| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/21/2006 3:33:28 PM | [I wish people would just be more honest about their feelings. If you say you will call, then call! Don't play the game about...if she calls back she is insecure, if he does that blah blah blah.... If you want to talk with someone, do it, if you don't then let them know. Don't use contact as a test.]
I totally agree. I hate the should I wait for him to call or do I just pick up the phone and call myself.?? Dammit sometimes I just want to hear a voice and if I feel like calling I should be able to without worrying if I'm jumping the gun. | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/21/2006 3:51:32 PM | Well now what funny group the lot of you are !!
 
Okay how many of you believe that crap when they post a poll on something???
Look now that could have been 3 men they polled this question on !
I know I was never contacted about this poll ! And last time I checked I was and still am a male !
You people bust me up with all this crazy assed forums you post up with these redicullous polls you find online or in some $3 buck magazine .
Okay heres a poll I found .
All the ladies who ever dated firmbear8 for more then 6 months in the past 20 years .
(Did they all wished they would have married him now !!)
And with 100% of these ladies polled all 30 of them said yes they should have married him as he's got it too dam good being single and thats not right for a single guy his age to be single and having fun !! And their stuck pissed off and bored being maried !
Believe it or Not ! Repliey's
HAVE A NICE DAY ! HAVE A NICE DAY !  | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/21/2006 5:46:40 PM | I read the book and at first it made sense. Then as I progressed through it I thught what a load of crap....
there are so many reasons a man doesnt call and same for a woman.
How many woman have looked at the phone thinking of him and thought to themselves "I am not calling him, I will wait till he calls me"
So does this mean your not thinking of him?
silly games,
While it has been a long time since I played those type games..I for one dont miss them. If he doesn't call for a day or two, big deal....now if a week goes by thats another story.
However and let me be clear about this.........
"if you call and leave a message and more than 2 days go by without a return call?"
WELL HE/SHE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 55 | |
| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/21/2006 7:36:45 PM | I don't need to read a book to know when someone is not into me....what I need is a book to tell me how to know when someone IS into me...I have a hard time reading signals...I am beginning to think that a man will have to pull out the caveman club and just say "back to my cave...woman" for me to know for sure....lol | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/21/2006 7:45:19 PM |
@ Jet.. go figure why i'm still single
I think it might be the lack of a surround sound. Heh! They need to hear your love in 5.1 Dolby...  | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/21/2006 7:48:19 PM | Well if anyone needs abook to know anything about their love life then wooo your in trouble biggy time.
Haaahaa !
Books are for reading when your bored and nothng worth doing is at hand .
So take your books and toss them please . As theres no person other then the person who wrote that bloody book who has that exact probblem. So since everyone is different then why take the advice from some stupid book.
Its the dating world of singles so you won't know if you don't date people .
And stop expecting to find answers in a book their just crap.
If you want answers then get out and get datin !
Thats called doing it !!
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Move it your blocking dating road ahead !! | |
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Joined: 10/2/2004
Msg: 58 | |
| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/21/2006 8:30:34 PM | | very well said sex shooter! Dar50 it tells you how to know someone is into you also. Btw i did read the book and it makes perfect sense. | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/21/2006 9:11:28 PM | i believe some of the stuff inthe book but not all............... but it comes from both sides......... if your both into each other you both would call each other just to hear their voice and say hi........
i met a guy and we went out a few times and thought he was a great guy......... never heard from him again until one day when he messaged me to tell me he was sorry we didnt have contact for a month but his computer was down.......hmmmmmmm yah ok whatever... what happened to the good ole days of calling someone....... well that excuse didnt go over well with me............ delete block............. such is life..........lol | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/22/2006 5:02:40 AM | HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU IF..............
He contacts you "first" via email and says he wants to meet ......then calls you a couple of times to set a meeting time/date ( he suggests Tues.? and you say okay. Then he says "oh sorry I can't Tues")....( then he suggests Fri. and you say okay.... then he says "oh sorry, I can't Fri.") He changes the date two or three times, projects possibles dates & times and then cancels because he's busy with his other weekend activities, his job, his kids.........etc.
This goes on over the course of 3 weeks. He's a player. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU
He won't even agree to meet with you or even have " one date" because you're profile says "Dating that might lead to long term" or " Friends that might lead to long-term" and his profile says " Long-Term Relationship" He's being picky on the semantics of it all. If he boasts that he's not staying home on the weekends while you are. He's a player. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU
If you've been dating him for awhile and he's still dating others or continues to keep his profile up, he's a player.....HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
If you haven't even met yet but you've said in your profile that you like to vacation in Tim Buck Tu or other various parts of the world and he only goes to Florida or Vegas.....he might not be able to compromise. He might even be a player ( the slots) HE' JUST NOT INTO YOU.
When he makes the initial phone contact ( even before a meeting) and he starts asking questions about kissing & sex. He's a " player " HE'S LOOKING FOR A BOOTY CALL !!!!.......HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
SOME men aren't liking this book because it exposes them for "who they are" and it empowers women.
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/22/2006 8:21:56 AM | All I will say about this book..is it completely ruined a relationship I was in because she took the book TOO LITERALLY!
If you guys take the book to a degree you'll be fine, don't think that every guy is like that..I'll say it now..I won't call the day after I meet someone..I'll call them a couple days after arrange a second date or what have you..by all means doesn't mean I'm not into them..
As it was stated before..I don't remember being asked about this poll..hehe
But yeah this book if taken literally will destroy any relationship cause you start to double guess what he's doing.. | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/26/2006 4:35:44 PM |
SOME men aren't liking this book because it exposes them for "who they are" and it empowers women.
Well for starters it only relates to a certain type of man. It seems to again group us all in one category.Some women play the same childish games-Hell, you're playing them right now on this thread. Throw away the book and use your brains......Sheesh! | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/26/2006 4:44:18 PM | | This is soooooo true. I was emailing/IM this guy from pof for a few weeks. And just a couple of weeks ago he asked for my number which I gave to him. And he said that he would call. He kept promising to call. Then last week, I hardly talked to him. So I saw this thread and firgured I'll copy and paste it in an email and see what he thinks of it. Sure enough a couple of days later, he emailed me back and said that he had found someone that was closer to him and that he was "dedicating" his time to. I was so not expecting that...lol Anyhow it's all good. I'm over it! lol | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 6/26/2006 7:45:06 PM | FACT:
If a relationship is mean't to be it will be.
If he's not asking you for a date...he's not that into you...or he wants to be friends.
Not all women are players...not all men are players but SOME are.
Like I said SOME men don't like this book because it exposes them and empowers women.
The operative word is " SOME"
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/7/2006 12:36:39 PM | | You said that one right Muskoka gold........."SOME" are players........... but my biggest problem is why am i finding all the PLAYERS.......... so all u non players come out come out where ever you are............ | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/7/2006 1:21:50 PM | | Do you not notice that every relationship/selfhelp/he does/she does book out there have the same in common .......they all state the obvious , like come on ppl if you need a book to tell you wether someone is into you or not? then your wasting more time reading and analizing your relationship then you are at working on your relationship.c'mon use common sense you can't actually tell me you read something in one of those books that you didn't allready know...but because it was in type by an author it makes it so,,,,,, geeeeesh.... good ol common sense and an open line of comunication are all you really need...................not some guy who's probably shacked up with his boyfriend | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/7/2006 1:49:29 PM | dadoftwo
You know I genuinely respect you and watch for your sensible posts in the forums.
But, what might be obvious to you and I, isn't always obvious to everyone. Sometimes, we read a book ( any book) to learn new things and sometimes we don't. Some of us, just read a book to confirm what we already know. And, some people truly need to read a book because they need the information.
This applies to history, geography, home repair, cooking etc.
If some people can't understand what's going wrong in their dating life or life in general and they can't afford $ 100 an hour for counselling/advice, I say read, discern what works for you and what doesn't...... try to find the answers for yourself.
Now, for those others who have successful relationships and have it all figured out........ummmmmm. For me, I'll keep learning until the end.
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/7/2006 2:21:46 PM | Men Pffft ! Greasy Grimy Gofer guts......
Just throw rocks at them ,play wrestle, name calling and all that other stuff we learned in kindergarten! They seem to know how this works!
All the above is better than a tele call, any day!
No wonder they don't know how to deal with Sugar N Spice and all things nice
So he's just not into you if he hits you in the eye with a rock, chokes you till your blue, sticks you with a real sharp stick or gets real nasty with the name calling....Than again sticks and stones break your bones,don't worry about the names! | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/7/2006 2:26:07 PM | HK your to funny............ but life was alot easier when the boys did that to you..... then you knew they liked ya........heheheheheh
But some days i think this fish pond is way to big and other days i find this find pond to be way to small........ i know what i am talking about do you........ | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/7/2006 4:00:16 PM | Those kind of generalized depictions of people are crap. Maybe he's not calling because he doesn't want to seem desperate, or maybe it's because he's not sure if you want him to call, or maybe he's into you but isn't sure if you're remotely into him.
i.e. If you're that concerned: Call him. Ask. | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/7/2006 4:21:20 PM | its a hard call because woman dont want to seem desperate either....... so both parties dont want to seem desperate so no one calls
so then it becomes a lose lose situation
O.M.G. dating is so confusing
help help help
were are the love GODS to lead me the right path to know what to do.
i am so confuseddddddddddddddddd | |
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/7/2006 5:41:32 PM | Oh the games people play now
Every night and every day now
Never sayin' what they mean now
Never meanin' what they say...
CALL...CALL.....CALL......IT'S JUST A CALL...............FROM AN OLD BROAD
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| He's just not into if............
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:55:00 AM | Depends, if I'm interested I'll call or email to set up a time to get together. If I'm not interested I don't call.
However I won't sit on the phone to chat, the phone or email is for work or data exchange as far as I'm concerned. Personal communication requires eye contact and body language. | |
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