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Posted: 4/1/2006 9:26:49 PM | The only thing I'm guilty of judging too quickly is that he's a fake.
As for what he is fessing up to or was proposing to do here on POF ... he has to live with his own conscience and hope for his sake that some of our fishies didn't get caught up in it.
It didn't appear that he was here long enough to pollute the pond too badly. The fishing is still good.
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Posted: 4/1/2006 11:24:10 PM | Totally fake & bogus.
Just some yahoo out to stir up some controversy by posting
inane drivel.
YOU ARE 100% CORRECT. JUST WANTS TO READ ALL THE BS THAT WILL COME BACK.
THE ONLY GAL HE HAS IS ROSIE AND HER 4 SISTERS. HE NEEDS TO STOP SLEEPING WITH HIS HANDS UNDER THE COVERS AND FIND THE REAL DEAL. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2006 4:28:35 AM | Asabovesobelow
"you're a smart man, younghuckelberry....and sad to say probly smarter than most of the peeps on here replying to the OP"
Ouch ! I don't know if I or the others on this thread really would appreciate such a judgement about us. I don't know if it is a smart thing to say (to put to you in another way).....
Actually, just maybe its you who was the original POSTER after all it was a he and you seem to know a lot about this  but of course you are smart....javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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Posted: 4/2/2006 10:34:24 AM | Wow thankx so much for being so honest!It makes me rethink staying on this site and dating more players like your self. Wow your g/f must be a real catch since you were on here looking to cheat on her! If you and her get married clearly here she is the winner! What more could she ever hope for but a cheating husband!
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Posted: 4/2/2006 10:50:28 AM | | dont let the door hit ya on the way out bro...and you all should stop criticizing....hes doing a good thing, and besides what he was doing is why many of us are here anyway...if everyone would just be open about why they are here we all wouldnt have to play guessing games | |
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Posted: 4/2/2006 11:35:52 AM | OK he's gone like he said - deleted his account...
Not to swim against the tide here but 'if' it wasn't a bogus story - shouldn't he get some credit for being straight forward - maybe he came on here to post, take his ass whoppin, clear his guilty conscious and move on, realizing he made a big gigantic mistake
we don't know the whole situation of his so called 'relationship' - relationships do suffer meltdowns from time to time and some people deal with it in strange ways - such as seeking another to fill the void...wrong approach but it is reality
my only concern is about the loads of em still on here - if it was factual - at least he came forward, admitted his wrong and left with his tail between his legs - the others are still swimming around PoF like sharks waiting for their next prey...
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Posted: 4/2/2006 11:57:49 AM | | Give him credit for what? He will be unfaithful again. Myself, I feel sorry for the poor girl because she probably does not have a clue. Whether this thread is fake or real there are alot of men out there that have no idea of what true commitment is. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2006 12:29:35 PM | Ssweet - what you say is probably true - he may very well be unfaithful again - then again maybe not - not ALL people need to be hit in the head with a 2x4 more than once to know it hurts
Some do learn lessons and sometimes those lessons are learned and discovered on their own without others being hurt in the meantime
IF his story is true - it's very sad for her since we heard his side and she didn't, but hypothetically IF he was going to do what he said and appreciate what he has with her hasn't he made a decent step towards that, deleting his account and focusing on them as a couple and putting his cheating ways aside, is it fair for us to predict his future behavior?
I've not cheated on anyone myself and quite frankly would never - however reality is it happens all the time. We heard ONE side, there's not much justification for cheating but some can see the error in their ways and try to make amends, it does happen
A common theme in these threads is how ppl wish others were HONEST - seems when they are - they take a beating from hell by most posters, kinda like a no win situation
No maybe he didn't deserve congrats on his way out but he at least deserved some respect for being honest and attempting to effect a change in his behavior | |
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Posted: 4/2/2006 1:54:15 PM | rawj ...
also it would be rosie and her five friends unless he only has 4 fingers. I only have four fingers on each hand ... I also have a thumb on each hand.
I wonder if we need to start referring to "5-finger discounts" as "4-fingers and a thumb discounts"?
Is a "high 5" really a "high 4 and a thumb"?
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Posted: 4/2/2006 2:50:50 PM | Yeah, but..many of you missed a different point! Its not only about his relationship with his girlfriend. its about his lying to all the other women here, too. He was still pretending to be someone he wasn't, and dragging these women into his own personal problems.
This happened to me once when I discovered that I had begun dating a married man. Dropped him like a hot potato when I figured it out. Had to make a soul searching decision about informing his wife, too. It made me feel angry and very manipulated. As my good, good single buddy said to me, its hard enough to be single out there, without being dragged into other people's marital problems. And lying, is lying, is lying, is lying. If the guy really wanted to right a wrong, he would have phoned each and every woman that he played and appologized to her. But that would have taken some real effort and humility, as well as some real courage. Just posting here made him feel like a good guy (which he isn't). And being a coward is a heck of alot easier. As long as the "girlfriend" doesn't know, he can just do whatever he pleases to her and to everyone else.
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Posted: 4/2/2006 2:54:36 PM | Usually I dont like to see people leaving pof unless they have found someone. You will not be missed! It is guys like you that lead women on and cheat on them that makes it harder for decent SINGLE men to earn a womans trust. I pity your gf because you may be doing the right thing now but I would bet that you will still try to cheat on her at a later date. Remember if you ever come back to be honest at put on your profile that you have a gf and are looking to cheat. That way the women you contact will know who and what you are.  | |
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Posted: 4/2/2006 5:57:27 PM | Ok, ok.
As said before, people have their own opinions, and they are entitled to that.
However, we ARE, all still human beings, are we not. Therefore, we DO, make mistakes, do we not.
However, I WILL, still, give the guy credit for at LEAST, being "Man Enough" of owing up to it, when it was wrong for him to do what he did, even though he was on here for only a short period of time.
I am trying to look at it from a prospective, of AT LEAST, what he did RIGHT, of owning up to it. He didn't have to, but he did.
Man, I cannot beleive, how fast, some, and I Say and "Emphasize" "SOME", people on this site are to judge, of the wrong doings of what someone did, and so slow in giving a little bit of praise, and credit for what the same person did right.
Further more, it also makes me wonder WHY, I stick around here, even though, and I say this dilligently, I have not done the same thing.
However, I have got more important things to do, then argue this whole thing, any further.
I have heard your point of view, and you have heard mine.
So, I am going to wish you all, a good evening, and all the best, and I will leave this discussion for you people to argue it out amoung yourselves.
Thank you.
Sincerely
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Best Wishes
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Posted: 4/2/2006 6:21:39 PM | I hope you don't marry her. You aren't ready for monogamy and mature love.
She deserves what all women deserve, a guy who is truthful.
And guys deserve exactly the same from women...honesty.
If we were all honest and real, life would be so much simpler. ...... rnhugs | |
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