| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 8:33:54 PM | lol! i knew after i posted that i would get replies regarding that! i was so mortified by that comment after my first one, that i gave by self 5 weeks after each pregnancy to lose the weight! was alot of hard work. the rest is history! lol! and there wont be anymore!!!!
(but my husband made me feel comfortable, no matter what) | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 8:55:25 PM |  If your other half is over weight here's a remedy that will help.
Get them to walk two miles in the morning and two at night for one week then by the end of the week the FAT **stard will be 28 miles away then you can find someone who is built for bedroom. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 9:31:14 PM | I think when you don't have a good image of yourself, it reflects on to the opposite sex. The image of being skinny, thin, fat, heavy or anywhere in between, is something that we think is not the right image to be close and sexual. I hear women/men all the time complaining about their legs, hips, butts and other body parts not being perfect, but when you show self confidence and you're comfortable with your body, then all of us can have great sex anytime.
Enjoy your body, with what you have and not be so focus on what others may or may not have, you will be missing out. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 9:35:05 PM | | An older wiser woman said,"Honey if you are the only naked woman in the room..you are the MOST BEAUTIFUL woman for 300 miles!" He isn't looking at a FAT woman. He is looking at a NAKED woman! | |
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Joined: 1/29/2006
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 9:36:57 PM | If you ain't fit you ain't " it " it's so simple girls what's the confusion get out of your sillyness already .
I wanted to also say that if your fat why would you expect a guy to want you I mean really .. why ?? think about it ?? | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 10:42:18 PM | | well offended by your post sarahv! i am fit! im not average, fat or obese, but i speak for those that are! posts like yours make those that are uncomfortable with their weight, depressed! am i wrong? (unless you are happy with yourselves, and if health isnt an issue, all the power to you!) i personally am not attracted to big women, but to each their own! their are many out here that are! i rather be with a woman that has a few extra pounds than a woman that deprives herself thinking that beauy is only on the outside! | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 10:51:29 PM | Well said Buffy^^
O/T I swim on a regular basis, when I go into a change room, I notice all types of women, all shapes and sizes. if our sex lives were defined by how fat or fit we exist, this world would only have shallow people that lead empty lives. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 10:56:22 PM | sometimes I get self consious about my body and I'm all like "oh man, I don't think that's supposed to jiggle like that..maybe if it's done this way it wont look so awful..."
I usually find that when I'm really into someone and we click that my whole self esteem issue will melt away and I can actually enjoy it. (a novel idea!) | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 11:06:40 PM | I am a guy and what would immediately, no-question-about-it make you attractive to me is how truly happy you are about yourself and your body. If you are comfortable, confident and accepting to yourself, with your imperfections then you are comfortable, accepting and sensual in the presence of mine.
People from magazines and tv are not the norm. There's no norm.
Please, get over the years of brainwashing, conditioning etc.
Please, do it fast because it pains *me* to see so many women living in angst and pain, spreading angst in pain.
I am impatient, so please, see your own beauty, soon.
Hugs and kisses
-- iKilledMrRight (had to!) | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 11:20:44 PM | | I got no problem with haveing sex with a heavier girl... but I've got an average size c0ck... and if her thighs are too big for me to reach in any position... well thats gonna be a problem. Or if she's riding cowgirl... I'm a pretty small guy... for whatever reason, they seem to forget that they putting all their weight on me and I can't breathe. Body image doesn't affect me... but the weight sure can. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/30/2006 11:49:59 PM | | I prefer a heavier girl; as slim as I am, would love to have thick pair of warm thighs to cuddle between..The sex gets wetter than it would with a skinny girl anyway. That softer, fuller feel of her body that makes you wanna suck all over her. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 12:10:16 AM | I can't say that my weight has ever effected my sex life.
My state of mind has yes but not weight.It's all about
having confidence.
[I wanted to say that if your fat why would you expect
a guy to want you I mean really...why]
Not only was that rude & uncalled for but funny coming from
someone who shows half a face....
There are many men who prefer a bigger woman,my son
is one of those men. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 12:50:25 AM | | Big girls are a lot more fun anyhow; they're not fake when it comes to havin a good time. Intense, passionate, and erotically focused in their love making. As long as the guy is happy spreading a descent pair of thighs;or she can get on top and roll that belly. She need only accept her size, wear somethin kinky, and the first guy that comes along; ROCK HIS WORLD-like its comin to an end. You only worry about losin weight if its a health concern. Big girls "can" be sexier than skinny ass girls........Its how you flaunt your sexuality | |
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Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 65 | |
| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 2:05:39 AM | | I think thats exactly it...you have to be able to accept your sexuality no matter what size...I accept mine, I just want to be healthier..so I want to loose wt....I also realize that this will give me more options in the dating world, thats a perk. But if you accept your sexual nature you can have great sex at any size. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 2:14:12 AM | | Sexyness is a state of mind. I'm a bigger girl and have never had a problem letting loose in the bedroom, or kitchen, or bathroom..hrm..yeah..anyways, back OT. I find that most of my skinny friends (who have bodies I'd die to have) are the ones that have inhibitions. Your weight is only a hinderance if you allow it to be. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 3:05:38 AM | I used to have some problems with weight affecting my sex life (when I had one ..lol) But after a while I got told by one of my guy friends this.... If hes with you hes pictured you naked, so dont worry about it let go. You know what, he was right. Being a bigger girl, not that Im huge , but bigger.. Im a freak in the sheets, I let go totally, it dosent affect me at all anymore.
(to the chic with the guys dont want to have sex fat chics post - that was just rude and uncalled for, I have never had a problem and Im a big girl ) | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 4:21:18 AM | some of these are realy fun. some are em, infortmative. i haven't read them all.
I guess its what your happy with yourself. I think you can also make a better judgement
on how you feel if you have had a varied experiance tried both sides - standard advice for most things i feel.
(oh i''m not saying gain or loose a lot of weight just to find out what its like) | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 7:56:57 AM | I am over weight and have beem for about 20 years. I have always had a weight problem. i am not extremely over weight just need to loose some. My sex life was very affected when I gained so much. My late husband always told me that I was beautiful anyways. He incouraged me to loose the weight due to health reasons and was very supportive. I no longer have a problem with the way I look. I feel very sexy and I know that there are men out there who would love to have sex with me. I am being appraoched constantly, I don't always go for it, but that is because I am not that promiscuis. I enjoy sex as much as the next person, and don't let my weight affect my sex life. I feel very sexy when I am with a guy that is interested in me. I know that I can please a man and get great enjoyment from the pleasure that we both experience.   | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 8:03:13 AM | | When I was in my 20's I worried about my weight all the time..Lost a bunch of weight and fell into the bulemia trap...Now at 150lbs and in my 30's..I love every bit of my curves and never feel insecure in the bedroom, bathroom, living room, or wherever good hard core, adventerous sex might be taking place..Bottom line, if you learn to live with your imperfections, have confidence, then it will carry over into your sex life making you and your partner very happy and pleased. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 10:02:58 AM | You know what? I used to worry about everything when I was younger, and thinner. But now, I just don't care anymore. I am confident in myself, yeah, need to lose weight, and am doing so, slowly, but it doesn't inhibit my sex life at all. In fact, I refuse more people than I accept in that way, so *someone* out there likes their women with a bit more weight on them.
I've been told I'm sexy enough times, that now, frankly, I know it's true! | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 10:44:19 AM | | Alot of women look better heavier...In the 14th or 17th century, fuller sized women were considered the most attractive....and even my grandmother would say that when a person is that healthy, its a sign that they've been living right--religion, money, life, etc............... Society is trying to manipulate our culture into accepting a thinner body with limited clothes sizes, smaller furniture, and health scares that used to be cureable when I was kid............... I aint goin out without a big girl's thighs wrapped around my back...Big titties and smooth round asses is what every grown man loves...Alot of'em be frontin for their friends or they're afraid cause they can't handle her sexual appetite...They can't hang with a big girl. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 12:13:42 PM | I cant say it has ever affected my sex life
I am a big guy standing 6'3" and well lets just say i'm not skinny...and never will be I have a very big bone structure. But I am happy with myself sure I would love to change a few things but not many.
But on that note I do find girls with some meat on them more attractive than the ones i feel like i'll break them if I give them a hug | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 1:14:35 PM | | Shooooooot!; You might break'em if ya hit it from the back too hard. I remember some slender girls that had to have hip surgery after being ****ed too hard. That's why they use the expression.....More cushion for the pushin....... Skinny girls are just all looks and most of them can hardly please a man right cause they're too worried about bein cute in bed. Sex is supposed to be sloppy at its best....One big physically body shattering breakdown that makes ya come back for more...A physical high...Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, skeeet, skeet, skeet, goddamnnnn!!!! | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 3/31/2006 2:56:31 PM | I so much agree
If a guy can not love you for you and take in the good qualities you posses.. dump him. He should be so lucky as to have your body beside you.
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