| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 12:41:38 PM | You are welcome Op. I am glad that you found someone. Good luck to you sweety, I hope it works out. Pour- I am having a bad day and that comment made me smile. Thank you for that mon amie. Carrie | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 12:43:17 PM | Good catch paigeĀ®, she has been here nearly nine month...my does time fly, I just coming up to month 5 myself...ACK! and I am still re-singled If you have been here 9 month and have had no value in being here then you should leave, your about 3 month overdue as far as I am concerned. I think if you were looking to be swept off your feet and married by now then you had very ambitious expectations to begin with.
I think, by the nature of this being a catalog date shopping sute, that most people come here to damble around, try it out, see what happens. Generally males are less serious about commiting to LTR's than women even though they might say otherwise.
I think POF is a great starting point but it probably doesn't fufill many people's end-game needs. Its a lovely way of developing a network of like minded and like situated friends, possibly some romance and for a very few lucky **stards, true love.
Best of luck!
Bandito
ACK! I was too late...OP is happy...congratzi!!! Things really do change fast around here fast | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 12:45:12 PM | It means "only new shoes." Meaning that she will only date men who are wearing nice new shoes. Carrie | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 12:46:59 PM | I can't say I agree with her taste in young men for longterm, BUT
All I can say is that you're probably missing out on a really hot, emotionally stable 40 year old who might be looking for the same thing you are because you'd rather date a child...
Oh puh-lease!! Show me a really hot 40 yo and I'll bet he is dating 25yos...not to mention he will be FAR from emotionally stable! | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 12:48:21 PM | Carrie ~ you are welcome my dear. .. now please add me to your favorites list so that I can email you....before I get banned again for chatting....MODS~ please excuse this but her restrictions prevent me from emailing her at the moment.
~Pour
Only New Shoes~
Last longer than a pair of Payless shoes  | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 12:58:09 PM | | I have been here a year. As far as I can tell, it seems to be a good site for making friends and I have been told it is excellent for hooking up with sleazes for o.n.s. ......this site is a complete waste of time for "dating" though ..... | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 1:11:01 PM | in the 13 hour her cyberprince rescued her from the ogres of lonliness and despair, and promptly left the next morning.
THE END? | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 1:11:34 PM | | STAND; to resist;to maintain a conviction......does sound much like fun lol | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 1:29:43 PM | OH yes, I do! I have had many experiences that way..try changing something in your profile, like updated pics, change what you are looking for, if you are looking for something different now.. try a christian website.. but of course, that doesn't really make a difference either.. don't know what to tell ya except I agree with you wholeheartedly..
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 2:02:08 PM | | WOW, went from about to leave the site in in frustraion to finding true love in a matter of hour's, COOL. I wasn't being a "hater" I was offering my opinion. Don't you just hate when guys do that. lol | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 3:11:51 PM | DON'T HATE POURSUGARONME......MAYBE YOU HAVEN'T HAD ANY LUCK EITHER HUH.... I'M JUST LOOKING FOR SOME CONSTRUCTIVE OPINIONS FROM OTHER PEOPLE THAT ARE EXPERIENCING THE SAME THING OR SOME GOOD ADVICE, THANK YOU | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 3:15:35 PM | 1/ stop yelling IN CAPS 2/ U are calling people who are giving constructive opinions HATERS
Why did you post this & ask if you are going to be a baby and not be able to handle everyone's opinion
Crap u are 39 and a 38 is too old to message you???? | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 3:45:19 PM | IT'S NOT THAT I'M A BABY ABOUT RESPONSES TO MY QUESTION. IT'S THE WAY MY P.O.F. PEOPLE RESONDED... NO WONDER A LOT OF YOU ARE SINGLE........THAT'S #1. #2 DON'T TELL ME HOW TO TYPE UP MY POST. I THINK THAT THIS IS A TOPIC THAT MORE WOMEN ARE DEALING WITH MORE THAT WE ADMIT...... | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 8:49:13 PM | what's a date? i forgot what one of those are | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 9:09:39 PM | I agree with you i have been of pof for a little bit and i agree some guys are looking for just one thing.I have to admit i have run into my share of idiots and was going to delete my profile but decided not too. My mom always said patience is a virtue and it will pay off and i finally did meet someone on here that just didnt want a one night stand. So keep the faith all will work out. | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/5/2006 9:11:23 PM |
THANK YOU CARRIE.....FINALLY SOMEONE WITH SOME GOOD ADVICE TO SHOUT OUT.
Funny how the advice that is "bad" is the advice that suggest the problem might be what you are doing. The other posters were just trying to help by showing you the vibes you are letting off by putting certain things in your profile. Stoneside tried to provide good contructive criticism and in response you insult them. | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/6/2006 12:46:12 PM | you're still YELLING; and I'm not a guy; and a brazillion is an inside, joke, political joke, not expecting you to get anything remotely intelligent, anyway; stop yelling at the fishies....
ahhh carrie, I love the smell of a man in new shoes..... | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/6/2006 1:23:25 PM | This thread is really creapy...
Someone should get their meds checked. | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/12/2006 10:15:57 AM | [#2 DON'T TELL ME HOW TO TYPE UP MY POST.]
she isnt telling you how to type your post she is telling you that typing in caps is yelling, bad etiquette, manners etc...take your keyboard off caps | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/12/2006 10:23:36 AM | spazoid "How many 25 year old men do you really think are looking for a serious relationship with someone who is nearly 40" For someone nearly 50, I had a ton of mail from 20 somethings I deleted. Maybe I should have kept them and forwarded them to the OP!! haha I get what you're saying, though. I never dated men the ages of my children, so that would exclude anyone from 18 to 26. There are tons of threads about younger guys that want to date older women. Maybe the OP should do a thread search, sure to get lots of contacts from that. Just trying to help!! | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/12/2006 10:46:25 AM | | i dont like you bashing my race here okey frylock i happen to be part brazilian by heart and strong bloodlines of my moms side so please take your madness out of here and put it on another thread okey im getting offend i hate the term using my hertiage as a joke also this not the thread post here i dont know why in the world you brang an issue here it does make any sense here to me it shows you hate brazilians from some odd reason now why did a brazilian men did something wrong to you. | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/12/2006 3:05:13 PM | Hey I'm only 37, I just (barely) qualify to take the Lolita Challenge.... OOOPS! Sorry, I had the fortunate circumstance of having children in my past. Sorry, I guess that dis-qualifies any contribution I might have made....
PS> Bring on the (sic) Brazillions!
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 4/12/2006 4:29:23 PM | India Seriously u just took the words right outta my mind, I was just loading up this site, n was thinking u no,, I dont get it my profile says LONGTERM, N all I seem to be gettin is guys wanting O.N.S as well. Dont get me wrong Ive met alot of really gr8 guys but they dont seem to want that even when their profiles say they want it. They even still keep in contact as well even but their not bringing up the issue of Longterm so Im feeling ur frustrations. I,ll prolly keep my profile on for a lil but more just because I have some patients, n it takes time I no. So ur not the only one feeling this sweetie | |
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| DATING ON P.O.F. Posted: 6/19/2006 7:06:30 PM | Im with you i have been on here about a month and the only guys i can find have a case of the elevated hormones only are there any live ones out there or are we using the wrong bait?
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