| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 12:27:43 PM | | booze can make me quiet.... the next day | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 12:31:08 PM | as others have said, i'm painfully shy i groups....they scare me stiff, .....work is ok, but around social groups scarey stuff for me....main reason why i've never been to a pof function. lol.......but when i'm around people i know and love....then they're begging me to shut it....lol | |
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Habfan
| Joined: 3/22/2005 Msg: 78 | |
| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 12:41:50 PM | | bluelicorice, no excuse you live in Nanaimo and there is a huge get together there tomorrow full of all the greatest people. Some of us even adopt newbies. Oh yeah and I think you need a picture. | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 12:46:08 PM | | Thats odd, booze makes me very quiet the next day occasionally as well. Hmmmm, wonder why.... | |
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Habfan
| Joined: 3/22/2005 Msg: 80 | |
| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 1:13:26 PM | You are so quiet from the shock of what you woke up next to. OK sorry I thought it was funny at the time and of course I will still post it. I know you understand | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 1:22:37 PM | thanks for the vote of confidence habfan.....oh and i'm workin on the pic  | |
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Habfan
| Joined: 3/22/2005 Msg: 82 | |
| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 1:30:09 PM | Hey Bluelicorice, I just had an awesome idea to solve your picture problem. If you go to the big party in Nanaimo tomorrow and meet all the awesome people. Not only that you have such a good time you will wonder what you were so scared for. Somebodey will take your picture and there you go two birds killed with one stone. Thats how I got my picture of my tongue. You will have been to your first POF event and you will have a picture to put up.
Wow Am I good | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 1:33:23 PM | lol...my my you are persuasive........i'll consider it......just need to find someone to go with........:: | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 1:35:27 PM | Withya there HAB
A few have even seen that tongue in action
I really AM shy I just pretend not to be  | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 6:16:10 PM | When I feel shy, I joke around..when Im happy I joke around...when I avoid conflict I joke around..hmmmmmmm.......I wonder why no one takes me seriously?  | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/7/2006 8:43:45 PM | I have definately had to work up the courage to get out and socialize but if you don't you are pretty much stuck with Dust Bunnies as companions. I still struggle a bit with shyness.. I am new to POF and have to get out to one of the activities. Are there any bowling evenings. I think bowling can be fun...once in a while.
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/8/2006 7:44:05 AM | can't say I'm shy ...(accually I'm too far outgoing for most)..unless I am attracted to someone I tend to be a little shy at first. | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/8/2006 8:00:28 AM | I am very shy until I get to know people. I went to my first event with a very outgoing friend and met a few people which made the next event easier and after that there was no stopping me. Some people have even accused me of being a social butterfly now which is totally out of character for me. I still have my moments though and agree that a little alcohol goes a long way to curing shyness. | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/8/2006 8:07:52 AM | Shy? ^^^^^Yeah sure, chicky! I remember when we met at a POF event. Shy my A$$!!!!
And no, I am definately NOT shy. | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/8/2006 7:34:53 PM |
asking a girl/guy you have never met for a dance...What is the worst that can happen??
They laugh in your face, tell all their friends about it, spread it around the entire school, and you get mocked for it until you escape/graduate? | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/8/2006 7:45:53 PM | LOL, that's dark... Just ask, most people really want to dance. Some, though, are really bad dancers, and when they say "no, I don't dance", just drop it right there. | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/9/2006 12:51:29 AM | | OK after all these years - some has changed - group of strangers, I'm shy - it's one of the reasons some of us are here - it's hard to start conversations with a stranger - most if not as flowing since long time since the 80's partying days (ahah) work in CR no problems talking to strangers, enjoy people in general - in any group, need to test the waters first - just joined so that's what I'm doing now by joining forums, next meetings, so see how things go - I'm shy in group outings - better in smaller groups - like going out and doing things so people won't come knocking on my door - I have to do some steps so that's what I'm doing now- sometimes I'm better at writing about things than saying also - so this venue good to get things out - wish me good luck - | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/9/2006 12:58:30 AM | Good luck Lady Jaguar and welcome to the pond!
You shy? I think not.......Roooaaarrrrrr  | |
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a_vamp
| Joined: 4/24/2004 Msg: 94 | |
| Are you shy? Posted: 4/9/2006 3:42:00 AM | Generally NO, but I am sometimes... esp towards a guy I really like. Dunno why.... | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/9/2006 12:21:25 PM | I think most of us can be shy at times. Even tho' my friends would describe me as outgoing, I am usually a little reserved around new people until I get to know them. And yes, sometimes it can be misinterpreted as being snobby *sigh*. The POF events are great - everyone goes out of their way to welcome us newbies....you know who you are! | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/9/2006 12:41:47 PM | When I get in the odd shy mood...folks think I am just bein "coy" heheeh or is that Coi?  | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/9/2006 12:44:15 PM | | I think there's a difference between being "shy" and "quiet" :) HL - the two times I've met you, I haven't thought of you as shy - and not even quiet!!! The one thing I just CAN'T forget about you is that incredible smile and your gorgeous eyes!!! :) me? the only time I am shy is when the "spotlight" is on me... (I hate that) and when I'm in a room full of people I don't know... but pretty soon, I start chatting someone up, and I relax :) | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/9/2006 12:44:58 PM | __I am so shy...eh...I can't answer this. **running away with head down **
Doc  | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 4/9/2006 12:57:01 PM |
The one thing I just CAN'T forget about you is that incredible smile and your gorgeous eyes!!! You flirtin with me APB?? hehehe *winks with gorgeous eye tips hat and skips away* OT: All right! All you shy folks gotta get out and dance and meet folks. Oh and Doc....get yer a$$ back here, you are not shy ya rascal you !!! | |
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| Are you shy? Posted: 9/23/2006 1:49:03 PM | | I found this subject through the searches. I am not really "shy" as it were, but I tend to be reserved upon first meeting people. I seem to accept situations with meeting one person at a time. As opposed to introducing myself to an entire group. Once I know a person, however, I tend to be more relaxed and silly. | |
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