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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 6/8/2005 8:55:33 PM | | It would be hard to swipe chocolate off of any woman. Its the only thing to subdue them and keep them from snapping at us guys. | |
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Joined: 5/28/2005
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 6/8/2005 9:13:15 PM | | Ok so I read about a dozen of these posts and the crap about what is on the inside makes me sick what a crock. You know damn well if your dating a behemoth or a short guy like I am the very frist 6'2" good looking trim guy that comes along that fat guy is history. There is nothing wrog with that it is the way things are but I would think there would me a more intellectually honest answer to this guy. How many of you guys out there would want to go out on a date with a 300 pound plus woman? Fat can be lost and if you or anyone wants to be attractive to others then " Drop the Fork and step back from the table" this PC correct crap is killing me. | |
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Joined: 4/11/2005
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 6/8/2005 9:46:21 PM | | Us fat folk need love too! But I really don't have much trouble with da ladies. I just spend too much time with my kid and not enough time looking for a good woman anymore.I guess I am fat and getting old but,I have all my own hair and it's on my head not my back!O'yeah I'm not a fan of chocolate it gives me urges and headaches but I love M&M's | |
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Posted: 6/9/2005 5:35:56 AM | Mcinlv...I just want you to know that I had more guys wanting to take me out (dancing, karoke, movies, NOT dinner) when I was 360 then I do now at 240...I would take height over weight anyway...Need a guy to reach the top shelf...
Desertwolf is both tall and extra padding and man do I love it. 
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Posted: 6/9/2005 6:02:40 AM | mcinly I have dated several women that have been over the 250 to 350 range. have a friend that is close to 370 but she is with another guy so it is hands off to date her. I would have no problem doing so with her if it were different. it has nothing to do with how much they weigh. all a person has to do is set the date to have fun that both can enjoy nad not design it to be one sided on what you think the other can or can not do. I think that the good fella or lady upstairs gave us a mouth to speak with and ask what they perfer to do and like. I was always kind of partical to making sure the one I ask out is going to have fun. if it is at all possible and not just myself. as far as the pc well it has nothing to do with the size of a person or how they feel about thierselves. that comes from the inside and the person and thier make up. see I have a nephew that is vain as all hell and he is always putting a person down if they have an ounce over what he feels is where they should be. well he did at least until his dad heard him one day doing it to a girl that had come to talk to him. My brother went and invited several ladies he knew and told them what had happened and what he had done. Then he reversed it on him with the ladies. all the ladies were fullsized and they rode the boy for two hours on how small he was and tiny. when it was over he had a different look on how it felt to be picked on because of ones size. Now believe me there is nothing in this world you want worse than a bunch of ladies on your a** all at the same time to make you feel like a total jerk. especially all in the same house at the same time.
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 6/9/2005 3:51:53 PM | | It's all in how a woman carries herself. The hotest woman is butt ugly if she is rude and or vulgar!I Have an ex Who was a freakin knock out then developed a potty mouth and thought the world was beneath her and I'll tell yeah She may be a ten but she acts like a 2! Give me a lady of any size and I'm a happy man! | |
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Posted: 6/9/2005 5:10:09 PM | | you know what ive dated a couple not huge but not fit guys in my short life and ill say if ur attitude is great and u take care of urself yea ill date you . but hey i see it as fat pple dont care about themselves enough to not be fat. and i only like to date those u take care of themselves like i do well i try anyways. i would have to say no i just wont talk to those guys who are tons of pounds i want someone who is eaqual to me and mentally stable i dunno im not trying to bash on fat pple so dont get the wrong idear its just how i hold mt standerds | |
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Posted: 6/10/2005 4:36:00 AM | Yes, I've dated fat men before... I prefer a man with some meat on his bones (but of course, not that much: obesity is too big)... Especially if he looks pretty close to Joe Don Baker, hell yes, I'd go out with him... I love big guys... I've dated skinny guys before, well... I can't say here, but it just wasn't my type with them... The big guys made me feel more feminine and they were more of a gentleman...
xo,
Leana
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Posted: 6/10/2005 1:46:11 PM | seems that most of the ladies that date larger guys are mostly saying the same thing. they are more of a gentleman that the smaller guys. Thats a good one on me but I am a larger guy so from us larger guys ladies thank you.
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Posted: 6/12/2005 3:43:32 PM | I am once again simply amazed at the support shown by this community. I have gained more insight into the dating scene and more reaffirmation of my self-confidence since joining POF than I did in three years of other dating services. Thank you ever so much, POF community!!! 
It is so reassuring to know that so many of you ladies don't really see a man's weight as a major issue. In an ideal world, I would like to shave off about fifty pounds. As one ages, that becomes harder and harder to do. When I started the same job I have now during my first stint six years ago, I lost some forty pounds in three months. Last year, in doing yet another stint in the same job working equally hard, the weight just did not drop at all. We are not talking a desk job, I assure you.
To those of you that say being overweight is a choice one makes, you are not totally incorrect. I must wonder, though, how many of you have actually "been there", especially at this age. It most certainly isn't easy to lose weight at any time, let alone as one gets older.
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Posted: 6/12/2005 8:10:06 PM | hi tunesman, I am moundpuppy and I know quite well how hard it is to lose weight seeing I am 53 years old. I have lost from 353 pounds since march of last year. I am now 220 pounds and yeah I know very well how hard it is. when it becomes a life threatening thing you take and do what you have to do no matter what. And to tell you it is even harder when each and every thing you put in your mouth turns to fat in your system. I deal with less than 1000 calories a day at times to make sure I can lose weigh. Have a goal of 190 and I am going to make it and maintain it once there. yeah anyone can lose if they set thier mind to it for I had tried for years to keep from gaining and no luck. I finally found what it took for my body. I can also say it was never a problem with meeting ladies or dating that was the easy part. The hard part is I was not feeling like I was myself and I found out I was right. after a stroke and developing diabeties due to weigh I knew it was time to be serious and I have lost and will continue to until I reach my goal. so if you have the problem it is a mind set thing that you have to beat in your own mind and you have to say it is for you not anyone else. for if you think it is for a loved one or a friend or anybody then you are defeated right from the start. I know, been there and done it. the doing it for others is an added bonus to help you but always for yourself no matter what. Now a lot of guys think that they can't get a fine looking lady if they are large or over weight. That is a crock of BS for the last g/f I had was a double to sandra bullock so thats a load that some guys carry that is not so.
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Posted: 6/12/2005 8:20:38 PM | | The only thing said I didnt agree with was the statement about not wanting to change if I have it my way I would like to be taller not skinner Ive accepted myself for who I am I dont eat alot of crap I have a super slow metabilistion and I dont burn calories well. I know some ones gonna say well then you need to work out more well ive been for 5 years now weightlifting, walking playing sports I usally lose a few pounds but never a lot. I just wish certain women would see you for what you are I hate how if I wanna talk to a fairly attrative women she has to to drunk also im very shy around women unless im wasted myself. its kinda sad what america has become. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2005 8:37:50 PM | hey raiderfan, I lift weighs as well but I don't go in for heavy weighs. I think if I am not wrong that muscle weighs more than fat. Not saying to stop working out I enjoy it as well but I work out with light weigh and work until I have worked a good sweat. I may be wrong in it but it works on my body. learn what your body takes to help you lose thats the trick to it. and guy you are young you have a great deal of living to do don't let shyness take and control you. force yourself every chance you get to fight it. It will pay off and you can win against the shyness.
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Posted: 6/13/2005 7:46:34 PM | Moundpuppy:
You get a very major tip of my hat, Sir. Less than 1000 calories a day is downright scarey. And 353 pounds lost and still counting. My head is simply spinning. You have tremendous willpower; I dare say a lot of people would not even be able to come close to doing what you have done, even if their lives depended on it. You are an absolute inspiration! It also takes a lot of courage to open up to total strangers as you have. You get a very major tip of the hat from me on all counts, Kind Sir.
I have been blessed with weight problems for all of my life. Not even a comparison to what you have been through, though. When I was fourteen I weighed 207 pounds at a few inches shorter than I am now. My physical education teacher put me on a regime of 1500 calories a day. As I recall it took the better part of a year to get down to 149 pounds at that rate. I actually wound up being far too thin at that time, if you can believe it. I did stay down for a while, but as time went on so did the weight again. It was sheer hell trying to make it on 1500 calories. I can't even begin to imagine what it must be like trying to do on 1000.
I am currently 230 pounds; I would like to get down to 185. I'm not quite in the right mindset to do that yet. When I am ready, you are absolutely right, I will do it for me and nobody else.
Unlike you, I do have a great deal of difficulty meeting women. A lot of that stems from the environment I grew up in. Dating and the social skills required to engage in it were some of the plethora of "nasty" things my mother constantly "protected" me from when I was younger and I'm dearly paying the price for that now. A lot of the skills I should have picked up in my teens are just coming to me now.
You and a few other great people in this community have helped me to realize that the problem is not with me. You have given me the inspiration to just go for it. I can have somebody wonderful in my life. And I will.
Can't thank you enough. If I can ever return the favour in any way, please just ask. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2005 7:55:18 PM | Raiderfan24:
If she can't be "real" for you, then she isn't worth bothering about anyway.
If you likewise feel that you have to alter your state to be with her, then she's also not worth bothering about. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2005 5:22:56 PM | guys I know a lot of people don't do this and some say it is bad for you but I have seen this work and it works well. My nephew and sister are living proof of the atkins diet. My nephew went down from 268 pounds to 174 in four months. My sister his mother has went from a size 22 outfit to a 13 in less than three. Now I know I could have tried this but I am not fond of meat. and with diabeties I have to watch closely the protien that I take in and build in my system. I do the diet every so often as well but usually for a two week stretch. I usually lose but I can't handle the meats so I get off and go back to my usual diet. My nephew lost his almost a year ago and he has maintained the weight. If he sees that he is going up he takes and goes back on the diet and brings it back to where he wants to be and then gets off it. it is a thought if you are trying to lose and have troubles.
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Posted: 6/14/2005 5:39:20 PM | | mp, dr. atkins got his ideas from a diabetic diet. diabetics are supposed to stay away from carbs, especially simple sugars, which pretty much go straight to your blood stream or are immediately stored as fat. this does NOT mean to cut out carbs completely, even if you are diabetic. the biggest problem with the atkins diet gaining popularity is the same problem that occurrs with anything new - people , for the most part, are too stupid to actually find out what is actually involved. they usually tend to think that the diet says that as long as you aren't consuming carbs, you can eat anything you want, which isn't the case. the diet is about eating sensibly, so that your body gets what it needs, without overloading on the things it doesn't. people also tend to think that the diet is about cutting out carbs completely, which also isn't true. if you severely limit your carbohydrate intake, you will lose weight, but you won't be any healthier. when you go cold turkey from carbs, your body goes into starvation mode. you will lose fat, but your body will also start to cannibalize muscle tissue, so you get smaller and weaker at the same time. if you want to drastically reduce your carb intake, you should step down gradually, to give your body a chance to adjust, to prevent that reaction. most people consume a lot more carbs than they actually need, which was the idea behind the diet in the first place. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 6/14/2005 7:10:11 PM | | Yess I would.because I look at whats on the inside not the oustide.although we should both be attracted to one another.but I think guys that are chubby are so cute and cuddly.big guys need love too. and so do little women. | |
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