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 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 251
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I may get hell for this, but there's nothing a man pulled on a woman and succeeded that she didn't let him get away with. In other words, men would be walking a line constantly if it wasn't for some woman or succession of women that accepted his behavior.

Therefore all men aren't jerks, most of them just don't know the rules for the particular woman they are dating since it changes with every new woman. If universally we all just agreed on what we would allow from men and what was a complete deal breaker, we could just give them a list and all would be right with the world.

I think men are pretty straightforward and if we see more to something than is there we can get burned, but a lot of times there are signs of what we're dealing with but we ignore 'em cause we want to make it what we want it to be.

A very small group of men are TRULY jerks with no concern for it, but so few that it's not worth discussing.
 calaltaman
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 252
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Posted: 7/18/2006 1:04:52 AM
Yes I damit that some men are jerks but some women are too - don't only blame theguys.
Women will send you winks and kisses and yes even lovely e-mails and then suddenly the next email is: "You jerk, did you really think I was going to meet you and go out with you?"

It is not nice either way, but them's the hazzards I personally do not think it is anybodies right to tell cherry to lose a few ponds and all her problems will be over - what makes you think she shoiuld join overeaters annonymous, maybe she has a problem of a medical nature.

Til a few days ago nobody knew that diabetes and alzheimers are cause by the same substance in the body. Well said enough...

I would love to go camping and fishing but I also need some company.

Laters, peoples.......
 donna bubbly
Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 253
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Posted: 7/18/2006 7:25:43 AM
i totally understand where u r coming from xx
 Missmelissa
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 254
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Posted: 7/18/2006 3:42:24 PM
u cant hate all men..ur right there are great fantastic guys and there are reall ***holes...however women are just as manipulative and cheaters as the guys but i think women hide it better..its true..take a alook women stand up guys all the time and nevr call again..sum men are just born jerks and cant brush it off maybe thats why their on this site because they cant find anyone elsewhere...but verbally bashing men isnt right, ive done my fair share and it doesnt do anything..women are just as guilty at doing what men do so why place blame stictly on men...
 4rums only 4 this account
Joined: 1/30/2006
Msg: 255
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Posted: 7/18/2006 4:29:16 PM
to SouthernCherry

You just haven't met the right guy yet, keep your head up high, guys like women who can compose themselves and have a high self esteem...remember to stay independent and the right one will cross your path, just make sure you don't trip him when he comes along
 charlie5252
Joined: 7/11/2006
Msg: 256
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Posted: 7/18/2006 6:16:36 PM
Well, I don't think that I am alone when I say that I am not one of those jerks you talk about. If I make a date, I keep it. Not to say that there will be a second date if we don't click, you have your radar set to low.
 charlie5252
Joined: 7/11/2006
Msg: 257
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Posted: 7/18/2006 6:20:33 PM
Thank you for standing up for NICE GUYS! I seem to attract women that just got out of some sort of abusive relationship that have a 20 foot wall around their emotions.
And I never was good with a sledge hammer to bring down walls, but you know, it's funny that another jerk can break down that wall.
 johnnyfour
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 258
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Posted: 7/18/2006 7:49:04 PM
I agree allot of us are jerks just a couple mintes ago some loser tried to pick a fight with me because i didn't want him to pet my dog he looked drunk and was looking to start trouble if i had not had my dog i would have gave him what he was looking for.....
 rdurham
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 259
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Posted: 7/18/2006 8:08:26 PM
Well all men are not jerk this is a double sided card..

I'm a single parent and believe me we have the same problem over here...

they are many reason why i man or woman refused to meet you outside of the website...

Some may be married when other may be using other people pictures.

Who know the real reason...

just keep your eye open and u will find the one you seek...
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 260
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Posted: 7/19/2006 3:23:08 AM
Jereks?? Men???

Take a look through these beauties. All women.

I don't know of ANY man who comes anywhere near these women on the jerk meter

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"All sex, even consensual sex between a married couple, is an act of violence perpetrated against a woman."
— Catherine MacKinnon


"Men who are unjustly accused of rape can sometimes gain from the experience."
— Catherine Comins, Vassar College,
Assistant Dean of Student Life in Time, June 3, 1991, p. 52


"Marriage as an institution developed from rape as a practice. Rape, originally defined as abduction, became marriage by capture. Marriage meant the taking was to extend in time, to be not only use of but possession of, or ownership."
— Andrea Dworkin





"No woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be totally different. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one."
— Interview with Simone de Beauvoir,
"Sex, Society, and the Female Dilemma"
Saturday Review, June 14, 1975, p.18



"In order to raise children with equality, we must take them away from families and communally raise them."
— Dr. Mary Jo Bane,
feminist and assistant professor of education at Wellesley College
and associate director of the school's Center for Research on Woman



"Women's Liberation … in the short run it's going to cost men a lot of privilege... Sexism is NOT the fault of women -- kill your fathers, not your mothers".
— Robin Morgan, Editor of Ms. Magazine
 Indigo Rose
Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 261
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Posted: 7/19/2006 8:56:03 AM
Jerk an annoyingly stupid or foolish "person"
Now let me look up nag.... brb!

Here we go... : to be a persistent source of annoyance or distraction
1 : to irritate by constant scolding or urging
 k.kong
Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 262
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Posted: 7/19/2006 9:29:11 AM
I did the jerk (oops, aging myself) but then my bacvk went out, and ... oh, sorry, wrong type jerk
 jim bag
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 263
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Posted: 7/19/2006 8:33:18 PM
this is coming from a 19 yr gal who dresses like pippy longstocking
righttttttttttt
 fromvegas
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 264
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Posted: 7/20/2006 7:52:51 AM
Is this the first time somebody stood you up?
Welcome to the world of the dating scene.
 manfishy
Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 265
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Posted: 7/20/2006 2:28:43 PM
Man, you hit that right on the nose hayzeus
 Pedro_Sanchez
Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 266
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Posted: 7/20/2006 2:40:56 PM
Shot gun wedding - nice first date. Hay carrrrrramba!
 InNEOwithGEO
Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 267
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Posted: 7/20/2006 2:51:28 PM

this is coming from a 19 yr gal who dresses like pippy longstocking


More like the girl on the Swiss Miss hot chocolate boxes.

The large family pack box you buy at Sam's Club.....

If you read through the whole thread you will laugh harder than reading a book of toilet jokes. You get the feeling by page 3 that it is a total joke, or something posted by a child of some inbreeding family in a trailer parked somewhere in backwater Florida. Full of Elly Mae Clampett kind of stuff!!

"Mah daddy sayed......"
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 268
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Posted: 7/20/2006 3:07:01 PM
What's wrong with Pippi Longstocking? She portrays an independent female and has been a great role model for thousands of little girls.

Is jerkiness assigned a gender specific identity? I have been jerked around by as many women as I have been men and I am sure some people think I am a jerk.

They are totally wrong, of course, I am more of a (expletive deleted).
 jim bag
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 269
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Posted: 7/20/2006 8:40:56 PM
inneowithgeo

that was hillarious, i couldnt of said it any better
 gunmetalblue
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 270
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Posted: 7/20/2006 8:45:36 PM
Perhaps it was your poor grammar.....
 ReD RiDinG HooD..
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 271
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Posted: 7/20/2006 8:52:50 PM
MEN ARE NOT JERKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



do you want to fight about this ????



i can not believe a disgraceful disrespectful MEN BEATING RUDE THREAD IS STILL UP!!

give men a ****ing chance.

some may hurt. others don't.

who knows the ones that may hurt may be HURTING themselves, they may not know anything about relationships, you do not know their entire background and how they have been brought up and what values and morals they have, and if they were taught to respect women.

and some women are ****es. and some have their reasons as well.

it is soo incredibly rude to have this attitude about MEN just because you have been hurt.
 Broken_Wings
Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 272
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Posted: 7/20/2006 8:57:20 PM
way to go "ReD RiDinG HooD.." i agree with your post and your right about everything you have mention especially about


"i can not believe a disgraceful disrespectful MEN BEATING RUDE THREAD IS STILL UP!!

give men a ****ing chance.

some may hurt. others don't.

who knows the ones that may hurt may be HURTING themselves, they may not know anything about relationships, you do not know their entire background and how they have been brought up and what values and morals they have, and if they were taught to respect women.

and some women are ****es. and some have their reasons as well."
 Donder
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 273
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Posted: 7/20/2006 9:06:53 PM
I too would like to know why men do that. If you take the parents out of the equation, I have had the same experience several times. They say they want to meet you. ou say OK and set up a time and place. Then ... just nothing. Afterwards, you might get an excuse - you might get stony silence.

It's enough to make a woman swear off sex entirely!
 SimbadSailor
Joined: 11/8/2005
Msg: 274
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Posted: 7/20/2006 9:47:58 PM
Some women love to choose jerks, and then when the jerks jerk them around, they bash ALL men, including the less aggressive guys who stood by quietly wishing some of those girls would pay some attention to them, instead of the jerks. And, then rubbing salt in the wounds by using the nice guy as an emotional tampon to be the audience for their fine rendition of "the victim's lament" UNTIL the next jerk shows up for them to spread their legs for.

So you only find jerks to date? Cry me a river, sister, and go spread your misery elsewhere. You're not worthy of my time.
 wvprincess
Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 275
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Posted: 7/20/2006 10:20:51 PM
Many men are only self-proclaimed nice. They will only talk to you if they can get something out of it. There may be some truly nice guys out there, I just haven't met too many. In my whole life, I can honestly say that I only met one nice single guy, and he's my best friend in the whole world. Everybody else is a freaking jerk, and they want nothing to do with you if they can't get in your pants. Girls wind up dating jerks cuz all the good men are taken. Anyhow, I am sick and tired of men complaining about how girls only date jerks, cuz those same guys don't go for the nice girl, rather, they go for the ones that everybody else wants. And those ones are stuck on themselves, and they'll date people just like them.
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