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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 10/5/2009 2:41:28 PM | ^^^^^^ WT & SE Thanks .The best aphrodisiac is the emotions that the ladies above displayed in their post . They care about their partner .My libido today is driven by emotions and it has slowed to where it does not run my life ...
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 10/5/2009 3:12:33 PM | Whenever I read/hear that men are super into pleasing their partner (no matter what the age) I groan - and not in a good way - because it always seems to translate into: "I like eating p^ssy. I mean I really, really like eating p^ssy. In fact, my entire repetoire consists of doing so. Therefore you'd best like it too coz that's all you can expect from me."
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 10/5/2009 4:01:40 PM | So amazing that such a simple concept gets scrutinized, looked at with skepticism and doubt...
No kidding.
Per usual, I can only speak for myself, as I know no one better, and am more intimately familiar with my own experiences than the experiences of others. I put myself in the category of an older gent who has a strong bias towards viewing my role in love making as pleasing my partner. But this is nothing new, as I felt the same way when I was 15 as I do now. The essential difference being that these days there are some decent sized waves of libido behind it, whereas when I was younger such waves were tsunamis behind it.
I am also quite well aware that I have my own peculiar quirks of psychological/erotic character. I'm a control freak, and I know it. A leopard can't change its spots. The best you can do with your spots are to try to make the best out of them that you can. A matter of style. I realized this early in life. The best I could do with my particular spots was to have the control freak in me be in the service of pleasing the person I was involved with. Really as simple as that.
I'm also easily bored. If good lovemaking was just a matter of improving upon and perfecting technique, I would have given it up out of disinterest a long time ago. My erotic imagination would have rebelled. What can I say? It wants your soul. It wants to find you everywhere in there, to light it up, bring it to the surface, relish the purity of its expressions, make them mine.
Such things take time, and can't be hurried. Erotic treasures are not so easily found. Is it so wrong to make of such a thing a mutually intoxicating game? Is it too ironic to grasp that such a libido might well become bored if not for the pleasures it seduces and inspires within its accomplice in crime?
Or maybe we should just make all our answers to such questions easy to define. | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 10/5/2009 4:40:15 PM | maloney
pissed off at women? get rejected alot?
you are wrong, at least to state as if it is the gospel. a womans prized possession is not her looks and many women do not hate younger looking women. that is a blanket statement that is pure bs.
generalize much? | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 10/7/2009 2:03:28 AM | | i think there are alot of older men--over 50--whos stuff doesnt work anymore--i wonder if its always been this way or is this a new thing?----i have talked to men on pof who made it a point to tell me their stuff is kaput, i had no idea it quit working so young | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 10/7/2009 10:26:17 AM | Pleasing my partner or low libido.....I like the first option! lol.
I haven't read all the posts, so someone may have already said this, but I DO like pleasing my partner. I want to make sure she has the best experience I can give her. Okay, yes, I'm talking about making sure she orgasms. As many times as I can help her get there. Why? Because if I can please HER, then she'll want to please ME. Selfish? Maybe, but there is no more beautiful sight that seeing your woman in the throes of ecstasy! Does this mean I have a low libido? Probably, I've kept it turned off for so long now. But that doesn't mean I have NO libido. Lets just say I consider myself akin to a camp fire early in the morning. The coals are still hot, add some tender and the flame will spring to life! haha. | |
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