| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/13/2005 11:20:31 AM | Yes I would.. and I have... for me it doesn't matter how much he weighs.. however, I must be honest.. if he's not active again doesn't matter if he's 90lbs soaking wet or 450lbs..its just not gonna happen..
I dated a few guys who all they wanted to do was sit in front of the TV and nosh.. and they have been on both sides of the spectrum.. so I would as long as he's active. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/13/2005 11:31:02 AM | Honestly, if he was obese, no.
But a teddy bear, someone with some padding, I don't mind. And I have dated that type. I prefer someone who carries their weight well. And a cute face/nice smile doesn't hurt.
Everyone in my family is average to chunky. I'd rather have a teddy bear rather than skin and bones. I don't like deathly skinny men. They scare me! | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/13/2005 11:36:22 AM | Mcbobly
Well I think you are really cute...... to bad you don't live close. That is, if you like big girls.
As far as I am concerned, I think Big guys are GREAT !!!!!!! teddy bears nice and cuddly, I need one.
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/27/2005 8:58:01 AM | | Personaly, I've never dated big guy before, but i have been friends with them. And I deffinitly wouldn't turn one down. I judge ppl more on personality anyway. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/27/2005 10:25:27 AM | WoW! And all this time I thought I had problems dating because of my weight? Hmmm... maybe my sister was right when she told me I had the "Beezlebub" look? LMAO! I often get told that I am intimidating and look "mean". Maybe that's the real reason? Man, I feel dumb now....  | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/27/2005 11:45:36 AM | I have and I will again. I do prefer bigger guys. It all depends on the person. For me the person inside is a lot more important than the appearnce, but some kind of attraction is still crucial.
Maybe you are trying too hard. Myself I try to keep the first emails short, and do like you do, talk about things in common or traits I like about the person.
Anyway, that's my opinion Lenore | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/27/2005 2:41:52 PM | hey scottymac I was yold not long ago that my size and my appearance is intiminating. I just looked at the girl that told me for I know her quite well. Now the talk was over a different issue than we are talking here but the thought struck me funny at the time. I asked her to explain to me what she meant. She did and I just laughed for she told me if she had not known me she would think I was mean and grumpy most of the time. She did however telll me i was a big ole teddy bear in the same sentence. This lady I have known for 32 years. thinking of maybe persueing her a mite. I asked her once if she would date a fat guy and she said why not as long as he is a nice guy and not mean or pushy with his size. that told me a lot at the time.
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/28/2005 7:39:06 AM | it depends. I wouldn't want the guy to have a bigger gut then me Because logistically to large guts do not make a proper fit Been there, tried that. It just didn't work for me. | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/28/2005 8:03:22 AM | fat guys? no chunky? maybe little padding? maybe I like someone who takes care of themselves and would push me into keeping active.Just a personal choice | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/28/2005 10:36:37 AM | i love big men...and why?cause they make me feel safe,i love how they feel when they wrap their loving arms around me hey,by the way..has anyone seen my teddy bear? | |
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| Would any of you Ladies date fat guys? Posted: 12/28/2005 10:48:06 AM | no. i don't find sweaty fat rolls attractive.
plus, they're too hard to shop for. i'm not giving up the extra $2 for plus sizes | |
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