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Posted: 4/13/2006 1:43:14 AM | Jester...I agree that a large percentage of men and women lie, or at least embellish the truth...and I also agree that a large number of men and women on this site and others are actually in relationships or married. But: if you ARE married, why won't you say so in your profile? Why waste anybody's time...time is precious, and I for one certanly do not appreciate having to evaluate "innuendos". The other question is, whether your wife does know you are on this site? If she does, and she is OK with it, well, so be it. Third question: if you would find out your wife is on the site, and giving "innuendos" to single men...would that bother you?
But this also brought up another question in my mind: at what point do people pull their profile? Obviously, at least in my opinion, they should idelete their profile f they are in a committed relationship...but can a relationship develop into anything serious, if either or both parties are still "looking"? | |
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Posted: 4/14/2006 7:51:41 PM | SSWEET2293,,
How DARE you say such a thing,, "Typical Man" ???
Sweetie, haven't you been further then a block from your home ?
I feel & im SURE quite a few other REAL men,, that you owe us an apology.
Yes there are some REAL azzholes just like the OP here who should just go jump from a bridge & do ALL the female Gender a favor but Cmon now,, what you said there is SO SO SO unfair,
I just met a BEAUTIFUL,, INTELLIGENT,, VERY SWEET woman on this site & may God bless her & YES that IS posted on my profile too,, right up front where EVERYONE can see it.
I think now that if YOU are any kind of REAL woman,, you will Email me & apologise & every other REAL man on this site that you just insulted for NO reason,, you claim to be well educated,, we shall see if you have a heart to go along with it. Michael | |
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Posted: 4/15/2006 6:55:12 PM | First off Princess...great reply.
I agree with you 100% about if you are married to put it in your profile. Unfortunately, it is not going to happen as we both know as the nature of many people is to put what other people want to see or hear on their profile so they will get as many "bites" (plentyoffish...get it? hehe) as they can. Yes this is misleading and yes we all have or will come across someone who did it. But not just on websites like this, it happens in real life. So we can not just blame people who do it on the sites, we have to look at it happening all over every day.
My innuendos have been spewing out of my mouth since high school...no it never worked but it was fun. I do it to my friends and they all do it back. This doesn't mean we want to sleep with each other. I think of it more as playful ego boosters.
As far as my being married and doing it and being on this site...as I stated, I am looking for people to communicate with and this happens to be one of the only free sites left. Since I am not looking to hook up with anyone, I am not going to pay. I personally have been celebate over 2 years. You might say yeah right, but there is good reason. My wife doesn't live in the country. And I anxiously await her arrival. We talk almost every night on webcam. And no we don't cyber.
I work, I come home and work on the house I just bought for us and on my days off I work on the house or do side jobs. This is to provide a better life for her than she has now. The only problem is that I do not go to bars as I do not drink anymore and since I spend so much time working on the house I do not meet anyone nearby. I work over an hour away and anyone I know at work is definately not going to come to my house to hang out. So since I am going out of my mind with boredom, I looked for other alternative measures to help my in my plight to have somewhat of a life. Not working so far...probably because I put that I am married on my profile hehehe.
I "allow" my wife to talk to anyone whom she pleases on the internet and I do not question it. I have to have trust in her otherwise what did I marry her for? Certainly not just to get laid as my over 2 year streak would prove.
I do not see anything wrong with people coming here to meet people... not everyone wants to roll around on the side. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2006 7:42:22 PM | You know the best bit?
Watching all you guys bickering over all sorts of things totally unrelated to the subject matter. 
Everyone is convinced they are right and stands their ground and fights about it. 
Regardless of the April Fools day posting or someone who has been rejected and trying to make it look publically like HE didn't want HER afterall.....(pretty obvious I would think) has anyone considered this?
It takes compromise and empathy to have a relationship. Not bloody minded I AM RIGHT ALL THE TIME attitude.
How many chiefs does it take to sink a ship? Oh...ONE actually. I a relationship we both row together...... Insults and big heads and big mouths may impress teenagers. Rarely does it impress adults.
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Posted: 4/15/2006 11:33:45 PM | | Its men like that,that ruin it for the rest of you guys out here,unfortunately,he plants the seed that the rest of you guys,might be up to the same tricks,therefore,making the rest of us women wondering if we are being 2-timed too!Are men just fishing? like checking to see if grass is greener,lead some girl who is genuinely on here to meet someone for a real relationship to believe he"s the one,only to find out he was fishing and toying with 2 person"s heart,mind and body! There is no sure way of knowing till you find out more about a person,its refreshing to know,at least there is one less jerk out here playing games!!ADIOS!!! | |
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Posted: 5/28/2006 2:43:26 PM | It is people like coffeenogood that make some folks leary of others on here. I have to whole heartedly agree that I too hope she finds out about your sneaky round the sites looking for sex partners. I also hope that your first girl friend, your right hand, rejects you when she wises up and kicks your dumb ass to the curb.
 Ladies please realize that this Cro-magnun  the hell out of us that hope to meet with a wonderful person to have talks, walks, and  with.
Little minds are attached to little dinks. May this lady attached to this  loser not waste much of her life with him. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2006 7:01:20 AM | | This is my first post on a forum but I had to jump on this bandwagon. This sounds too stupid to be true. To this jerk, I would just like to say Thanks for confirming what some women already think about our gender. If you made a mistake and are sorry, quietly deal with it and don’t keep doing it. In short...grow up. Unfortunately, I have a feeling you’ll be back. I think that post was just a backhanded way of bragging and a way to make yourself feel better. How'd that work out for ya? | |
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Posted: 6/1/2006 11:58:53 AM | | Well I am glad you are getting off the site...I don't want to judge you as I don't know all the facts...but it is sad when we are all looking for that truly special one and you are on here like others using the site to just cheat... | |
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Posted: 6/1/2006 1:07:32 PM | What's interesting is that he closed his profile 2 months ago and there are still people posting messages to him. A point of view I didn't see addressed since was that his original post seemed similar to a suicide note. He may have made up the gf story to back up how wonderful a person (he thinks) he is only to make those who rejected him feel like they missed out on a great guy who can admit when he's wrong. (Gosh, isn't that what some women want.... a guy that can be changed?)
He's probably dead now. Let him rest. Stop beating a dead horse('s ass). | |
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