| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 4/6/2006 11:41:05 PM | Not only will I pick out the color Mistress, I do a very good job at pedicures! That will be my job...take good care of your pretty feet. As for the back of your neck...mmmmm! My face burried in your long beautiful hair and my lips and teeth gently teasing and kissing my Mistress for Her pleasure.......which is what gives this man his pleasure.
Now about that wedding date...........Tux and gown ordered! lol   | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 4/7/2006 9:03:34 AM | Mes said:
you are a good man.... just do as you are told. I hope the tux is short enough for me!!
Yes Mistress, the tux wil fit. Now i hope that gown fits. It should if You will help me on with that corset and lace it real tight Ma'am. lol | |
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 4/7/2006 10:47:06 PM | @piclkes
are there any men like db or jim or any of the other chivalrous guys close to me??? I don't know "pickles" ... for sure none are here in Hawaii where I am ... at least not on POF! There is little or no social stuff going on over here where I am, so not a lot of chance to meet anyone. That's life!
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Posted: 4/8/2006 6:25:03 AM | Start with the finger tips? Start with the toes? Nope, I beg to differ guys!
Start with the mind! If you get the mind in line, everything else becomes an 'on' switch!!
There are many routes to take to a girl's heart, unlike men, where the main approach is via the stomach. However, they all begin with the lady in question first being wooed (or wowed) to the point where they are open and receptive to such treatment.
Also, I have found that some girls 'think' that their most sensitive spot is, shall we say, the feet, but exploration has revealed that she does in fact have other such spots, so it's always better to vary the routine. As altruisticgentlemanlover so eloquently put it ...
"to have her groaning, arching her back, smacking the bed, gripping the sheets, or headboard" is a surefire indication that you have found a spot or two! The fun part is how long you can keep her there. This is made even more fun if you can achieve this without even touching the 'obvious' spots as this is still 'warm up mode' ;)
In order to even get to this point, the lady in question has to be receptive to the attention and not just in the 'oh, its time for that again already?' mode; this is why we must start with the mind, and is why, as I've said before, love making starts when you get out of bed in the morning, not when you're ready to get into it.
When you build a fire, the success of the fire, and the heat and intensity, are all dependant on the preparation. It's nice to just turn on the gas and hit the ignitor, but that only works on modern appliances, and the ladies to whom I refer, while modern, are not appliances - they can't be retrofitted with these devices, so we have to resort to the old methodical preparation.
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Posted: 4/8/2006 6:46:15 AM | Very well said Pauper.
I agree with most of what you said. Yes, it all starts in the mind. But I disagree with that old sayng the best waty to a man's heart is through his stomach. Never understood that one. And I love to eat! lol My ex-wife was a great cook. Always tried hard to cook things I liked. I am can tell you one thing, I'd rather she spent more time in the bedroom then in the kitchen.
I never saw a statement so false as the best way is through his stomach.
But as I said, male or female... it all starts in the mind, as you said.
Reminds me of this 92 year old man that went to the doctor and complained about his sex life not being what it once was. The doctor said, " It's all in your head" The old man responded, " I know doc, I want it lowered!" | |
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Posted: 4/8/2006 4:18:09 PM | I was always selfish when wanting to please women. It was all about me.
I never thought the male body was much of a turn on for women - for the most part. However, a woman's body is for worship. I thoroughly enjoy performing oral on her entire body. It has nothing nor had anything to do with libido. Ever since my first sexual experience I simply enjoy the feel of a woman on my lips, tongue, face ,hands and body.... it's a beautiful feeling. Especially when she responds in an erotic manner.
It just so happens women enjoy it as well.... it's about pleasing both of us with her body and my desire. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2006 3:12:11 AM | I never thought the male body was much of a turn on for women ... Are you kidding ... I'm not posting any "big" details here, but I can think of lots of things about a man's body that is a turn on for women.
You post that you enjoy the feel of a woman on your lips .... etc. Well what makes you think we don't enjoy the same of our men?
It's a matter of perspective ... you're looking at it from a male perspective so you probably don't see what we see when we look at a man! That's totally understandable.
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Posted: 4/11/2006 7:38:18 PM | | I think this forum has deviated a bit from Ms. Lipstick's original question. I would like to offer that an older man still has the "libido", but it may appear in different ways. Wanting to "please" comes with maturity, (to give is better..., etc) and older men may not have the immediate physical attractiveness or the prowess of the younger guys, but generally older men will go more to please their partner....because in the end, it means more pleasure and satisfaction for both partners. Most of us ain't male porn studs here, so we find other routes to the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Just because we make an effort to please our partner before we please ourselves does not indicate a low libido, but a realization that the best outcome of an encounter is for both partners to be pleased, happy, satisfied...not slam, bam, thank you ma'am! | |
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Tansi
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Posted: 4/11/2006 10:06:52 PM | Patience.. because they take their time to pleasure us...
Quality and Satisfaction is when we are laying there quivering and sighing from the pleasure inflicted upon us. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2006 1:09:55 AM | Awww....My answer...
Dancing Lovers
I'm not what you call an easy lay
I seek much more than plain
Not a simple roll in the hay, if it takes all day
I desire more than one little quiver.
To please is a quest, My joy climbs to a crest
As I dance to the tune of one Lover
As our spirits entwine, and power given to climb
Up and down the mystical ladder
To become lovingly as one
Til shadows race to the sun
Soft fingers, sweet lips, Exciting tongues..
The dance of our bodies
Oh sweet rare enchantment
Drunken by needs yet to come
The feel of soft skin
My Lover must win again and again
Oh yes I Must see her win..
To feed my completion
Her satisfaction complete
Explorer of each others forms
For the Wonders of Magic..
Contained in a woman
Unleashes all My Heavenly Storms. ..
To lay in quivers til stillness
Heavy heartbeats of two race in time
Light touches of thanks
Caressing soft breasts
The gift of her giving was so Fine!
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Posted: 4/12/2006 4:40:52 PM | Heck yeah mesna! Quite the dreamer I am...I've got lots more poems about women, mostly the Angel kind tho..
Power of a Woman
As I awake from my slumber.
From the deep sleep of kings..
Her form lays beside me,
In the Queen's sleep of dreams..
For the moment I awaken,
And brush the Sleep from my eyes..
Such an Angel in peace,
In such Awe I realize..
With the touch of a finger,
With a whisper of my tongue..
a simple movement of my hand,
That cups her breast since sleep begun.
Would arrest her from her slumber,
Bring and end to her deep sleep..
And with power to command,
It is Me.. who is at Her feet..
But for now I have the power
Not so simple as such as that..
Just a movement of my Hand,
It feels good just where its at..
Would unleash such a tempest,
Oh, the fire and wildest storms..
From the Angel who lays beside me,
Cascading Hair across my arm..
She Knows not of her power,
After all, she's deep in sleep..
Sweet lips paused for kisses,
And Closed eyes, forever deep..
In laughter they often play,
And With saddness, they shadow pain..
But the comfort of her glowing
Wipes away the Gloom and Rain..
She Knows not her power,
And I'm proud to be her man..
I best let the Angel Rest,
Uh..Oh.. I moved my hand..
CountrySlim
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Posted: 4/12/2006 6:23:30 PM | Great job, CountrySlim!
So it would appear we have Libido, a body that is a turn on for women, maturity, a will to please, quality, satisfaction, patience and now true romantics among our ranks ....
So are there any ladies out there seeking a male harem? ;)
Oh, you wanted all of this in ONE person? hmmmm ... let me think about that one! | |
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Tansi
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| Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido?????
Posted: 4/12/2006 7:23:52 PM | Hmmmmmm Arizona , let me look here....turn the page.....go straight for 5 inches and hang a left.
Love to be the pleaser.....I would rather listen to him moan than me. As for the impotency....been more than one cowboy delivered from that snake bite. Sometimes a paid up divorce lawyer , a bottle of cognac, and a naked dance in the kitchen is the best cure. Nothing like a challenge to make me squirm. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2006 7:36:54 PM |
Hmmmmmm Arizona , let me look here....turn the page.....go straight for 5 inches and hang a left.
Love to be the pleaser.....I would rather listen to him moan than me. As for the impotency....been more than one cowboy delivered from that snake bite. Sometimes a paid up divorce lawyer , a bottle of cognac, and a naked dance in the kitchen is the best cure. Nothing like a challenge to make me squirm.
Tansi, you sure got me smilin' Just gotta love a lady with your sense of humor! so tell me, do ya do anything besides the naked dance in the kitchen? You know, any whips, chains, paddles, hand cuffs, shackles, blind folds or riding crops? Oh and the smell of leather! LMAO
Beats the hell out of viagra, that's for sure! Did I say "beats"? oops!
Canada....hmmmmm...... 12 inches due north out of the Florida swamp to the snow belt. That's where the hot ladies are. But then do I turn the page or hang a right or a left? You know us guys don't stop to ask directions! | |
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Posted: 4/13/2006 3:05:32 AM | Thanks all! That one was fun to write, and personally I think that I am a much better lover now than I when I was 12... er.. 21. I do like to play and touch..
Much like playing music on a fine violin, lightly stroking and touching neck, earlobes, thighs, with fingertips, lips and tongue, in areas of smooth sensitivity, making music and motion until a frenzy occurs and I become like Charlie Daniels sawing on a fiddle and playing it Hot! 
Add comedian to the list..
Impotent? sure! I'm a foreman on a big contruction job!
Libido is an expensive Italian sports car, and yeah, they do set low to the ground, but they hug the corners very pleasing... | |
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