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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 4:17:31 AM | soulllllll
I have to agree with the gang on this one. You seem to have a complete fixation upon your baldness. Now if the baldness is self induced then I have to think it might border on anal behavior. Now, don;t get pissed about that soul because my name isn't Zigmond Frued nor is it Carl Jung. But, as much attention that you seem to draw to yourself forces me to believe that the gang has you busted and wih good reason. In other words you need attention even if the attention is negative. Then, I really have to wonder how you can take the bible and make a statement that long hair make a man a sissy. I have read the bible from cover to cover several times and NEVER caught that act anyplace. Could you enlighten me as to where the bible speaks out against long hair.I'm burning with DESIRE to hear that one.
long story made short..I'm not trying to make any enemies here..No, if I do I won't shake my little self apart in fear..(in the case that I do make an enemy that is)
You know, I don't think that these nice people had a problem with that you expressed your opinion. I think they had a problem that you expressed it and then ATTACKED those with long hair. Soulllllll, I have read your words that you left behind for me in other links...I was neither impressed in a good way nor was I upset as I laughed about it. I now just want to say that you have read what I have written online for you. now here is where I piss all over your doorstep....JUST IMAGINE WHAT I HAVE NOT WRITTEN ! Have a nice day Bubba | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 6:04:17 AM | | you are not the first person in these forums to be irritated by the paranoid ravings of soulll. he will never get it. when he blindly lashes out at everybody, and people object, he wonders why you're picking on him. he will not understand that it's probably not his appearance, but his insane attitudes that are keeping him from forming a relationship. | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 6:47:43 AM | | Yes, I think long hair is sexy. But then, I'm a relic from the 70's where all the guys had pretty, shoulder length hair (or wanted to but their parents wouldn't let them). Maybe its a generational influence for some of us. My oldest son has beautiful long wavy hair down to his mid back and its gorgeous and I'm always bugging him to wear it down instead of pulled back. However, my youngest son tries to do the mullet thing (short on top and sides, long in back) which IS rather gross, IMHO. | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 7:51:27 AM | Long hair - ABSOLUTELY! I don't like short hair on anyone. I really have no idea why it holds such appeal for me. Perhaps it is because I grew up in the 70's & 80's - I don't know. I can tell you that I rarely date men with short hair, or worse, NO hair!
Which brings me to this bald guy who thinks he knows the Bible. There was a prominent sect in those times called the Nazerites, who were sworn never to cut their hair. The Prophet Samuel & Samson are the easiest to find. But there is evidence that James, the brother of Jesus, was one, & that Jesus himself was as well. I think there is some place in the so-called "New Testament" where Paul expresses a dislike for long hair, but he was rather opinionated on just about everything. He hung out with Romans, who were fond of short hair, so consider the source. I was a Middle East Studies major, with emphasis on Biblical archeology, so I know what I'm talking about.
Back to the hair: YES, YES, YES!!!!! Guys - if you've got it, keep it! If you don't, GROW IT! | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 8:05:57 AM | Personally, I believe that the men opposed to the appearance of another man, have insecurity issues. Perhaps one if your ex-g/fs left you for a long-haired man? Or, like someone else implied, you cannot grow your own hair long?
Many masculine men, throughout history, have worn their hair long (though, I will admit that the '80s glam trend had me wondering about a few  ... my rule; if they were prettier than I, or took longer to get ready to go out, I wouldn't date them).
Many generals, kings, knights, explorers, gunfighters, and, of course, Native American braves and chiefs, wore their hair long... these men were not considered "effeminate".
You, personally, do not care for long-haired men, Soulll (sp?)... are you looking for a man? | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 3:21:17 PM | hhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....................
as for me, well when i fall for the guy, i fall for whatever hair he has...............i have loved it short, loved it long, and loved it totally gone.........and body hair is the same............and if someone said they loved me and didnt love my hair............guess what? i ditched them and kept the hair!
wasnt that hairlarious | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 4:09:11 PM | These "ORDERS" the "hate" and this "threat" is of your own making, Soullll ........if theres a battle going on here, it's battleground is in YOU'RE mind.
I would suggest you try to adjust to reality instead of istead of trying to adjust it to you, you'll be a happier person in the long run.
BTW, the "no offense" disclaimer is like saying "safe" in a kid's playground game, don't expect it to "protect" you from people returning "in kind" if you cast aspersions, imply insults or put words, ideas and opinions into their mouth(s).
Read your own responses in this and/or other threads, ........you are trying to get others to play their parts in your own delusion, ....this is NOT healthy.
Maybe the best help you're going to get is that which doesn't come from what you hold to be absolute, ...........people telling you what you want to hear only prolongs the delusion, ........it doesn't resolve it. | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 4:17:12 PM | Thanks trance, ....I guess there's something under all this hair after all
I've tried to be "gentle" with Soulll, .......but I think his approach is best dealt with in a "tough love" manner.
Telling him what he wants to hear isn't going to help the poor bastage. | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 4:20:18 PM | | Exactly...he has all these pre-conceived notions and he molds what people say to fit into what he wants to percieve. BUT you really hit the nail on it, you were able to verbally express it, I just couldnt find the words. I am impressed! | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 4:21:51 PM | On subject... I too grew up when long hair was "in" on both sexes, as were mini skirts and hip hugger bell bottoms. Loved it then, love it now. But this new thing of shaving is ok too. Looks a lot better than a comb over, or a mohawk or a "bowl" (sorry beatles - those were the days).
I used to religiously perm my naturally straight hair thinking it would make my sales better (more professional look), but it didn't. It didn't get me better boyfriends either.
I say take what God gave ya. And if you guys can pull off long hair - do it. Late looks great. | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 4:25:35 PM | Soullll did you read anything I said?
......and yet you're are still perpetuating the delusion.................
That's kinda' scary bro'.....
REALLY.
I am almost ready to give up on you, I have never seen such a closed mind in all my 42 years........ | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 4:31:31 PM | it is indecent and besides it's to an extent even efeminate.
okay....... I already responded to this.
I don't criticize someone over their appearance
How do you resolve these two statements in a way the reflects "truth", especially being honest with yourself??????????
Really.
I responed in the thread concerning "measure of a man" with
"words and deeds"
Think about it?????????
You may not realize this, ....but I am trying to help you, ...in a way that those telling you what you want to hear CANNOT. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2005 4:35:42 PM | " I prefer just normal freindly talk and friendship."
Then think about how you treat others.
Honestly.
"The bible"?
The "nothing personal" disclaimer is empty to me, Soullll..........The bible is not an absolute, get used to it. You are NOT being honest.
If you want to interact with others, remember, some don't share your perceptions. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2005 4:42:12 PM | | your evading reality in order to not have to feel "hurt" but life is full of hurts and not so great experiences...we all have these EVERYBODY. We do not live in a Utopian Society, there is not such thing and never will be. Everyone is different and it does not have to be a bad thing | |
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| What about long hair on a man..Is it attractive or not? and WHY
Posted: 2/11/2005 4:44:26 PM | "when I read some sort of injustice and hurtful remark against others."
You are confusing "read" and "sees" with "percieve".
"You seem like a Martyr"
He is seeking affirmation from others to pad a delusion, I seriously hope he considers this and GETS HELP. | |
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