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Posted: 12/3/2006 6:11:20 PM | | well looks are a plus but with me im not cute so i can go by looks i myself go by personalities i know i know everyone says that but i mean it.... a big heart is all that really matters to me and no all women dont go for money and looks just the majority of us do | |
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Posted: 12/5/2006 3:56:06 AM | cowgirl...cowgirl...cowgirl...how can you say that....YOU ARE CUTE....VERY CUTE....don't let anyone tell you otherwise...especially yourself....I realize teens always have bad self image...this might explain your worry over that guy who treated you poorly...he's not worth it...you deserve great treatment from a great guy....you must realize that or you will always be putting up with BS from guys....you are young...do you go to school (college)...it's time to work on that confidence...find things you enjoy and do them...find your direction in life...when you are doing things you love and have a career you love, you will gain confidence not from looks but from within...and that will radiate from you...men will come and go...you'll find good ones and bad ones...until you find the right one...but don't settle for less than you deserve...be cautious about yellow flags, run from red flags...and do what it takes to make yourself happy, not someone else...
you're a beautiful young woman...I wish my hair was as thick as yours, it's gorgeous...
no more personal put downs...men with bad intentions look for weak women and women with poor self esteem..and that's where abuse comes in.... | |
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Posted: 12/5/2006 5:05:16 AM | | Hi good day everyone, i think that is your opinion, the good ones are in messed up relationships, when they speak the truth to a new date, they are left standing all alone once more, i feel jaded sometimes too.Money and looks dont always be first priority with SOME women most of the time, i think they NEED the same things you men need also. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 4:38:23 PM | Yeah, I have to agree with belly18dancer. Cowgirl really is a pretty girl. I didn't want to comment on this lest someone thinks I have bad intenetions, (I used to have a girlfriend who thought it was inappropriate that I bought an Avril Lavigne CD), but couldn't let her erroneous self assessment go without a second true comment.
Now on to the other subject, yeah looks count, after the profession and height requirements are met. But damn it, I'm going to it anyway and get by girl. Nerds Rule!! | |
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Posted: 12/8/2006 8:28:47 AM | | I agree, exactly. I get so tired of hearing, "why can't I find a woman? I'm a nice guy." well, you may be a nice guy, but you still want Barbie. Maybe if you tried Barbie's older sister for a change, you'd find a wonderful, warm, honest woman. I'm not about looks or your bank statements. Just about your outlook in life, your sense of humor, and your niceness, Just my 5 cents... | |
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Posted: 12/8/2006 6:07:55 PM | I'd have to see your photo first. then I'd be able to see how "hot" you are. (' ')
Women want a man who is INTERESTING!!!! Are you fun to hang out with? Pique our interest. What's wrong with being hot? Men expect women to be hot, why does it surprise you that women expect the same thing from men?
And, based on the above question, have you noticed how you attempt to sell yourself? I haven't read your profile, but you highlight your good job, financial security, and education before you mention interesting, good lover, and good looks in the above question. (and btw, where is your evidence that you are a generous lover, do you have references?)
Are these the same qualities that attract you to a woman? Would you select a woman to date based on her job and financial security FIRST?? I think not. (althogh the possibility exists that I could be wrong.) Ask yourself what are the things that keep you interested in a woman. Is it her job? Or her personality? | |
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Posted: 12/9/2006 2:59:26 PM | Looks and personality are important. Women and men are both drawn to out-going beautiful people. The big problem is that not everyone can be an out-going beautiful person.
Anyone that has been to a club or bar has seen this. The out-going beautiful people are in a clique with everyone laughing and having fun, while the others are poking around trying to get in. Like moths around a flame.
If you don't have looks or personality, then you have to have something else that people want. Throw around enough money or be famous, and you'll get attention.
Its high school all over again. | |
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Posted: 12/9/2006 3:19:48 PM | | hey i'm not poking around their clique trying to get in...i'm by myself dancing in the corner having the time of my life....i'm shy, but not on the dance floor so that is where i feel at home and where i'm going to be...they can go play with themselves i dont need them | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 9:02:36 AM | IMO, everyone is shallow in some way, shape or form. We are who we are and it most likely won't ever change. Some of us will find that "someone" and some of us will never find them.
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Posted: 12/14/2006 10:28:50 AM | Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ....shallow in some way, shape or form. Not necessarily true. We are all individuals and relationships take compromise. I feel the less secure you are with the person you are , the more compromising you will be. I think we all have the opportunity to find that "someone". Unfortunately, it sometimes takes kissing a lot of frogs until you meet your prince or princess.   | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 10:34:10 AM | For me it is more about personality, you can be the most stunning person around but if you can't hold a proper and fulfilling conversation and have a laugh forget it.
If you think this is shallow of me so be it. | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 11:29:55 AM | shallow no.....to me.....shallow is having no depth......no insight.......personality is very important........not necessarily being the most stunning...but pleasant to look at is high on the list......next to cleaniness. Not being able to hold a proper and fulfilling conversation and havin a laugh is a must for any good relationship. good luck in your search. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2006 10:00:55 AM | I am SSSOOO glad that I am what i am
I am most definetely NOT the cutest animal in the zoo and this has saved me from all the little golddiggers and superficial people on here
You are right that looks can get you into a room but your personality is what will keep you there !!!!!
I am fortunate that I usually get in because the people WANT me there
I have written on here before that all most of these woman want are someone that looks like Adam Rodriquez or some stupid gangster rapper BUT ALSO WANT THE SUGAR DADDY THAT WILL TURN A BLIND EYE TO THEIR PASSION FOR YOUNGER MEN
here is a news flash --- the baddest boys on here are the 50-65 group --- we went through wars and all kinds of stupidity in our lives --- we are tough as nails -- and may look like it BUT here is the thing
If you are with one of us NOONE will ever hurt you and YOU will be loved like never before
however with a lot of women --- love is a scary word --- they want sex and sex with someone that is model like in looks
I am going golfing !!!!!
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:05:29 PM | Dear Jim... My MAN!
You ROCK..!
You are a bona-fide BMF..!
Keep on tellin' it just like it IS..!!! | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:13:00 PM | jim..you forget that a lot of younger men are coming home from war now...so older men don't have the exclusivity of having fought in a war...
i have young friends in iraq and who have come home from iraq and they've seen some atrocities as well... | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 9:06:13 PM | I must say th looks are not everything, personality is a plus and intellegence is a plus i have dated many diff types of guys but i must say most of the so called "hot"guys spend more time in the mirror and getting ready than i do....big turn off im a 20-30 min girl and like it that way like to do things that are spur of the moment....sorry but 50 and older a bit to old for me as i have young parents and is just weird for me, it seems to be who i attract ...i have gone out with some of these men and some of them are just looking for trophy girls i am no trophy....jo | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 9:25:18 PM | Looks are important somewhat, but my experience is that most women would take a man with a great personality and chemistry that has average looks over a hot guy with no idea how to treat women. I also think most women would agree that being with an average guy who can charm the pants off of you is much more fun than being with a guy that is dull and boring but has a great body.  | |
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Posted: 1/2/2007 3:15:24 AM | | So what exactley is a "Bad Boy" anyway? Is it a look? A state of mind (e.g. Maturity level)? A manifestation of behaviors? | |
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Posted: 1/2/2007 9:34:45 AM | | kingpin you hit the nail on the head....that's exactly what women like...you figured us out, that means it's time for us to change again | |
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Posted: 1/2/2007 12:10:35 PM | Well I would say looks are important... Alot of women today judge men on their looks upon approach. The attraction is there or not... Thats something you can't really fight... If someone finds you attractive one second it's hard for them to change their mind in the next second. I think for physical appearance, the only thing you can really fix is your self. I'm not good looking so what I've learned is that i need enhance certain attributes. Your clothes and sense of style is a plus, jewerly , and a great hair cut are all plus. If your not great looking you can't fix that unless you get some cosmetic procedures, but you can fix your appearance. You can fix your confident and composer. Also don't let women discourage you. I choose to believe that you must date and meet a lot of bad women to find the great ones!... | |
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Posted: 1/7/2007 5:56:16 AM | | very well put cowgirl, looks are a very nice thing to have, but to me whats inside is the most precious....if theres nothing there then the looks could only last so long.... | |
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Posted: 1/7/2007 1:05:49 PM | Is it too much to want a decent looking woman with a decent personality? I know they are out there... unfortunately, none of them are interested in me.  | |
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Posted: 1/9/2007 3:25:41 AM | | looks are nice...however, most of us consider ourselves average...what is inside is more important, you can be beautiful on the outside and very ugly on the inside...besides looks do fade with time...but personality and what is on the inside is more important for a lasting relationship... | |
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Posted: 1/9/2007 2:19:01 PM | | Well, from viewing other replies that you have posted maybe you should consider how "nice" you really are. Maybe if you were more openminded about the type of women YOU are looking for then you might actually find someone worthwhile. Despite their looks. | |
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Posted: 5/5/2007 11:11:12 AM | Sorry, but I am looking for a lady that has grown up and isn't into that stuff. I have found out the last two women I dated turned out to be alcoholics. One was from here. She put on a good front.
I am looking for a quality lady that is looking for a nice guy. These women you are talking about think I am too nice. Didn't know there was such a thing as too nice.
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