| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 12:02:52 PM | This is not real! It is a parallel universe, where your multiple personalities are allowed to run wild, where the savages paint their faces,sexual war dances are shadows on the wall, intangible, untouchable, deceptive images parading as an entity of another world.
I know of no guys or girls, only pictures, fonts, images, words on a page/screen that impale the mind with graphics and overload the brain with false stimuli. Misleading all to misbelieving what is unreal.
So everyone ...hows that for a brain freeze moment eh???
All the women on here that I have met are just wonderful. A lot of them have become friends of a sort, and I am fine with all of them. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 1:12:04 PM | Juggernaut: I think you said it best
Sometimes we need to just take an honest chance with someone and leave it to that . Hell even the last woman I was seeing from here decided she needed something more and it was supposed to be a final thing . Some people just will never get it will they ? You throw away something good to find something better only to find out that you've made yet another mistake .
I've had the same experience with a few people on this site. The ones that make me laugh are the ones that leave you for something "better" and then come back because they were mistaken and it didn't work out. Sorry, but I've moved on and they should too. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 1:42:32 PM | A little of everything. But most of the ones I've actually talked to by e-mail are really nice, even the ones that weren't interested, or the ones that couldn't type a complete sentence correctly. Quite a few single moms, I've noticed, but there's nothing wrong with that.
CompleteKaos said: I'm betting because that's exactly the type of girl you went after. Beauty fades, dumb is forever.
That was, more or less, the tagline of Ron White's latest standup routine. His was that you could always get a facelift or a boob-job, but you can't fix stupid. And I pretty much agree...except about getting facelifts and boob-jobs...I prefer the natural look myself. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:35:40 PM | Stoneside? why have you been on these sites for years? The thrill of meeting new people? Dating? Curious? Personally I'm fairly new to this concept. I've signed up on a few other's, but not really active. I'm not model material, I don't want to finanically support anyone. Nor do I want to just shakehands follow them to the nearest hotel. I"m not looking for Brad Pit look alike or to be someone's mommy. I seek someone that's real, honest, and caring, willing, and not afraid to be himself and fun. Money isn't a factor, however, connection is.... I don't think that's asking too much. But yet, it just seems to be very difficult to meet someone that's not buried with insecurities or willing to accept other's as they are, looking at the good of the person. I think it's sad really.... But I have learned a few new things. Not being in the dating scene for a long while, I'm learning that the "rules" change constantly. Sometimes I feel as if I am in a time wharp... I don't put on aires, I'm just me and I speak my mind tactfully... Why lie? Why be something you aren't, and my photos are current. hahaha Is this a candy store? There seems to be another flavor, just a click away... Personally, I pay attention to one at a time..... If I have begun dating someone, I will hide my profile....I feel it's only right...fair. giving them an honest chance as well as myself. The water's can become quiet muddied if one has many men/women going all at the same time. How do you keep them straight? hahaha Aren't you afraid you'll call one by the other's name? etc.... I think that's when one should realize, they are in it for the dating.....the fun.... and whatever else you may get out of it.... but not into really finding that special one. Oh but wait, I was told by one guy, it's a numbers game.... the more you play, you increase your chances in finding THE ONE!!,,, is this really true? Who really belives this theory? | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:42:55 PM | i have felt that lot of women (20-30 yrs age group) are into shopper category... they probably feel that time is on their side n keep hopping over profiles searching for "Bradd Pitt"... but i don't have any probs with those ppl, as these are the ppl who u come across in real life as "desperately looking out" | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/8/2006 12:53:11 AM | | I am not attracted to older men that have contacted me and the younger men are in it for a good time. Men my age are chasing after younger women. That means I'm stuck in a dating twilight-zone. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/8/2006 10:10:22 AM |
technology has taken us out of our living rooms and brought us out to the entire world
Actually, it leaves us in our houses and brings the world to us. This could be the problem, but for the most part, I think many daters are always looking for the upgrade... the internet just gives us a bigger pond.
I'm safe in saying that most of the time, it's men who stick around trying to patch things up, while women frantically scatter about, not wanting anything further to do with a man THEY see as having done them wrong (even if it was the other way around). They cease contact out of personaly insecurity, and fear.
Just going by the many many love gone wrong threads, I'd say it's way more of an even thing. Both genders equally display the mentality you described.
As for your mention of the "unavailable"... I actually think I know what you're driving at. I'm not positive, however, but I think I know.
What floors me is the massive amount of generalizing and obvious dislike or insulting of each gender. How the hell are the people who engage in such behaviour actually thinking that they'll find someone here? Or anywhere else for that matter.
So add this to the "types" found here:
The Kidding Themselves Crew.
I haven't had good experiences here as far as finding a date... when that's what I was here for, but then again, I only met 2 guys. Not really enough to make a hypothesis either way. The worst thing I could say about those 2 guys is, "they weren't interested in me". Heh. Not much in the way of a putdown, eh? | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/8/2006 10:25:57 AM | | This site is like any other "place", an assortment of different types of people. I have had a wonderful group of friends, men and women, all from the forums. Plus my handsome prince!! There are lots of singles sites that have the profiles and emailing, IM features. The forum posters are overall the cream of the crop, people who are interested enough to actually want to discuss topics about dating and relationships. That's been my experience, anyway. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2006 10:43:18 AM | - The kind who are on about 200 people's favorites lists, and who don't have to worry about running out of "options".
I don't want options - I want to be with one man and he with me. Just seems to be hard to get that aligned.
- (The mentality that sites like these (not that I'm complaining) project is so flawed that it's detrimental to its members.
I think society is becoming flawed and these sites can be a reflection of the world around us. I'd much rather meet someone through another avenue.
- While many never ever "learn from their mistakes", how about trying to actually FIX them?
Kinda hard when the other party doesn't want to work at fixing it. Just so much easier to run than deal. Many men take off when the going gets tough. There are exceptions - still looking for a man like the men in my family lmao - without the actual "being related" part.
-I'm safe in saying that most of the time, it's men who stick around trying to patch things up, while women frantically scatter about, not wanting anything further to do with a man THEY see as having done them wrong (even if it was the other way around). They cease contact out of personaly insecurity, and fear.
I would agree that this seemed to be a trend for the last several years, have brothers and male friends to whom this happened. But there are women left who understand what it means to be married, to work at a relationship etc. Women seem to be leaving men out of boredom and for strange reasons. Abusive relationships do not factor into this equation.
- "There's always next time", translating to "there's always another man in line you can throw your mess at, to see if he'll pick it up and sort it out" is... is... there is no word to explain
that. Selfish? Careless? Uncaring? Tactless? Take your pick or mix and match.
Next time, hmmm, only have so many years to live.....certain things that happen to people can quickly change your outlook on life. You could die tomorrow, healthy or not.
Look for the butterflies and catch 'em! | |
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Posted: 7/7/2006 4:07:10 PM | Mysterious but I dont have much expereince. Cats sleep alot need some tender care... We love to cuddle all night, kiss till the cats come home...Nothing quite like the eye contact...  | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 7/7/2006 4:40:55 PM | Maybe you need to run for Godhood you sure think you know what you dont know. You just dont get it...Some hurtin just wont heal without trying to be macho. Girls have that insight.. If you look into your heart....quit hatin... rain on someone elses parade... | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 7/7/2006 5:11:54 PM | First of all, Bobby McFerrin is alive and well. He did *not* hang himself.
Second... I've only met two women from here. One was a dizzy flake. One was a goddess made flesh.  I've corresponded with a few more. Some were dizzy flakes. One was pretty good, but we just kinda petered out. Shame, but she lived too far away.
Some good, some bad. Kinda like real life. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 7/7/2006 11:10:59 PM |
Quite a few single moms, I've noticed, but there's nothing wrong with that.
Well, thats because single moms dont really have a lot of extra time to go out to clubs or other places where we might meet men...
I think there are a lot of nice people on here. Hardly anyone Ive talked to so far has been inappropriate or rude towards me. There are some GUYS here who are just looking for sex, but its pretty easy to pick them out so its not a huge shock. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 7/8/2006 6:31:39 AM | well i'm a regular girl who is sometimes a sex-crazed nympho. im a mommy looking to date a man who has the potential of one day becoming a daddy. hmmmmm.....now thats a little creepy.....lol.....  | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 8:19:52 AM | | well i must say most of the girls look nothing like their pics or are dogs i hate to say it like that but they find the one pic of them that doesnt look compleatly ugh and put it on the site. and yes all women seem to want is sex . and i wont be the one to give it to them | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 11:18:58 AM | A woman needs a reason to have sex. A man only needs a place.
A man has to do a bunch of romantic stuff to get a woman warmed up, you flowers, wine, etc. For a man, all a woman has to do is just show up. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 11:32:24 AM | Well I did have a post up about why a woman who finds a guy desireable and wants to let him know...But I guess I got someones panties in a bind. These so called roles that Society seems to impose on us has caused untold amounts of people who really dig another but for one reason or another...eg. SHY, LOW SELF ESTEEM, or maybe their so far removed from the milk of human kindess are afraid to lower their guard. Girl I say go for it....I would be so turned on by something like this I dont think I would let this girl down...Take a chance. Buck societys so called NORMS and you might just find true happiness. To all you out there I have insulted sorry. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 11:33:51 AM | Glad to see the posts on this....so I don't have to write...LOL
But for the record....Bobby McPharin is alive and well...and did not commit suicide....
Now...about that Mikey kid from the Life cereal commercials who died from eating too many Pop Rocks and a Soda..... | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:35:11 AM | | Well I did have a post up about why a woman who finds a guy desireable and wants to let him know...But I guess I got someones panties in a bind. These so called roles that Society seems to impose on us has caused untold amounts of people who really dig another but for one reason or another...eg. SHY, LOW SELF ESTEEM, or maybe their so far removed from the milk of human kindess are afraid to lower their guard. Girl I say go for it....I would be so turned on by something like this I dont think I would let this girl down...Take a chance. Buck societys so called NORMS and you might just find true happiness. To all you out there I have insulted sorry. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:42:26 AM | POST 14:
SUMS UP ABOUT 98% OF THE WOMEN ON DATING SITES, PERIOD.
i don't worry about it. THEY'LL be the ones broke, lonely, and suffering when they hit old age, wishing they had someone around that actually wanted their wrinkles, at that point.
keep on 'floating', as the poster of message 14 says. you'll be old, alone, and sad in the end. oh well. | |
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