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| What's this for??? [do men understand a woman's body]
Posted: 3/30/2008 5:08:08 PM | Men just fiddle - that can be just fine - unless you really want to 'get off'! Once we communicate exactly what we want and direct them to our specific 'zones' - magic can happen!! When the fiddling becomes controled and specific we all win!!  | |
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| What's this for??? [do men understand a woman's body]
Posted: 3/30/2008 5:21:55 PM | Experiment! Communicate!
OH! Lee already said that! lol
S-l-o-w......when she quivers, mark the spot with a BUOY!
'Course, if sex is SLAM, BAMM, who cares?
Slllooooowww....bllloooowwwww
dive! dive! dive! like it there dear?
"EGOR! That feels GOOD!!"
"YES...master!"
Hell, even Frankenstein is a good lover if he would go slow,
learn some 'druthers' from his mate. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 5:47:01 PM | can say the same thing about women though lol
most things are simple , a woman is going to like what a bloke likes untill , the parts that are differnt lol | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 6:52:58 PM | | there are men out there who can teach women about their own bodies...............I for one, would be a willing and most attentive student....:) | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 6:57:39 PM | I think men that 'fiddle' as so eloquently stated by the OP are asking us to teach them. If you got yourself a 'fiddler' and its not workin for ya...good lordy TEACH HIM.
...and of course...you will not be a good teacher if you yourself do not know your body.
so ladies, make sure you know yourself and don't be shy to tell your partner what you need to make the experience satisfying for you.
as always, just my humble opinion | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 7:33:26 PM | laugh, I guess some fiddle but this isn't math class , a womans body is more like um,, auto shop class err body shop 101 , one can read all the books in the world and never get a straight fender you have to take your time after class and practice and put your hands on the project and spend time learning what works , every car is different ;too much pressure on one body and you sand through not enough and your there all night trying to feather the edges, really in the end if you look at it and say wow it looks great it all started with the prep workand thats not found in a book ..... Greg
EDIT: man in the boat lol i guess im the captain | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 7:47:45 PM | The little man in the boat sheesh menpeople make his acquaintance!
To find the little man...spread the labia apart gently using both hands. Do you see the soft folds of the labia? What? You can't tell the lips apart??? The inner lips are pink and moist...and frilly ...hey we are women. Notice that near the top of the lips the inner labia almost comes together then splits apart again to form a little hood ?..Do you see it?? Just like a miniature penis but much cuter... well that is the little man in the boat. Pet ... touch...explore...adore  | |
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Posted: 3/30/2008 8:26:58 PM | LOL I love you Indigo !!!! You always make me smile when I read your posts!
Now for the topic. Ok I think I know a womans body rather well, but I also know every woman is different, so yes I fiddle. Hell I have found places a woman loved she didn't even know she loved before. I'm amazed at the number of that don't learn and experiment on there partners bodies.
Now I have also found places that drove one lady nuts in a pleasurable way and another woman nuts in a negative way.
So like The Who says "Fiddle About" Lol!!! | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 1:20:38 AM | I have learned a few things in my vast years. One of the most important is that what works for one man or woman in bed doesn't always work for another.
Communication IS the key and I have noooo problem offering gentle directions, but what about the guys who say nothing? Do you like this? "Oh yeah, baby, anything you do is great." Ha! How about I stop, you like that? lol tell me how you want me to dooooo iiiiiiit or I'lll stoooooop (grin) They start talkin FAST.
Basically, I understand my body and if I want someone else to understand it, it's best not left to guesswork. And vice versa. And nothing beats a live demonstration  | |
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Posted: 3/31/2008 3:25:45 AM | Oh yes, there is one, actually ... sorry, was one. Harold Robbins. Goodness Me  he knew woman's body and reading his books made my spine tingle with excitment and wish to find someone like him who is there to please ... and trigger ... and share all wonders two people can relish & cherish when becoming one. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2008 7:23:48 AM | | Everyone (woman) is different, fiddling can be one of two things, not knowing you or not knowing period. Problem is, if it turns out to be not knowing and he is over 20, then it could be a long road. If it's not knowing you then it only gets better each time. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2008 8:13:14 AM | If you are in tune with your partner, and she's not misleading you by faking it, it should be fairly obvious. Women, like men, have individual differences in what they like. A good lover is highly tuned into to pleasuring their partner, and gets about the same pleasure from their enjoyment as they do their own.
With a woman, and this may sound sexist, I think that the mind is the key. If you give her the right "mental stimulation" , then the rest gets a lot easier to accomplish. Of course, the same can be said of men as well. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2008 8:21:53 AM | hmmm, when i bring up parabens oozing from the bartholin glands or speaking of the skenes' gland or the mons pubis etc. it doesn't seem to be appreciated.
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Posted: 4/22/2008 2:09:05 AM | | I had girlfriend show the little man in the boat that Indigo described so eloquently. And ever sense then I been doing a little bit of fiddling and a whole lot tongue flicking trying to knock that little man out of the boat, sometimes there is juices flowing I need a boat or at least a slicker. But women have a lot other areas that need attention also and each one is different so try to communicate with her and do a little exploring and remember if you stimulate the BRAIN the rest will follow | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 6:39:18 AM | | Well as bold and arrogant as this may sound I don't think I'm far off. I can only speak for my experiences and those I've heard from my male and female friends, but I think the majority of men are a tad clueless. I'm talking a smaller majority though, and no 90% or anything. I think I'm in the upper category here though, as I am fully aware of the female body and there isn't much that surprises me. If I'm with someone new it doesn't take me much more than a few minutes to test out all the possible erogenous zones and find her buttons. Not****....just realistic. LOL | |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 12:17:08 PM | | okay guys i am going to help you.cuddling helps you discover a womens body and you dont have to ask those imbarrassing question when you have sex.lay on the couch behind a women holding her hand alot of women dont nkow they are giving away there secreat but they are try it you will be shocked. | |
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