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Posted: 7/8/2006 12:10:47 PM | I only gots half a brain
Well isnt that a "quinky dink"! I to only have about 3/4ths of my brain left for functional activity. I got into an accident, and a portion of my brain got injured, meaning that all the processes that were happening there are happening via a new pathway now in a different part. This is due to me learning a new route to the muscles. It then gets pretty technical, but I just thought that it was quite funny that you are talking about having half a brain! Even though you are not referring to it in the same mannner, I just wanted to share that.
Who is this man, then I can curse him!! I have not found sheet, and I probably will never find anything online! I am sorry, but I think I am throwing in the towl!  | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 12:23:51 PM |
I am not attracted to the majority of women in my area.
sooooooooooooooooooo true! I was wondering if it was only me? I find some of the more attractive women, but they are not of my area! And the ones that are(in the same area) think they are to good for me!!! I am sorry, am I some total slacker/slob or unattractive? I have never been told these things, but I am starting to think it is a little skeem. Well so I would really like to know why all these women do not even want a piece of the Heltster? Or me!can I get a hug
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Posted: 7/8/2006 12:36:41 PM | | I find that at my age it is harder for me to fine that special woman now because your not in school and the work areas don't work either and all the women that have been married and on there own now are real indepenent so they don't really need that man to help out with anything and the same goes with us men.as I see it there is going to be a lot of single people because every year goes by and were still single and before you know it your going to be 80 years old and then why doing anything then. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 5:28:55 PM | | I met my wife on yahoo chat, we had sex the first time we met and got married 6 months later. Although I met alot of player women on the net before my wife that would be having sex with one guy while dating another but not putting out for the other guy and tryed to play the role of the victem because she couldent decide what to do blah blah blah. You just have to wade through the crap to get to the good stuff like anything else in life. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 5:40:20 PM | | I'M STILL STICKIN TO MY ORIGINAL POST. THE WOMEN THAT POST IN THE FORUMS ARE GREAT. I find that the ones that post regularly are the ones worth getting too know. Usally if they just have a profile up usally not worth the time... | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 6:22:06 PM | | pof is a great way to meet other people, or just rant in the forums. either way, if you have problems here, its like blaming the phone company -cause you dont have any friends that call you. i tend to chat with lots of people here, (no strangers have offered me candy yet) i meet a few, most, i release back into the waters of pof. not compatible, -no problem, nice to chat with you. i would have to say to all the women that complain that all men want is sex -daaaaaaaaaaaaaa. we all want it male or female, just that women are smart enough to check the proverbial waters of the lake before jumping in. if you feel like someone is pushing you too prematurely -throw them back and try hooking another, -its a big lake with good fishing. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2006 6:26:29 PM |
I'M STILL STICKIN TO MY ORIGINAL POST. THE WOMEN THAT POST IN THE FORUMS ARE GREAT. I find that the ones that post regularly are the ones worth getting too know. Usually if they just have a profile up usally not worth the time...
But everytime I look at one of the men who post regularly, we are not compatible - too far, smoking, kids or I would not be their cup of tea! Kinda funny actually. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 5:51:25 AM | Relatively new here still. Interesting experiment. One profile I have is quite serious - then I put one up just as a guy who was looking to party and have fun - not neccessarily sex - just fun and see what happens.***I got twice as many responses on my party guy profile than my serious one. HA HA Therefore, women aren't being honest about they want. I think they want something different every week. Most say you want love, but I wonder. I have had 1 date - met a few women. Some are just not the same in person as they are through text. I'd like to say "sub-par? What do you mean by that? What a terrible way of describing a person. Women aren't just looking for love these days - they need the entire package. I tend to attract single mommies that are just a little too old for me. I don't mind a women with a child, but if the kid is in his teens or 20's - OMG. Also understand that you may see men always trying to get laid - trust me, most aren't succeeding. That's why they keep trying and trying and trying. Women are picky. Perhaps so picky that love often walks right by them, and they truly miss out. I met a woman for a date. She asked me out, and she drove a long time to get here. Through email even though she said she wasn't looking for sex or any physical touching on a first date, she actually asked me about my endowement, and told me that it has been a long time for her for sex. I never brought sex up - she did. Anyway, she shows up, doesn't look like her photos which were obviousy taken quite awhile ago. She hardly talked to me, and she left in a rude way. Very abruptly. What is that about?
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Posted: 7/9/2006 7:16:40 AM | | hey jimmm i just think you were unlucky,she sounds like she was a bit wierd ,most of us are just looking for company,and hoping more comes of it ,same as you men i expect ??? | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 8:02:00 AM | Quite a few single moms, I've noticed, but there's nothing wrong with that.
^^ IMO there are lots of things wrong with that....
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Posted: 7/9/2006 8:24:01 AM | Well to me, it almost seems like the women here are looking for the guy who will provide the cottage and white picket fence and long term relationship that lasts forever... Apparently they listened to far to many fairy tales where prince charming rode up on his charger and swept the princess away and they lived happily ever after...
Seems like the common thread is "Long Term relationship", "Commitment", marriage or a relationship that is the same as being married, etc.
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Posted: 7/9/2006 11:29:09 AM | @ wildheart nothing wrong with being alittle picky...Luckily I have very low standards and am here for the fun of it.
and halfevl your right in a way...but i've found that a lot of women put that long term thing up and hope they are weeding out the players...LOL. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 12:18:39 PM | | You girls might have the Damm GOLD MINE....But in order to get to that GOLD MINE you will have to go down MY SHAFT....Until you pay me my TOLL ur ass is out...Your charge card has been cancelled. How ya like me now???? | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 7/9/2006 12:37:05 PM | Women on here are raging nymphomaniacs...
I have had so much sex in the last 3 days...it's unreal...I started shooting dust and air after round 54, 324
So many sexy attractive women...how could I refuse??? 
I'm just kidding of course...but really I have no story to tell...this online thing isn't working for me... 
Women I meet in the traditional sense...I can't say I've ever met one that was "crazy" but when I goto the bars, etc...there's always one or two that are annoying... 
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Posted: 7/9/2006 12:42:13 PM | msg:8 stoneside
Well if I were to generalize. I've found ladies that are, bitter (the ex was a jerk and I'm sure you are to), fearfull (we've only been chatting for two months, I don't know you well enough to meet you yet, you might break my heart), grumpy (I shouldn't have to meet guys on the internet, this sucks), shallow (hey, I only care about looks) massive ego's (I'm a very special lady, I expect only the best, I can have any man I want) friendly (you're not my normal type but you seem like a nice guy so lets talk and see what happens) horny (ok, lets meet, I'll take you to bed and see if you can keep up), low self worth (I don't know how any man could want me, *note, the ladies like this are always great ladies, nice, pretty, understanding that some jerk has conviced that they aren't all those things), rude ( disappears mid chat and blocks you for no reason that I can spot) to eager (IF we meet, and IF we like each other and IF we date and IF we get married, how soon are you willing to have kids?) playfull (don't know if we'll meet or not, doesn't really matter, lets just enjoy each other THEN if we meet we might get to REALLY enjoy each other) nice ( do you mind if we talk, learn about each other, I like to learn about people, what makes them tick) I could go on and on but thinking that's enough.
My experience's exactly on this site as well as the major pay sites too.
A LOT of bitter, guarded, jaded, cynical, untrusting, unopen, non fun, angry, waste of time game players from my experience.
I honestly don't know why 1/2 of these women are even on here looking for relationships/dating when they're soooo obviously not even close to being ready for/open to a relationship/dating.
I feel there should be some sort of a psychological test in disguise one has to go thru before being allowed to post a profile so that it screens out these type of people that will only waste others time, money, resources, etc. for the people that are open to & ready for a relationship/dating but that repeatedly leads them to no-where with these people.
No one wants to waste time on someone that is bitter or guarded from a past relationship/etc. or hear all about how hurt, untrusting, etc. they are because of it, and how much they aren't sure of a relationship, or how they want to take things so slow that by the time you even get to a 1st date, your kids have left home, and married! lol | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 1:02:09 PM | ^^^Funny, I'm thinking the same thing. Most people I've run into on here just don't seem to want to make time to meet someone - personally I call that a game especially if you say you are looking for long term.
Baggage - yep, had a quote on my profile "everyone has baggage, but is yours carry on". Seems to be alot of carry-ons around.
I am also not interested in emailing a trillion million times - if I have a good sense of the person 2 or 3 good emails usually does it for me, but so far, most of the men cannot seem to make the effort to send a good email (I'm talking after the first one, like the 3rd email where I've had to make the effort asking questions while he just answers them). If this man was soooo interested in me to send an initial email and I send one back asking questions about him to which he answers and doesn't ask me a single one - well.....you need to ask a few questions to keep the convo going so that it leads to "let catch a drink this week"
I can't get a good "feel" for someone through an email - that's what dating is for anyways!! But, most men don't ask I guess because they feel the woman will get offended if they ask too soon? You can't win.
I've never had a bad date from a site, but I've never had a "wow" date either. I had a "wow" one from a phone dating line many years ago. And, get this, I met him without seeing a photo, gasp! Since then, best dates have been real life meets.
Hey, at least the parties and forums are interesting..... | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 1:22:58 PM | well it is definetly a mixed bag. Though I am quite disturbed about the ammount of single moms seemingly looking for someone to pick up where biological daddy left off. Ive also encountered some stuck up ****es here that just read/delete my messages (well it is kinda my fault for messaging them since they are probaly out of my league and too good to be associating with my boring funny book reading ass) and Ive even met some really really nice women here too. I even been chatting with one for the better part of a couple years. (whom Ive got a mad crush on but she hardly even knows my name and mainly just chats with me when shes bored, though she says it aint like that) but that is a whole nother can of worms to be ranted about in another rant.
Overall I see some potential to meet someone really special here (though I have piss poor luck with women so it hasnt happened yet), plus you can't beat the price ;). | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 3:51:42 PM | I thought it would be easier to find what I'm looking for, than it actually is. A lot of the comments on this thread have been from men, complaining about the types of women.
1. They have young children. My one child is 24.
2. They’re sex-crazed Nymphomaniacs. Most men complain that women don’t want it as much as men. Is that not a double standard? I love sex and want a lot of it. Does that make me a Nympho? Definitely not. (I’m 51, by the way and feel that I’m in my prime.) BUT, I only want it with one person and in a LTR.
3. They’re looking for a Sugar Daddy or marriage. I’m not looking for either.
4. They’re clingy. I don’t decide after the first date, that he’s “IT” and then cling to him. I have interests and friends, other than him.
5. They whine about the ex. I don’t; we were good friends until his death.
6. They’re shallow; they take too much time getting ready and are always primping in front of mirrors. I’m not hung up on having every hair in place (mine or his).
I like to plan most things, but I can also be spontaneous. I have a brain; I voice my own opinions, but I don’t try to cram them down someone’s throat. I listen to their opinions without judging them, as I undoubtedly, will learn something and might even change my mind.
What I DO want is someone who wants a long-term relationship, which means companionship, sex and love for each other (not necessarily be "IN LOVE"). I don't need help paying my bills or fixing my car. I want to spend some of my time with this person, but time with my adult child and my grandchild, too, and then time with my lady friends (Red Hat, bunco, girls night out, etc.).
I had a real profile on here, but deleted it recently. I’m taking a break from looking for someone to fill that spot; I’m on here now simply for the forums.
But, in that profile, I clearly stated that I was looking for a LTR – not marriage. I think most men still believe that even when women say that’s all they want, they (the women) would do an about face, once a LTR got started. WHY would they think that? Why can’t they believe that a mature woman with a good job, great friends, adult children and a head on her shoulders wants ONLY a LTR? Why wouldn’t they realize that after being married for many years, a lot of us enjoy our FREEDOM so much, we want to keep it??? Hello! If THEY (the men) have an aversion to marriage (for whatever reason), why can’t they understand we might have the same aversion?
Staying single doesn’t mean we’re anti-men. We still like them and still like sex; we have simply learned that in this day and age, we don’t have to MARRY for the companionship and sex. We can have that AND our freedom.
Think outside the box, men! Take a chance! The next time you see that a lady is looking for a LTR, why not BELIEVE her. You CAN have your cake and eat it, too!!! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 4:01:51 PM | A lot of the women already have kids and don't have enough $ to support themselves.
In addition Canadian women tend to respond quicker than American women.
Within the USA the big city girls tend to think that the man must play to her rules were as women living in the Mid west ar more willing to collaborate with the dude. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 4:21:56 PM | LOL ~ I've learned to read posts in a bizarre way ~ I just read them and insert the appropriate gender (ie: and /men to "women.") So, the negativity about women becomes the negativity about men and women combined. That keeps me from getting carpel tunnel and still makes me feel validated.  | |
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Posted: 7/9/2006 11:34:59 PM |
^^^ and some are just here for the ego boost that Read/Delete gives them
Crap...is that what's going on? THat really grinds my gears. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2006 5:59:23 PM | | I liked torsodude's post, explains it best. On this site just got started so can't really say much myself. But some of those favorite listing may also be a problem in the progam (ie. no way to self delete the old 'added to favs' by long gone internet users?) Is there a dormant time before accounts get deleted or we stuck here 4ever wether we be a typing or not? | |
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Posted: 7/13/2006 6:52:16 PM |
aprilraine on 7/9/2006 3  42 PM 2. .... BUT, I only want it with one person and in a LTR.
I rest my case... as I mentioned in my above post.... only in an LTR...
I have a lady here who wants to remain just friends until some unknown (to me anyway) future time, when she decides that we know each other well enough to have a relationship other than platonic...
Seems like most women I have met locally, are only interested in LTR's with or without marriage... Since the other women I have been communicating with are long distance friends the chances of ever finding out what they want is pretty much a moot point...
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Posted: 7/13/2006 8:54:04 PM | | If you ask me...many of the women on here are attractive,so why are they here? Some for social interaction,some for relationships and lastly,some are on here to seek compliments or wanting to be desired by men,of which they have no interest in whatsoever.Are women looking for sex?Yes some are , but I do not feel that is the case in the majority of the women here. | |
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