| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 4/7/2006 7:42:37 PM | | I LOVE to teach! There's nothing in the world quite like the look on a woman's face with she realizes that she just had five or ten or more orgasms in a row. Or when she has an orgasm without touching or being touched. Teaching is just good, clean fun! ;) | |
|
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 4/7/2006 7:56:54 PM |
Rent some porn
I already look at it. Not that I'm proud of it. 
You girls are making me horny. Stop it!  | |
|
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 4/8/2006 12:34:14 AM | Feeling 'rusty or dusty' in some ways is good as one would definitely not take for granted...
I hope OP you would agree that *power of kiss is stronger than willpower*  ...so take it from there and go with the flow.
buzz | |
|
Bebop
|
Joined: 12/21/2003
Msg: 29 | |
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 4/9/2006 4:34:15 AM | you cant remeber your last kiss, can you remeber your first? it doesnt matter at this point. set out to remeber the next one...
think about how you want to feel when it happens. think about how she would want to feel too.
then forget about it.
forget about shoudl i kiss the top lip? use tongue? forget it all.
dont sit there all night waiting and wonderign should I do it now?
if youve been having a great time with a woman then look into her eyes and smile.
if it was meant to be, then you will already be kissing each other before you realize what has happened.
if you get this far then keep not thinking while you extend more of yourself out there to connect with her... meaning, let you hand caress her cheek, hold her head softly, pull away to smile again and take it all in before you cant wait to kiss her again...
good luck.
ps. you have intense eyes that naturally lend themselves to sexy stares, so use that to your advantage, im sure you get compliments on them so know that you already have an edge. the kiss is not all about the lips. | |
|
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 4/14/2006 7:01:44 PM | | Thanks for the great post bebop and for everyone else. I'm not worried about it anymore. I think I'll be ok, IF something happens, and it's a big IF. | |
|
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 4/14/2006 7:52:16 PM | | If a woman cares about you she is not going to care if you are 'rusty' or 'inexperienced.' She is going to care if you are caring, loving, giving, thoughtful...Technique is just that. Making love is making love. | |
|
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 4/19/2006 8:09:22 PM | iwarrior,
It sounds like your a one woman man, and that's all cool and shite so your just going to have to find a woman that will like you as you are, or that is willing to train you. Otherwise it's just like being a salesmen. You try to sell it but there not buying, so you try to sell it again, but there still not buying, so on and so forth, but then one day you wake up and find that all that effort has paid off. Your a sales machine!
Or you can buy some books. I recommend the hands on experience, its a blast.
Cheers | |
|
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 12/26/2006 7:37:16 PM | | Here is where communication with your partner is important. And pay attention to her body movements and responses. Explore beyond your own boundries... and grow a little (in more than one way) | |
|
| |
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 12/26/2006 11:13:16 PM | Experience is secondary. Imagination-that's where it's at. Find out through communication what she wants (women always drop subtle hints about this, pay attention!) and then imagine yourself doing those things. Of course it won't be exactly what you imagined when it happens, but it will probably be better!
Also, If both partners are working for the other's enjoyment, that is usually the best. Mentally put yourself in her position and think of what you would want done. then do it!
There is no right or wrong as long as your partner is enjoying themselves.
Have fun! | |
|
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 12/27/2006 5:13:42 AM | I gotta agree with leeanne.....it will come naturally with the woman you end up being with. If they want you bad enough, they'll lead the way...... | |
|
| Experience and Lack Thereof...
Posted: 12/27/2006 7:09:04 AM | My first love in a partner is enthusiasm.
I love teaching, but covering the basics can be a bit droll. Still, I would not exclude a partner for being a neophyte nor an expert.
In your case, you just need to find someone that either prefers your level of experience, or is not that caught up on how experienced you are. I suspect that you will have an easy time finding relationship-oriented people who will overlook your recent lull, orfind it endearing; and that you will find more casual partners who enjoy molding.
What am I supposed to do? Look for a casual partner or get a hooker? I think that's backwards. The only spot I would think it would be an issue is with people looking for casual partners. Why would someone planning on spending decades with you care what your current skill level is? You'll learn and then you'll be an expert. | |
|
Home
login 
