| What's it mean when.....
Posted: 4/26/2009 4:36:13 PM | | You should read "He's Just Not That Into Me". It's a fun book, with a little insite to what men are thinking. I read it and could see myself as well as several of my friends in what it had to say. From reading the book I'd say "He's just not that into you". | |
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| What's it mean when.....
Posted: 4/26/2009 4:43:41 PM | | Depends on how you guys left thing a year ago. One guy keeps popping back into my life because we had a great thing going and he lied to me about something seemingly insignificant to him, not to me - so I called it quits. He drops a note every few months to see how I am and to tell me he royally blew it. Guess it just eats at him. | |
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| What's it mean when.....
Posted: 4/26/2009 6:29:11 PM | No. The original post is from 2006 by the way, so I hope the original poster has figured this out by now.
When a guy comes back into your life a year later, it usually means he's got nothing else, or no other prospects going on, and he wants to just get laid. You are his recent "go to girl" of convenience because you happen to be available. It does not mean, he's into you. | |
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| What's it mean when.....
Posted: 5/21/2009 1:34:32 AM | I've actually been there before. If you're talking about someone that you've been involved with or perhaps dated and burned... maybe he just had to spend some time getting to know himself better before he approached you again. He probably had feelings for you, but chose to stay away because, hell, he was upset the last time you went out, and you didn't contact him after your last date. He probably thought it was over and started anew with his life until he saw you again, realized he still had feelings for you, and thought he would give it another try. Who knows? Maybe this time it would be different.
It really depends. I'm only writing from personal experience in a situation I've been in, but everyone is different.
If you were in a relationship... My guess is that the man is probably not thinking of you when this happens, they're probably just looking for something familiar after they've been through a bad breakup. Keep yourself at a healthy distance and be honest about how you feel when this happens until you know what his motivations are. Some guys are trully genuine, and will understand hesitation if they know what's behind it. | |
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