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Posted: 2/12/2005 3:59:38 PM |
Very well written.
You have just openly shot down the fundamental principals of feminism.
A couple of founding feminist quotes:
"A woman needs a man like she needs a bicycle." (Generalized stereotypical hatred.)
"All men are pigs." (Generalized stereotypical hatred.)
"All Men and Women are born the same, Gender is taught." (Generalization that medical science has shot down more times than I care to remember.)
"For women to be completely equal, we must eradicate the "nuclear family", otherwise every woman will be bound by men within the confines of the slave-based institution of marriage." (Illogical generalizations, hatred promoting – insinuating all marriages are oppressive.)
Excellently said by a member of the "I'M NOT REALLY A BITTER MALE, I JUST SOUND THAT WAY MEN'S CLUB".  | |
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Posted: 2/12/2005 4:58:59 PM |
saritamiami - Excellently said by a member of the "I'M NOT REALLY A BITTER MALE, I JUST SOUND THAT WAY MEN'S CLUB".
Ah yes, I knew it was only a matter of time before this radical feminist countered my ass-kicking responses to her previous posts with generalized feminist BS - instead of constructive arguments….What else is new….
Speaking of clubs: The funny thing is Radical-feminists sue Gold course private men-only clubs for the right to partake in their activities.
I've never saw a man suing a "woman only" fitness club.
There is no law preventing Radical Feminists from "starting their own Clubs" or "Starting their own Corporations" where the mythical glass ceiling would never exist.....but wait, it would be easier to b*tch and nag.....
"Feminism - Trying to turn women into men for 40 years." | |
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Posted: 2/12/2005 5:11:48 PM | The problem is in how most or even all men go about picking up women in the first place.
The use the same aproach that worked for them when they were younger. Many men are sincere, but get shot down in flames because their approach is the same as everyone elses.
We need to become artists in the dating game, get them to notice us. How? #1 Be yourself and don't brag about what you have or how big your ego is. There are many women and they are all beautifull. You can't go wrong by showing your true self unless your a complete idiot... | |
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Posted: 2/12/2005 5:22:08 PM | >I know women who do this, but I personally have never, so not every woman does. I would never let a guy I was not interested in, take me out romantically. I would feel so guilty doing that. In fact, even if a guy I like takes me out to dinner, I always go dutch. This makes it a level playing feild, and I do not have to feel like I owe someone something because they dropped some money as investment in me. I do not like giving people the wrong impression, >so even at bars I refuse every man who wants to buy me a drink.
Interesting and Respectable. I complement you on your honesty. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2005 5:28:49 PM | | Men need a new aproach to this dating ritual and the on line sites like these are much better since we can now finaly understand the reasons for being shot down in the bars. It happens way to often for us guys that we just stop looking all together and give up, then the women say... where have all the good guys gone? Chances are, you just shot them down in flames in the bar. Many of us are sincere and only know one or 2 aproaches that many times are learned in the media or books etc... To many men use the same aproach good guys and jerks alike... don't shoot us all down, even if they ask your sign... more than likely they don't know any other way of approach! He could be your mr. right! | |
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Posted: 2/12/2005 9:24:52 PM | Chrisvet, who is probably sending out response e-mails saying: "Who ME? Rejected by WOMEN? No way. Only Feminazis reject ME!"
has now posted this "proof" that he's really really really really not a bitter, rejected male at all, and that we're all just very confused about him:
Ah yes, I knew it was only a matter of time before this radical feminist countered my ass-kicking responses to her previous posts with generalized feminist BS - instead of constructive arguments….What else is new….
Speaking of clubs: The funny thing is Radical-feminists sue Gold course private men-only clubs for the right to partake in their activities.
I've never saw a man suing a "woman only" fitness club.
There is no law preventing Radical Feminists from "starting their own Clubs" or "Starting their own Corporations" where the mythical glass ceiling would never exist.....but wait, it would be easier to b*tch and nag.....
"Feminism - Trying to turn women into men for 40 years."
(Chrisvet also wants everyone to think that all men on this forum have his dismally bad luck with women, when in truth, the rest of the men on this forum are having far better luck with women, and he's the only one that can't get a woman's attention for anything other than laughing at him). | |
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Posted: 2/12/2005 9:50:21 PM | NO LETS NOT MOVE ON…..! I spend over 65% of my time chasing down “Dead-Beat Father” Not because the ‘mother’ needs a new house or a new SUV, but because the child/children are being fed by food stamps and wearing clothes from Goodwill, while the ‘biological’ father is working on contract for cash so there is no record of a job, and the system lets him do it.
(I guess it boils down to you're mad because you're not a man, and I'm extremely disappointed we've let people like you advocate a socialistic system that gives you more rights than me.)
I have not now, nor ever, wish I was a man, my life is good. I have work hard, taken care of my children, put a husband through school, and do volunteer work. I’m no Saint, never claimed to be one, but you don’t know me, so why are you giving me so much power, if you want the system changed, then change it!!!! (advocate a socialistic system that gives you more rights than me).
("Men and women will suffer the most extreme hardships if they believe they are working for the good of their children." - Adolph Hitler.)
And we all know what a great humanitarian Hitler was, he used this to his advantage not for the benefit of children.
“Let the little children come unto me” The Bible. (Not an accurate quote)
(You should spend your time giving something meaningful back to society. Start a homeless shelter, get the kids off the streets and teach them some values.)
I have worked in a few shelters, have you? And my first business was a Day Care Center in the inner city. I battled with the school system to allow girls between the ages of 12 to 18 to come and spend accredited class time with the children so they could see first hand how hard it is to raise a child on their own. I did this hoping that a few of the girls would think twice about ‘unprotected sex’.
("Unless you're a man and you know what it's like to be one, we do not accept any woman's opinion as reasonable, and therefore assert they cannot challenge us.")
Can not ‘challenge’ us, now who’s being sexist, the US Constitution give me and you that right.
(And more so coming from an old lady who's worked the legal system for years.)
Old lady…..you would have been insulted if I called you young.
(“I've always maintained that age has little to do with wisdom.”)
Young man, you are so right.
I have read the rest of your comments and responses, and perhaps because of your youth you believe all the words you expand on. As far as your uneducated assessment of me, you could not be father from the truth, but I grow tired of your dislike, distrust and verbal abuse. Sharing thoughts and options, ideas and difference is what makes this world go round. I believe the glass is always half full, that life is what we make it, and injustice can be made right. I wish you well in your life with your daughter, and will move on to a better thread.
Sherlock
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Posted: 2/12/2005 10:43:10 PM |
I spend over 65% of my time chasing down “Dead-Beat Father” Not because the ‘mother’ needs a new house or a new SUV, but because the child/children are being fed by food stamps and wearing clothes from Goodwill, while the ‘biological’ father is working on contract for cash so there is no record of a job, and the system lets him do it.
Small percentage of the big picture. Why would men work under the table to avoid paying child support? Oh ya, because they don't have money left after taxes to live on. I know of guys who have no choice to do this, and I actually sympathize with the fact that nobody wins in these situations.
you want the system changed, then change it!!!!
I plan on it. I’m young, hard working and ambitious. And there are many more like me.
so why are you giving me so much power
I didn't give you the power. You're founding feminist allies’ lobbied fabricated statistics and over-exaggerated injustices to women to man-whore politicians who passed these ridiculous laws.
You, my dear are part of the most protected group of human beings on this planet.
You have more rights than I do. And that is NOT equal.
And we all know what a great humanitarian Hitler was, he used this to his advantage not for the benefit of children
Bingo, which was exactly my point. Feminism adopted similar policies to abolish the family unit by forcing a "wedge" between the sexes, all in the name of equality, and the rights of the children - who were already the #1 concern with our society.
I have worked in a few shelters, have you? And my first business was a Day Care Center in the inner city. I battled with the school system to allow girls between the ages of 12 to 18 to come and spend accredited class time with the children so they could see first hand how hard it is to raise a child on their own. I did this hoping that a few of the girls would think twice about ‘unprotected sex’.
I am pleased to hear this. I do not have the time-luxury to work in shelters. I use my time to make money and donate it to shelters so they can BUILD them in the first place.
At least were both on the same page with this issue.
I did this hoping that a few of the girls would think twice about ‘unprotected sex’.
I applaud you for this. If we had MORE 2 parent families, this wouldn't be the huge issue it is today. Boys who are raised by single fathers and often grow up NOT relating well to women in a natural loving way. Many of them can only relate sexually to them because they had no role model to learn from. The same story is prevalent among single mothers and their daughters. (These facts are based on widespread studies.)
("Unless you're a man and you know what it's like to be one, we do not accept any woman's opinion as reasonable, and therefore assert they cannot challenge us.")
The above quote is not my opinion, but was quoted from YOUR POST with the word "women" being changed to "man." But you missed that in my last post, then WRONGLY concluded they were MY OWN WORDS, and go on to write this:
Can not ‘challenge’ us, now who’s being sexist, the US Constitution give me and you that right.
And After I substituted "woman" to "man" you saw the Sexism in the comment - and forgot YOU WERE THE ONE WHO ORIGNALLY WROTE IT.
And you've arrived at the same conclusion I did – The person who would dare write such a thing is SEXIST. You were the author.
You've just shot yourself in the foot.
lady…..you would have been insulted if I called you young.
Never, I would thank you for saying so. Youth is power. It’s important to smell the roses while we’re here.
(“I've always maintained that age has little to do with wisdom.”)
Young man, you are so right.
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Posted: 2/12/2005 11:24:12 PM |
saritamiami on 06-09-2004 06:43 PM
Subject: About women in the dating world..
Message: Chrisvet, who is probably sending out response e-mails saying: "Who ME? Rejected by WOMEN? No way. Only Feminazis reject ME!"
has now posted this "proof" that he's really really really really not a bitter, rejected male at all, and that we're all just very confused about him:
Rejection - Not here Sweetie - Read my profile. But while on the topic, A little rejection is healthy once in a while. Im told (haha, had to throw that in.) it tends to yank people off their imaginary pedistals. Good medicine for all.
I’m sorry to disappoint you. I don’t associate, nor need the approval of Nazi’s. Since I have been happily involved in a MEANINGFUL long term relationship with a woman I am proud to call my BEST FRIEND, it would appear that YOU are the one who is CONFUSED.
So Let’s see what’s going on in your mind and figure this thing out:
“look very young, have traveled the world extensively, and have been married before. Now I'm not married, but I'm looking for a man I could talk to, spend time with, and hug. I'm not obsessed with money. I'm not obsessed with professions. I realize so many people are. It's a shame.”
Yes, it’s a shame when people have to worry about money and careers. They should give it up, take your advice and travel the world…..In a rowboat. Besides, I hear hitchhiking works well too.
Unless of course they LIVE OFF a trust fund, alimony payments, or an inheritance. Otherwise it’s called supporting yourself. Some of us call it “Living in the real world.”
“I am obsessed with cleanliness and a clean smell. :-) I also don't want to be with someone who will make an embarrassment or a fool of himself - and me -in public.”
Heaven forbid someone should make a mistake in public so a whole bunch of people you don’t know might look down on YOU.
It would appear you are “obsessive” and live in a“fantasy world” and you care more about what strangers think then the person you are with.
Chrisvet also wants everyone to think that all men on this forum have his dismally bad luck with women, when in truth, the rest of the men on this forum are having far better luck with women, and he's the only one that can't get a woman's attention for anything other than laughing at him).
The majority of Luck is made. People who think they are lucky OFTEN are lucky. They set themselves up, and it comes to those who work for it. I've had several incredible relationships with women over the past 20 years and am proud to still call some of them "friends."
One thing I notice is you are compelled to "assume" what I am here for.
My profile clearly states that purpose. I SUGGEST YOU READ IT. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2005 11:58:05 PM |
"where in your Christian New Testament does it say that A-B-O-R-T-I-O-N is wrong? "
Old Testement, 10 Commandments, "Thou shalt not kill."
New Testement still upholds the 10 Commandments.
Anyhoooo lets get this thread back on track. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2005 2:21:04 AM | Holllyyyyy crapppp... get on the drugs if you're not already man. Your to screwed up to even think about dating women. You think they're all against you! You keep this up and they will be.
Treat them the way you want to be treated, give them the same respect and you will get it back. You get exactly what you give dude!!!
Don't shove the bible into it, it only gets as good as you are. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2005 6:00:33 AM | chrisvet, aka "I ain't bitter! It's those feminazis!", says:
I don’t associate, nor need the approval of Nazi’s. (
Wow. I'm sure by now everyone is impressed with you! Is your e-mail overflowing yet from eager fans asking you for advise?
Since I have been happily involved in a MEANINGFUL long term relationship with a woman I am proud to call my BEST FRIEND, it would appear that YOU are the one who is CONFUSED.
No joke? Hmmm.. then what the hell is this in your profile?
I am Seeking aWomanForHang Out
Sounds like you don't have a woman at all, anywhere
Heaven forbid someone should make a mistake in public so a whole bunch of people you don’’t know might look down on YOU.
Look baby, you're referring to the part in my profile where I discuss cleanliness. I love cleanliness. I'm extremely clean always and expect the same from a man. :) If you have a little problem keeping clean, that’s your problem, don’t bash me for it, go get help.
CEO, President 2 Corporations
Wow! CEO of 2 corporations? Damn!
Hey, is that a Lexus you’re waxing? Or a Hummer? Or a Mercedes? Or a Jag? Oops, sorry, it’s neither. I think you need to re-do your profile.
Interests Everything involving making money personal growth and helping others less fortunate that make honest attempts to better their own lives instead of playing the "victim" card over and over
Hey thanks! I think we're all ready for some good, old-fashioned pearls of wisdom from you like:
“I’M NOT REALLY BITTER! IT’S JUST THAT THOSE FEMINAZIS MAKE ME THAT WAY!”
Or how about this precious comment from you: Yes, it’s a shame when people have to worry about money and careers. They should give it up, take your advice and travel the world…..In a rowboat. Besides, I hear hitchhiking works well too.
Go wax your car again, will you? | |
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Posted: 2/13/2005 6:20:18 AM | Hi fud25: The opinion on what a zygote is, and whether a zygote classifies as a human being, is an issue the fundamentalists and evangelicals want to discuss. In fact, it is the #1 most important religious premise to an evangelical or fundamentalist, that a zygote be classified as a human, so that it can be subject to the laws affecting humans, and so that it can be referred to in the 10 Commandments.
I'm sure they'll soon want to give zygotes social security numbers, names, want to baptize them, and make them microscopic clothing in the shape of an alien.
Other religions do not agree that a zygote is a human being. Other religions see it as growing tissue. As I've mentioned before, the Orthodox Jewish religion believes that it is not until something is born, that it gets a soul.
However, all these things mean nothing at all to fundamentalists and evangelicals, who persist that their religion be given priority over everyone else's, that everyone else convert to fundamentalism and evangelism, that their religion be made the U.S. religion, and that their fundamentalism and evangelism beliefs be enacted into laws within the U.S., so that the rest of us will have to, in effect, practice the religions practiced by fundamentalism and evangelism. In their view, the rest of religions and beliefs should be d*mned, and that's that. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2005 6:27:11 AM | AG,
You know you have to choose em better,
Myself & all my gal pals, are independant very hard working.
& aren't needy. I more often than not either offer to pay or just pay for myself.
It's TRAMPS my love that go clubin' & dating without their own means.
I don't go out if I can't afford to myself................
sorry for being rash.........just my opinion................
Cheers...........
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Posted: 2/13/2005 6:39:51 AM | AG
now you are getting real lame,
Don't be so d*mn gullable.....................
Is she breaking you arm to pay............
& for His & Her sexuality........
"And while were on the topic of advantages, don't forget that woman also have multiple orgasms and men don't......"
Perhaps you should read/learn a bit more, you can achieve many orgasms,
Is this what you mean.............cumming & orgasms are the same ? haaaaaaa
Broaden your spectrum............. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2005 3:35:07 PM | I'm not enjoying the generalizatoins of single parent families that I'm seeing
My parents divorced when I was 10. My mother had to go to the food bank more than once, things were very tough until she got back on her feet. I lived with my father exactly half of the time, so child support was very little (understandably so, but that just means my mom had it tougher for quitting work to raise my sister and I)
My point is that I was a straight A student my entire high school career. I was involved in sports and other activities, including organizing humanitarian campaigns and what not
I waited until 20 to have sex with someone I love dearly, and have never had unprotected sex, or gotten involved in drugs.
I am now going to school for my degree in genetics and molecular biology (honours), completely financing it myself through scholarships, hard work and loans. All in all, considering my parents had an extremely mess divorce and still do not like to be in the same room, I think I turned out ok.
So dont right off all single parent families. good parents in general make the difference, whether they are together or not.
PS. I agree with what Trance has said...I too will not date someone I am not interested in, I find that unfair and morally cruel. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2005 4:16:39 PM |
quote saritanazi
I am Seeking aWomanForHang Out
Sounds like you don't have a woman at all, anywhere
Hehe, Great comeback!!
Given the choices were "Seeking MAN" or "Seeking Relationship", "Hang out Female" was a likely choice. You're well aware that this was also posted in my profile:
"I AM NOT SEEKING A RELATINIONSHIP AND AM CURRENTLY INVOLVED."
You are a perfect example of someone who "twists" and "misconstrues" facts with bullsh*t.
Hey, is that a Lexus you’re waxing? Or a Hummer? Or a Mercedes? Or a Jag? Oops, sorry, it’s neither. I think you need to re-do your profile.
Actually it’s a Lincoln Navigator and a Corvette sitting in the driveway. And that sweet girl is the love of my life. The other photo is a picture of me beside a rental car in Florida a few winters ago. Time to switch-on those “Wiper blades” on your glasses.
I know miserly loves company, but I'm sorry it saddens you I'm doing so well for myself.
Hey thanks! I think we're all ready for some good, old-fashioned pearls of wisdom from you like:
“I’M NOT REALLY BITTER! IT’S JUST THAT THOSE FEMINAZIS MAKE ME THAT WAY!”
Since you are the Author of the entire quote ABOVE - I'M SORRY YOU'RE BITTER !!
Go wax your car again, will you?
That’s Ok; I’ll just get some of your family members to do it. Besides, they already cut my grass.
The works: plastic surgery, teeth, hair, etc. I have to lose my last 30 to 35 lbs by spring to get it done. Why am I doing it?
Good luck with your plastic surgery I’m sure your teeth turn out great.
Maybe improving them will improve what comes out of your mouth!!
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Posted: 2/13/2005 4:28:15 PM |
blue_sky83 on 06-09-2004 06:43 PM
Subject: About women in the dating world..
dont right off all single parent families. good parents in general make the difference, whether they are together or not.
This is an excellent example of someone beating the odds. The fact it's statistically difficult to achieve this under adverse conditions still doesn't prove it's impossible.
You are living proof, and should be commended for your hard work.
You are no doubt proud of your accomplishments. I'm sure many others are as well.
However, I have a question about this:
I lived with my father exactly half of the time, so child support was very little (understandably so, but that just means my mom had it tougher for quitting work to raise my sister and I)
Did your sister live with your dad 1/2 of the time too? | |
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Posted: 2/13/2005 4:33:04 PM | chrisvet, that's interesting that you say:
I AM NOT SEEKING A RELATINIONSHIP AND AM CURRENTLY INVOLVED."
and yet in your profile you are...
Seeking a: woman
and also in your profile, you are....
Seeking to hang out with a woman
But nah, you really have a woman because, HEY, there's a picture of her on your profile, according to you.
Get help, chrisvet. Get help. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2005 12:48:33 AM | >AG,
>You know you have to choose em better,
>Myself & all my gal pals, are independant very hard working.
>& aren't needy. I more often than not either offer to pay or just pay for myself.
>It's TRAMPS my love that go clubin' & dating without their own means.
>I don't go out if I can't afford to myself................
>sorry for being rash.........just my opinion................
>Cheers...........
Thank you. I appreciate your comments and your insight. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2005 4:48:09 AM |
>The few advantages women have in dating are outweighed by the disadvantages they have >in other areas of life.
How is this possible? What disadvantages do women have?
I'm sure this already got an answer, but let's see:
- Being in constant danger of being raped, beaten up by guys who didn't like their "no", or just someone who decides to do so.
- When unwanted pregnancy occures, she is the one who is left with the child / decisions what to do with the child and the emotional package.
- If she has sex as much as the man has, she is considered a whore while he is a stud.
- She is expected to want a relationship with a man. IF she just wanted sex, and the guy wanted more, oh yappee.
- If you want to gently and friendly say "I'm not interested" she is not being understood. If she says it flat out loud, she's considered a b*tch.
- She is expected to like doing housework, interior designing, cook and care for children. If not, she is not very good, and most likely a lesbian. (The wrong, feminist kind. Yack!)
- She generally gets less pay.
- for a job she applies for she can loose the application to a man who has the same or even less of qualifications, on base of "she'll get pregnant soon anyway, and then we have to find someone else to do her job."
- If she does not want children, she's considered to be a liar or "emotionally challenged."
- She is expected to be bisexual no matter her own interests, because it's sexy in the his eye.
- She's considered a b*tch if she says "no" to a man who isn't nearly as attractive as she is.
- She's judged by her looks, no matter if she has the looks or don't, most men and some women as well don't bother taking time to take a look in the inside.
Do I need to go on?
What I find funny is that men complain about not getting a good looking girlfriend, while they themselves are looking like the worst of the straight men before Fab 5 make over. Men complain about how women don't understand them, while making no effort themselves to find out what women REALLY want.
Further, I always offer to pay my half of the bill on a date, even though I'm the poorest of the poor.
I would never go out with a guy just to get a free movie ticket. Not worthy.
I never ask about anyones profession, or car, and find men who talk about either of the subjects in order to make an impression on me incredibly boring.
If this sounds bitter, it's only because I'm sick of men complaining about how great it is for women in the dating world. I'm not saying it's easy for men, just that let's face it, we both have our own difficoulties, I'd call it even. | |
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