46 AM | That's the beauty of touch.
It can mean so much, and yet it is such a small thing.
The same touch can be sensual, or sexual, or cold, or fearful, or even spiritual.
The soft, simple gestures in word, touch, and action during the course of a day spent with a lover are what last forever.
My first girlfriend was in Florida one time when we were together. She brought me back a cheap little souvenir. I still have it in my room, to remember those little things...
I hold on to the text conversations I had with my first true love. I rarely read them, but they are such fond memories.
The sentimental value of such displays of affection and gratitude for your lover's existence are more valuable than the most expensive diamond jewelry, or the most robust sexual relationship. Without these small sacrifices of worship to your lover, that lover does not know your feelings, and thus does not know you at all.
~ David
When I am deeply interested in a woman, and we are talking together in person, I always make the same beginning gesture of affection.
I ask her if I can hold her hand, and I explore it with a sensual vigor that seems to scream "I love you" through my caresses, though they are light and slow.
The first time I truly kissed a woman with love in my heart, she suddenly stopped and said, "Did you just... like..."
"Say 'I love you' in the kiss?" I said.
"Yeah." she said. I said the same.
I never forgot that.
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Posted: 4/19/2007 11:32:31 AM | all i have to say on this topic is "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS"
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Posted: 4/19/2007 11:41:53 AM | "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS"
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Posted: 4/11/2009 4:41:29 PM | | I luv to rub/massage and tickle.Yes an hour or more and it has already lubricated itself.So wet and tasty | |
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Posted: 4/11/2009 7:48:16 PM | I need this SO bad to get turned on, and women today think that oral with NO touching qualifies for a proper warm up for sex. Sorry but I like a little more. Tease me, touch me, kiss me, make me beg for it, and I will reciprocate back to you.
There's nothing like it when two people are turned on to the point of rapture and just take each other. You lose all concept of time, (oh look it's morning, huh?) you can barely move without tingling all over, (nothing like a sh!t eating grin with a side of the giggles) and no matter how hard you try, you can't concentrate on a DAMN thing... That is truly great sex. And to get there, touching, like kissing is essential.
Hell a good rub down and make out session can make a girl cream in her pants right there, and some guys even have been known to experience this "happy accident." That alone should show just how essential good touching and foreplay, along with kissing can be to take the sex to the next extraordinary level. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2009 8:43:36 PM | Touching is a very important part of a relationship. It is definitely a non-verbal way of communcating to your partner how you feel about them. So many times in relationships, the focus of touching seems to stay in the bedroom and deteriorates outside the bedroom.
Fellows if you want your woman to want to be intimate with you inside the bedroom... work on the outside of the bedroom time. Random touches and kisses can definitely steam things up a bit. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 2:14:00 AM |
Do both men and women belive this to be true?
How important is this connection throughout the day?
Yes, this to me is VERY important! Im a very affectionate, touchy feely type person (and no its not being clingy!) and he needs to be as well. If he isnt, it's just not going to work out. Alot can be said for 2 people who enjoy those lil love taps, a quick tight hug, kisses on the back of the neck (or wherever!), as we pass each other during the day. Those sweet lil displays of affection (and more!) shows how really into each other you really are! I think stolen moments like these help to enhance a relationship and keeps it alive. :) | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 6:03:55 AM | | ... is a very important part of a relationship, both in and out of the bedroom. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 6:20:31 AM |
The most important part of a relationship is not the actual act of having sex together, but the touching that goes on throughout the time you spend together. Holding hands, rubbing your back, stroking your hair, placing a hand on your knee, a kiss on the cheek, cuddling, playing footsies, a gentle smack on the butt, you name it. Any kind of loving gesture to connect with your partner will enhance the lovemaking in the bedroom.
So well said. Worth repeating. Thank you, Leeanne!! | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 11:04:07 AM | Wow...authored by Leeanne...and from 3 years ago - and STILL so pertinant! You go, girl!
ITA in the importance of touch.
And here's what I'll add. For me, touching is an indication of my comfort level, the intimacy level.
I don't touch strangers. I do very light, non-intimate touches on a first date...if the date goes well, the touches might increase..
But then at the second date, I feel shy again, and won't touch much.
Over time, in a good relationship, the intimacy increases and soon the touches are natural and frequent and loving.
But when a problem arises, the touching goes down a little...
It's like, touching is almost a barometer of what is going on b/t 2 people... when I touch a lot it's because I have comfort and affection. When i touch less there's a problem. If he is touchy with me he probably feels affection towards me, but if he's not - aka wants to have sex but isn't touchy the rest of the time, then there are likely feelings missing.
Of course some people just aren't touchy types of people and so for them, none of the above would be true... but for touchy people, yeah, I think it can be a good quick way to gauge the quality of the relationship... | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 11:19:48 AM | | VERY IMPORTANT!Gets the juices flowing,acts of play,that take away the daily stresses in our lives, All forms of fourplay rock!So buy the time you hit the bedroom the heat is so smokin,One may just might forget to shut the door behind! As passion is let loose,bring mountains of pleasures rippling threw your body!MMMMMMMMMMMMM! got to go now! | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 11:30:14 AM | You are so right sister...........the almost kiss...the look in the eye........the gentle touch all sets me up to be a completely out of control wild woman behind closed doors!!! lol And i do think men feel the same way...although they look at it more like a tease, but it just seems to make them all the more crazy when its time to play.
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Posted: 4/12/2009 2:20:32 PM | | definately important | |
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