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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 8/31/2005 7:42:35 PM | I am a big guy....
And i know first hand that most women dont even give me a chance because i am big.....
Atleast give me the chance to show you who i am on the inside.....
Dont judge right away on appearence.....cmon people! | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 8/31/2005 8:49:12 PM | | I have to say this, after reading most of these replies and seen the responses of women that say they would date fat guys I have come to some conclusions, I obviously either live in the wrong part of the country, am too fat or just plain way too unattractive because I can't seem to get a date to save my soul. And I like to think I am an honestly genuine great guy, or so my female "friends" tell me. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 9/1/2005 6:50:55 AM | | I wouldn't...I do not find fatness attractive...and it also doesn't go hand in hand with my lifestyle. I dig people who take care of themselves...besides, I've had a lot of negative experiences in the workplace with people who are obese...the work ethic isn't there a lot of the time. Nothing worse to me than laziness! | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 9/1/2005 9:09:17 AM | @ Sharon.
Just cause a person is heavy or fat does not mean they dont take care of themselves. They can have a medical problem or something. My best friend is heavy set. She diets & excersizes all the time. Eating the right foods.But she cant lose it.
Im not talking just about just you but ppl should not say things lioke that unless they know why ppl r like they r.
I would date a heavy person. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 9/1/2005 9:16:42 AM | hey people since we have a thread on would any of u women date a fat guy? How about one on would any of u guys date fat women????
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 9/1/2005 7:48:46 PM | | If a person has a health condition and they are overweight, I totally understand their situation. I still would not date an obese person. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 9/1/2005 7:49:03 PM | well, I never really think that my little extra 10-15 lbs bothers anyone. I know my brain takes up most of my extra weight. besides, gals dig me | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 9/1/2005 8:31:06 PM | Bus if I ever get to Danville........I'm coming to get you Honey. Your a keeper.
I actually do have a cousin in Penn. who is a chiropractor, named Lauretta. I just may fly in there someday. Then we'd have to go out and chat and just see how fat you really are? | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 10/23/2005 10:03:06 PM | I would date a chubby guy, it's not what's on the outside, but what's on the inside that counts, over years body changes of both parties, but its the person inside that counts afterall, isn't it? 
JeNn | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 10/23/2005 10:17:50 PM | i personally think a man with a little more to him is more attractive then skin and bones or muscle-bound morons so yes, IF the guy was more than just his weight yes, i would date a FAT guy there is more to a person then weight | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 10/23/2005 10:37:05 PM | Yes......Teddy Bear built........perfect description......thank you!
Yes, my very favorite. Always has been, since before I was age 21 and extremely thin.
There is just something about them I can't resist. They are so adorable with their sweet, loving personalities, very cuddly and usually very funny.......all of which I need. When I look at them......all I see is sheer beauty.
Some of you may have seen the movie, "Shallow Hal" with Jack Black and Gwyneth Paltro........if you saw it, you will have an idea of exactly what I see when I look at these
cuddly teddy bears. Teddy bears are definitely the ones for me. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 10/23/2005 10:52:35 PM | I agree with you 100% salamonie. The skinny guys, and the hunky idiots, are usually very shallow, I like guys who are open minded.  | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 10/23/2005 11:58:01 PM | OK ITS OFFICIAL I AM LIVING IN THE WRONG STATE or the girls down here in miami are very shallow. I have seen a few threads like these with women (who i consider) to be attractive who would give guys like me a chance but for some uknown reasons the girls down here in miami are not responding to my messeges and its simple for ex:
Hello, I have read your profile and I have to admit, I like what I have read/seen and I am instrested. So after you have read my profile and assuming that you are also intrested send me a message
or something similar like that | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 10/24/2005 12:19:43 AM | i'm 20, and i've dated extremely large guys before.
really, i'm a nice girl in the sense that i'm cordial to everyone i meet -- no matter what. but on the inside, i don't really like them much. i just see no point in being mean. it takes a LOT to impress me, and it's mostly intellect, interests and humor that do it. (actually the humor is a deal breaker-- if you can't handle how crass and politically incorrect i am, then it just won't work out.. even as friends.)
the guy could be pushin' 450, and if he caught my eye for internal reasons then i wouldn't hesitate for even a second to date him.
a hot ass can only get you boys so far... and with me, it isn't very far at all. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 11/6/2005 12:16:13 AM | | I dated a guy who was a teddy bear. He was the mosty confident, smooth, sweet guy I have ever met. His diabetes became out of control, and he had to take time to control it. It's been a long road, with numerous complications. If I had my wish, he and I would be together right now...We're still friends, but man I miss him!! | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 11/6/2005 11:26:33 AM | Two weeks ago I would have said NO way....but then I met this guy online and we talked on the phone for an hour and a half....I knew I had to meet him....we just seemed to have a connection. He warned me on the phone that he wasn't a skinny man.....I said that was fine. We went out the next night for coffee, and I was a little surprised by his appearance, He's a bit large, but it didn't matter.....I am attracted to what's on the inside and that makes his outside look really good to me. I am not normally attracted to larger men....but this one suits me just fine. He's an absolute sweetheart!  | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 11/6/2005 1:01:34 PM | Love this question. I really like big men but there are some preferences attached to that. Fat yes, but sloppy fat, no. Fat yes, but bad dresser, no. Fat yes, but gigantic belly, no.
My first internet date was a disaster because the guy lied about his looks (and prattled on endlessly about his ex). He arrived at the restaurant first, was seated when I got there and it wasn't until the end of the date that I discovered his belly was two basketballs deep. It had been sitting under the table the whole time. I could see he was beefy, and I liked that. Big shoulders, muscled but still overweight, and that was okay. But, man, there was just no way to ever have sex with him. I couldn't have gotten close enough or been comfortable in any way but perhaps on top...and that didn't interest me in the long term. SO, rather than suggest he lose weight to meet my needs, I told him I didn't think we had enough in common to keep things going. I would have loved the cuddling with that bear of a man, but was looking for the whole package. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 11/8/2005 5:04:17 PM | I agree with you about someone loving you for yourself and no one should accept anything less. I am not into dating men that are really thin, its always better to have someone that you can hold onto that isn't just skin and bone. Good luck and remember that there is always someone out there for everyone....no matter what the outside looks like... and it is always what is on the inside of a persons heart that matters most. Time and patience....everything happens in time you just have to be patient enough for fate to decide when it is time for you to meet the right person.
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 11/8/2005 5:08:11 PM | oops just realised that i needed to show whose posting I was responding too lol
My posting was in response to flcowboy's post | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 11/8/2005 5:13:29 PM | First of all may I just say that the word "fat" is offensive. Perhaps a more politically correct word could be "heavy" or "chunky", "larger" or something like that.
I definitely am attracted to a man who is tall and with "meat on his bones". My ex-fiancee was almost 400 pounds and 6 ft 5 inches. Our breakup had nothing to do with his size.
I know it sounds cliche but it definitely is what's inside that counts with me.
But what it all boils down to is personal preference so we really can't criticize people:
a) because they are larger OR
b) that some of us prefer or are attracted to a larger man.
That's just my humble opinion for what it's worth.
Everyone deserves a shot at happiness in his/her life!!!! | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 11/8/2005 5:20:42 PM | | I would normally agree with you, but a few years ago I was very active and slim, then was involded in a hit and run now I have a mobilty problem, getting out and doing things like walking and running is not easy but I do make an effort, I look at things differently now. If you can't accept a person by their looks or disabilty then its not love, cause love comes from with and works its way out, so it shouldn't matter what a person looks like. My wife had one breast cause of cancer does that mean I stop loving her, No it didn't I knew about it when i married her, she recently passed away, and she taught me that you can allow your heart to accept or reject, | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 12/13/2005 11:15:19 AM | I get replies from women of all sizes. However, there are a significant number of women who do the 'read' deleted. Now, I could whine and moan and groan about how shallow these women are, but at the same time sometimes they're just NOT interested. Perhaps due to the fact that I am a 'few extra pounds' kind of a guy. Could be I'm just not their type.
As the adage on this site goes, some women get 100s of emails per day so I can well understand why I see the "read-deleted" thing on occasion. At the same time, I have been contacted by and actually dated 1 highly attractive woman from here.
I think it comes down to this: Women say they are interested in what's on the inside. Viewing a person on this site without taking the time to talk w/them is sort of like trying to shop for clothes online or out of a catalog. There are clothes we feel are a safe bet due to being familiar w/them from previous experience, so all we need do is select the size and style we prefer. OTOH, other clothes are unknown, and while we might inevitably select them, without being able to touch, feel, examine and become more aquainted with what this article of clothing really is we simply pass on it. In the same way, people on here (women AND men) who receive a lot of emails pick and choose based on what they're familiar with. The sad part about this is in many cases, I'm sure this is while they're still seeking. There has to be a reason these 'familiar types' haven't worked in the past. Unless of course...you're a glutton for punishment...
Looks don't last...what's inside does...Have fun  | |
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