| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/26/2006 11:03:10 PM | Giggles....crumbs.....Cotter your not really sorry are you?
Don’t’ think too many men are going to respond for fear of being diagnosed...
Actually cotter, every now and then, its fun to create a bit of controversy ....just to get more people off their butts and interacting.....all in fun | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/26/2006 11:44:00 PM | For myself, and only as my own viewpoint since this may not represent the other guys, I find that there is no longer the animal urge to get it done. I think back to my younger days and many many sessions of "wham-bam-thank you ma'am" that must have left my partner wondering what she had done to upset me!
Fortunately, I matured fairly early from that and managed to entertain my partners with longer, more drawn out sessions which, while lacking the base urges of my younger days, certainly leave her knowing that she has been the focus of my attentions. Obviously, there will be those who prefer the haste and frenzy, and if this is you, then you should skip over my profile - as it says in there, I'm looking for long term!  | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:27:19 AM | Giggles....crumbs.....Cotter your not really sorry are you? Sure … but not about putting the information out there. Just sorry it appears I have bored you to death.
Even more sorry that my posts attracted the scum who posted above and below you … he knows who he is and gets a great deal of pleasure out of stalking me in the forums and making ugly remarks about my posts. He basically hates women and I do try to avoid him, so now that he’s found this thread, I’ll get out of it or he will just ruin it for everyone.
Don’t’ think too many men are going to respond for fear of being diagnosed... I doubt it that they will fear that … most of them know me and know I don’t mean any harm … 
Actually cotter, every now and then, its fun to create a bit of controversy ....just to get more people off their butts and interacting.....all in fun Sorry if I spoiled your fun … I’ll leave you to your “friend” (post 26 & 28) … you all have fun now!
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/27/2006 2:24:24 PM | Cotter your doing fine...lol...like Isaid, all in fun. Such a strain,,,thinking up new questions... heheehe
Cotter you seem amused by all of this, you need to post some questions...have some fun | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/27/2006 2:31:36 PM | | Any confident,non self involved or shallow woman looks past a rusty exterior. It's much better to have a well oiled,reliable machine that runs like a top than a high mainenance Jaguar. You sell yourself short 99c, after reading your profile, I believe you have a sexy brain. | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:42:38 PM | Hi Lipstick Sunsets, Men get a great sense of pleasure when he can please his woman or a woman sexually as well as other ways. He feels that she will appreciate him for giving her pleasure-sexually-- Of course , he is wrong. But he really feels that way. I really enjoy giving the woman that I love and care about great satisifying sex-either orally or intercourse. Because he feels he will be able to get his sexual needs served at the same time. If she is aroused by oral then whe will want him to enter her and finish her off and that way he will be able to climax at the same time. If she only wants to cum with the oral (tongue) then when she is finished she will give him oral sex or just **** him straight---
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:51:25 PM |
Prime for ladies being 40's and late 40's or in some cases early 50's.....
Lipstick, you are obviously not in your 50's or you wouldn't be saying this....I am a 56 year old, and I can vouch for sake of argument, that sex has never been better than it is right now. As for this forum topic, any man in his 50's isn't going to look like he did in his 20's, but there are still a great deal of attractive and seductive men out on this site, this I know for a fact. Keep up the good work men, us women who appreciate it, are enjoying all you have to offer. | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:53:25 PM | The premise of the original question is either/or. Why would that be? To enjoy giving pleasure isn't about foregoing pleasure for oneself. Sex isn't a win-lose proposition.
Libido Rights? Never heard of that before. Lido Nights, maybe.
When someone advertises they enjoy pleasing their partner, it's a generous offer hopeful of a similar reply, I expect. | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/27/2006 4:00:30 PM | @deetoyou ...
Any confident,non self involved or shallow woman looks past a rusty exterior. It's much better to have a well oiled,reliable machine that runs like a top than a high mainenance Jaguar. You sell yourself short 99c, after reading your profile, I believe you have a sexy brain. Yes dee ... I've noticed the same thing. I wish he'd show us what he looks like ... I'll bet he's really cute and just doesn't want us to know.
With that sexy brain ... could be if puts up a picture the ladies will just swarm all over him! | |
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Posted: 3/28/2006 9:50:39 AM | I would like to respond to the OP. I'm surprised no one has mentioned "experience".
Older men have taken the time to understand what makes a woman tick sexually.
Sex is better for both partners if the woman is satisfied first. | |
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Joined: 3/24/2006
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/28/2006 10:02:15 AM | | Older men who are good lovers and wise know to choose partners who already understand the benefits of being older and wiser, because they are good lovers themselves. Following divorce from a bad lover, the woman may doubt all men her age or older, blaming the problems she had in bed on the age of the man. She will find endless agreement from her peers to confirm this false idea. And she will also hear from one or two happy women that not only is it possible to enjoy lovemaking with an older man, it is preferable. Us older men, through our association, pay those few happy women to advocate on our behalf. It's a form of viral marketing online. | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/28/2006 7:11:05 PM |
Older begins at 32. Ask any young female. Beware of those in their 60's and 70's. During the 80's and early 90's, before Viagra, penal implants was what those pervs received to satisfy their old hags.
You must be joking! I'm 47 and dated a guy last year who was 74. He was great! Definitely knew what he was doing, without meds or enhancements of any kind.
Gil ~ You're 37. Might as well slit your wrists now man ...  | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/29/2006 2:26:33 PM | | It never changes no matter what age one is. Unless one suffers from sickness and medication hampers their sex drive. Other than that, I'm the same as I was at 15. I guess the reason men can still have kids at age even at 100. | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 3/29/2006 4:12:19 PM | I think that there are two types of pleasing going on here,I have to agree with Margoe about the one type based only on my experience with my ex, little gifts and acts of service were a sure sign for me a new infidelity was in the making.
On the other hand if your talking sexual "pleasing" and older men I think it might have a lot to do with that dreaded ED,older men we would hope will not leave you wanting.I don't think libido has anything to do with ED. Being a woman I can only guess at that but I have experienced being wanted and being pleased,it was not a libido issue! | |
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Joined: 3/24/2006
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