| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 4:44:11 PM | Guys: "Control, control, you must learn control!" Give her her pleasure, then give her your pleasure.... Or stop and just enjoy what has occured. Pick things up another time. A man's orgasms can be trained.
Girls: Just because he didn't cum doesn't necessarilly mean he didn't get off. Just the ego-boost from making you scream like a banshee for the past hour or so is plenty for some of us. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 5:12:31 PM | | There is a such thing, and I do it repeatedly and I don't know what's the issue. I've only been with one female who can last as long as I can and I came twice with her. I thought it was something emotional or psychological, and it may very well be. I've only been with two women where I came during sex. Every woman I've been with has had an orgasm and a couple of them have felt bad about me not climaxing. One of the females that I actually came with didn't really care if I did or not. After 3 hours and multiple orgasms She said, "I can't believe you've gone that long and you have come yet," as she was putting her clothes back on. I looked at her and said,"I can't believe you gonna leave me like this." She relunctantly pulled her pants and panyts back down leaving the shirt on and laid down. I don't think I was that far from climaxing, but she kind of put pressure on me so it took me another thirty minutes and I finally had my nut. The other female that I would climax more than once with loved sex and could last a while and what I liked about her was that even if it had been over an hour when I came she didn't mind if I kept going, which I would and the second time was easier than the first. I always say if I find another who can hang with me I'm keeping her. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 5:33:20 PM | | Personally, I can go all night, so I have no issues with a man going too long. Think of all the interesting positions and such and the amount of intimate contact there is. I would LOVE to have a man that I would have to say stop to.....havent met one yet!! Besides, for a woman like me who has yet to achieve an orgasm during intercourse, Id like to meet someone who can hold out for a while so I get at least the pleasure of the process. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 5:38:08 PM | Ive been in situations where we both started getting soar and had to stop,it all depends on the individual situation,me personally add a six pack of beer and Im good for a all nighter,as long as we are both enjoying it... | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/9/2006 11:21:02 PM | It depends on the situation. If the girl gets off and you go for a little while longer and it doesn't look as if she is going to again, then finish. However, if you are both still having a great time then keep on.
I am with a guy now who reads me very well. So, depending on how the both of us feel is really what determines how long.
I think it really does come down to reading the situation and the person. Is her energy level the same? Is she still really into it?
Or....**** it, if you like to go for a long time every time I am sure there are plenty of girls out there that like it for a long time every time too. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 7:13:54 AM | | l did have that problem when l was younger, had a problem cumming, some times it was like 5 to 6 hours and nothing and my girlfreind would say stop lm just too soar but after l did get there a while down the line l can now only last for about 15 mins, so l try and give long fourplay, first keeps every one happy l hope lol. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 7:17:37 AM | | I remember reading one post in another thread, similar subject. "How long should he last?" His reply was "about 30 seconds longer than she does." Thought that was great. Get her there....get yours. Repeat...................... | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 7:58:56 AM | If it's just hard pounding in one place then i would say about 20mins..... personally i prefer multiple positions in various rooms...... I have the problem of lasting too long, so we have to work together all over the place to keep us both stimulated. You have to keep the brain active as well as the body to keep those juices going.
problem occurs when you get your rocks off, but the little fella is not going anywhere....... that's when i get upset  and she runs away  | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 8:38:38 AM | yes I'd rather have all night sex consisting of 4 - 5 separate sessions with breaks in between maybe a bubble bath together... but one long consecutive session of banging hard for over hours of time "tap me out"  and pass the lube. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 9:06:59 AM | The only time I had a man last too long was when I was with a good friend and he had been doing crank. No way he was going to get off. We had planned a threesome with another female friend of ours and she chickened out at the last minute and decided she just wanted to watch. It was just recreational sex. Nothing more, nothing less.
I can not say I have had the pleaure of a man lasting too long that I was emotionally involved with. Somehow I just can't see me complaining. There is more than one way to enjoy a man that lasts all night long.  | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 11:15:09 AM | | It happened to me a couple times. Both times it was with a pretty lady that was obviously a one-timer, and both times I had been drinking pretty heavily. well heavy drinking means you won't get one of two things, up or off. As I think back it just dawned on me about the one shot deal. The opportunity came up on both by accident, so in retrospect, that may have been as important to the situation, or lack thereof, as the drinking, All I know is I have regretted both many times since. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 11:38:04 AM | Yes there is a such thing as a man lasting too long. I have had the experience about 3 times. I like the fact that a man can last longer than shorter. The only negative is if I'm ready to quit and he still wants to go, go go; like if he did not cum yet, or he's trying to cum again. But I would never want the guy to fake it, so that he's giving me the break. I will endure it until he cums, and try my best that he does, or else I'd feel like I didn't do my part. But as far as minutes...it depends for me. But he would know when I'm ready to quit when I say in my sexy voice(trying not to sound stressed,lol) I say.."I want you to cum." That's usually my way of saying...PLEASE HAVE MERCY ON ME AND CUM ALREADY!! This plea also applies when it is very painful as well, or my vagina is getting all dried up,lol. But I think the guy should always notice when the female has had enough...look at her facial expression or ask her.And hurry it up already, without faking it...faking it is for women only | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 12:02:02 PM | | No!!!!!!!!! Last as long as you like it might save you from being woken up 15 times during the night so I can get my fix.....LOL!!! Tire me out the first time and I'll let ya get some sleep!! | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/10/2006 12:08:56 PM | In order for a guy to last long to please his woman and himself well it has to start from this order: foreplay/oral sex/then ****ing....
P.S the guy needs to be experienced and know what he's doing | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/12/2006 1:09:37 AM | | My bestfriend had sex with a guy who lasted for 4 hours. The guy was a mutual friend so I told him to go see a doctor 'cause that's not normal. Although she did achieve several orgasms, in my book 4 hours is too long, hell 1 hour is too long. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/12/2006 1:39:25 AM | "isnt there a medical condition of constant erection."
Yup, it's called Priapism. Definition: An erection lasting longer than 4 hours. Apparently it's dangerous. They mention it as a warning on those boner-pill commercials like Viagra and Cialis. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/12/2006 2:21:20 AM | Marathon sex is great, but pack a lunch and the all parties involved should be on the same page. Just going into it blind is just asking for trouble, it's that communication thing that most men fail at or so we are always being told. Any real man that's worth his weight will learn to wait and release when she is done having her way with you. If you still aren't sure then just ask her and I promise she will let you know when she has had enough. That's normally what that faking thing is all about. When she's done she's done and no amount guessing on your part will change that. She's either going to climax because of you or despite you. Just pounding her for the sake of pounding just doesn't seem like all that much fun.
Later, Bob | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/12/2006 4:13:19 AM | I didn't catch that; some guy confessed to faking?? LOL I have never done that. It would be too fake :/
@ Billd; you are so yang; such a GUY! No; not flirting - just that - you are such a GUY. | |
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| Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/12/2006 5:31:24 PM | Too long depends on the lady and the night. I've been publicly defended as being able to 'play' for 3 hours. No! that's not straight pounding! And no viagra either. THe lady never complained and 'the well' didnt 'dry up'. Now the ex was another way. Some nights 5 minutes and we were both done for the night. Other times,a lazy afternoon filled.
Guys!!!!! learn to read the ladys' mood! ANd quit if she's had enough! there's always later or tomorrow if you must get off.
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