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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:46:13 AM | when im on bottom im always under pressure ...hell when im having sex im under pressure
a woman's weight really dont matter to me ...i like all sizes ..plump not really big ones are my preference but that describes my current So ...what you expect me to say...no just look in a woman's eyes and their size all goes away never touched a woman with a heavy soul...and it is my mission to touch your soul | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:46:55 AM | | It does affect your sex life, it did mine. I lost the weight, ditched the baggage and now I am enjoying myself, lol. Its great having men tell you your hot and that they are interested in you in more ways than one, lol. Guess I have my pick of the crop now as my friends keep telling me, lolololololololol. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:10:43 AM | | Weight has always been a problem for me.I never had a problem with it but women seem to.At this time I'm large again but I'm usally overweight or underweight.Women have said you're to fat then when I've dropped underweight they say you're to skinny.I like bigger guys.Geesh . | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/12/2008 12:56:16 AM |
nothing sexier than a soft curvy woman who knows she's gorgeous
and nothing is less sexy than a really fat one who thinks she is. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/13/2008 2:38:01 AM | "and nothing is less sexy than a really fat one who thinks she is."
Did Jabba the Hut chase you and give you a complex Frisky Monkey? | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/13/2008 9:31:15 AM | 10 years ago, my weight was something that held me back from dating or having sex. but now that i'm older, i'm more confident with myself as a whole and i find i'm having the best sex of my life. i'm a fat girl! i love my big boobs and belly and butt. they are so soft and bring me (and lots of men) pleasure. i think i stopped apologizing for my fat body when i turned 28 or so and began to love myself. and ever since then, i've had more orgasms than i can count. i never have a problem finding guys who like the feel of a soft, round woman in their arms (or under them, or on top of them  ). but it wasn't until i decided to stop giving a shit about what society thought of me that i was truly able to be comfortable in my own skin. i'm hot and sexy, dammit! | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/13/2008 1:21:17 PM | | It's not so much the weight, but the attitude. You can be small, medium, or large and be bautiful. You never have to be sloppy about your appearance. If you feel beautiful and scxy then that is what people will see. Don't be put off by what you might consider too fat. Just be happy and LIVE. Life is short, make the best of it. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/13/2008 1:35:29 PM | Your brain is the best sexual toy you can have. Although when a perfect size 2... Eva Longoria type but better body.. sex was good but now it's great! Men if you think you have to have skin and bones you don't know what your missing out on!
I am almost a plus size and can rock the world inside out now that I have learned I am as sexy as you can get! Sex is better with a little padding... ask my ex bf lol he was a marathon runner who said it would take a team to keep up with me!
But I am in shape with a little padding... not a marshmallow couch potatoe... or tator...
women if you do have a little extra... just be in shape... rock on! | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/13/2008 4:04:56 PM | ive had babies.. and my body will never be that wonderful lil toy i used to have.. drat
but.. YES>. when im fluffy .. i have a harder time being a sex kitten..
One of my favorite things is shower sex.. i need to keep the belly in line for that.. 
but.. i have to live with the dimples on my ass.. sorry guys..dimples mean im happy!! | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 7/13/2008 9:21:41 PM | I find going to the gym helps on many fronts. For starters, it gets you in better physical shape.
For guys, the extra stamina and strength are a big help in sex. I can only assume it also is useful for women too.
In addition to that, when you spend a lot of time at the gym it seems to provide a much needed boost to your confidence. Knowing you can lift more weights, do more situps and run more miles than you could 6 months ago makes you feel good about yourself which is always important in a healthy sex life. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 9/5/2008 12:15:07 AM | I am a healthy woman and my weight never affects me sexually.  I see it like this, when you walked over here and talked to me you saw that i wasnt a size two. So if you continued to talk to me there must be something you like. Im not going to go home, take my clothes off and uncover a small body no, I was fat in my clothes and Ill be fat out of them. I say dont be ashamed and if the reason you are ahamed is because of someone else dump em. Easier said then done but I dont know why cause if they dont love you enough to cultivate you and love you for who you are they dont deserve you. Plus whose to say being in that bad relationship isnt the reason you started to gain te weight anyway? | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 9/5/2008 12:23:19 AM | Yeah it does. One year I ate junk food like crazy, was up to about 200 pounds. I wanted to see what I would look like and how my body would perform as a larger guy. I could hardly breathe, had no stamina. I showered a lot less during that period as well, so having sex was distasteful to my partners. I'd have d ick cheese crust in and around my c0ck and my choda (the area between the ballsack and the anus). I couldn't sleep on my stomach because my gut would push my intestines in and it was very uncomfortable. I looked in the mirror daily and was horrified and scared by what I saw.
All in all it was a good experience. Having been a lean/athletic kid all my life, I now knew what it was like to have extra flab. Now I'm a comfortable 175lbs of pure muscle as I've gone back to my former eating and workout habits.
But yes, sex was utterly atrocious when I was larger and unhealthy. Still, seeing the disgust on the faces of the women that I had sex with at the time was a real turn-on.
Every once in awhile while asleep I'll wake up in a cold sweat due to a nightmare about my weight. I don't know why as weight is not an issue for me and never has been. Many sleepless nights nevertheless. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 10/5/2008 5:03:01 AM | I let my weight affect my sex life, but it wasn't a problem until my husband started telling me how fat I was. And it wasn't in a sweet, "I'm worried about your health" kind of way. It was flat out "you're fat and ugly". Yeah... Not great for the self-esteem. What he didn't realize is that instead of doing what he intended to do- which was shock me into a fitness program- he made me feel awful and subsequently I gained more weight. I really don't get it... I had lost 40 pounds since we got married and had dropped 7 dress sizes! Oh well, I guess he didn't value me much.
TODAY I still struggle with my self-image, especially where sex is concerned. I've lost 15 pounds since the divorce, but if I'm going to be taking my clothes off for someone, I want to feel comfortable doing it. I guess I'm a work in progress. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 10/5/2008 6:34:45 AM | | I've been thin and loved my body and sex was just ok. I put on a few pounds and not been as happy with my reflection but sex just feels better. So I say just relax and enjoy. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 10/5/2008 7:49:56 AM | has not affected me yet
lol
shall i be scared now?
I usually get who i want... so weight is like a hair color, you can always change that | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 10/5/2008 7:58:58 AM | I hate to admit that for me it used to affect it. I had gained about 10 pounds when I was married and I hated having sex with my husband because of that. He could have cared less, but it bothered me to the point I would put off having sex. That caused a lot of problems in our marriage.
I have since then kept my weight below what it really should be, but even now, if I am having a fat day, I feel a little self concious. I just don't let it run my life anymore.
I have found that men just want to see you naked. LOL | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 10/5/2008 8:29:40 AM | Absolutely love women with some meat on their bones, a mommy belly and natural boobs.......most women gain some weight naturally......who wants a woman with a "six pack" gut anyhow?........that just tells me she's too into herself.
As far as me?.........I'm 6 ft and bounce between 190 and 210....but once went as high as 230. I carry it well and just get huskier everywhere (like a football player carries his weight normally........husky but not "fat" looking).......but I do feel it if I gain too much and I suppose it does slow me down in bed somewhat. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 10/5/2008 8:51:47 AM | | Well until recently I had not had an encounter for 3+ years. I had let myself go. It affected my stamina and my performance as well as my view of myself. I have started eating healthier and working out ar the Y frequently. I have shed 20 lbs and the scale continues to go in the corect diection. Yes, it did, but no, it won't. Yea, for me. | |
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| Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted: 10/29/2008 6:56:12 PM | | Yes my weight and my new girlfriends weight is a problem. Im 6'4" tall 260lbs, maybe doesnt sound heavy to u but i have a belly that gets in the way, but the rest of my body is HWP. My new friend tho is 5'2" 165 lbs a little more than im used to. But she has a good head on her shoulders and is working on loosing weight. She said she was once 115lbs and thats what im hoping for. But because of her size and my belly we have a hard time with positions. She cant get on top either facing me or the reverse cowgirl it just wont happen toooo much fat. So i just stand up against the bed as she is laying down and pull her towards me with her legs up over my shoulders. Im 53 yurs old and she is 50 and yes im a diabetic so i have erection problems and have a hard time cumming, but she likes it that i can f*ck for more than an hour. | |
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