| Oral after sex
Posted: 4/21/2006 1:25:19 AM | I've heard there are quite a few kinds of bacteria in the mouth....the question is, are all these types of bacteria the kind that will give you serious diseases like the ones from your ass if you get them in your mouth?
The answer would be no.
I realize it would take a really stupid person to go down on a****that was just in their ass but sweat and motion causes bacteria to move around. Again, a lot of things happen during sex. I'm not saying it's GOING to happen...I'm just saying there is a better chance in the absence of showering.
Another thing besides bacteria from the back door....is YEAST...that could be way up inside if you didn't flush yourself out in the last couple of days that washing won't reach. Now it's on the outside and exposed to air and in the process of dying probably...unless the guy swallows it, it proliferates in his system only he has no symptom because that is very typical of the male anatomy. Who pays the price? the woman after they have sex again.
I say if it seems nasty to a person, don't do it. Their instinct could be right and if someone does something foolish because their instinct failed them then maybe they will be more careful in the future but there is nothing wrong with wanting to be clean or not putting your mouth on something you don't want to, imo. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 1:30:53 AM | | Haha who said anything about the a s s ? Eww yah now that......thats just now even going there! I like nutritional yeast on my popcorn ? It tastes mighty good :) But on that subject, with the right conditions as long as our PH balance is in order, or you got a yeast infection yuck. Otherwise it would be fine. As long as you wash, and your body naturally cleans itself every day every hour, hence changing underwear! K this convo is going in the wrong direction. I hear you on the bacteria thing, but ive never been sick, i have pretty lips, nothing wrong with me and hell, I like giving head ! | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 1:51:20 AM | Well, I don't know about anyone else but I tend to work up a sweat during sex and moisture always increases the the risk of bacteria moving around. Fortunately it dries quick so normal sex combined with the acidity of the vagina will probably not result in the mild but very nasty STD that produces foul smelling green smegma that people get when they foolishly have regular sex after anal sex. It's also the reason you're supposed to wipe from front to back.
I just don't know if I would ask somebody to go down on me, while still wet after normal, moderately rigorous sex. The mouth has a different PH then the body and is good at being the doorway to bacteria. You don't catch colds by sitting on them. They go in through your mouth. The mouth tends to be an opportunistic focal point for many things.
I'm not trying to argue....I'm just taking the side of anyone who uses caution in this respect because things like yeast infections are pretty common and yeast is usually present to some degree in the system but at certain times they are triggered and flare up, usually affecting the vagina or throats of young children or immune compromised people. Why? there could be a lot of reason and I wouldn't knock anyone for being careful.
As for the body cleaning itself out, your right, it does. That's why the vagina is acidic in the first place, as is the skin and the rest of the body, slightly...to fight off fungus and bacteria, but the system doesn't always work perfectly and in certain times of the cycle the conditions are different and you never know how the flora might be at any particular time.
It's good that you've never been sick. Hopefully you never will be sick but most people have been and will be and will eventually die from one disease or another and I agree, a certain of risk to bacteria is all a part of life......I just say, if it grosses a person out...it doesn't neccessarily mean they are wrong for feeling that way.
Think about this...they don't think lesbian sex is very likely to spread HIV, but put a penis in there and you've got a different story.....Why?...Because you have the open orifice of the penis deep inside the vagina, where as in lesbian sex it is more likely to be a dildo or a finger which has the full barrier of skin and even if the virus is on the dildo, it will die in a matter of seconds outside the body before it is shared.
Full penetration does "stir things up"
Just giving my take on it. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 1:57:47 AM | Just a question, are you a nurse ? Hehe, anyhow, i can see your point of the argument. I guess im just a dirty girl =(
And youre actually starting to freak me out, ignorance is bliss isn't it ? | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 2:23:44 AM | Nope...not a nurse....just someone who preffered reading medical books over anything else....even as a child. I was a weird little kid.
Actually I may still be a little weird.
It's weird because a lot of things don't gross me out at all....not at all and I probably wouldn't be afraid to touch a bleeding person who needed help which is actually quite dangerous. I just have a certain way of looking at things, I guess. | |
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| Oral after sex
Posted: 4/21/2006 6:10:32 AM | I can see exactly where melonaide777 is coming from, and allot or people on here seem to be talking about post sex oral as normal practice, (and for many it may be). But the act of sex in a loving relationship is JUST THAT - a loving relationship, and YOUR comfort zone, which in a loving relationship, both will respect. While a male taking in the female juices may be considered normal, and visa versa; drinking your own juices (male or female) is a different category.
I for one, on the face of this discussion am not comfortable with the idea. however I feel that according to the circumstance, would define the spontaneous act of the what WE do during love making.
There have been times when I have done something during love making that I may not be comfortable another time - AND been comfortable with it AT THAT TIME. It is the moment.
Looking at it another way I very much enjoy my lover sucking, licking, and enjoying my penis; I am very conscience about cleanliness (probably to the detriment of my enjoyment), and more often than not it would be after a shower, or a swim in the pool (or during a swim in the pool), or something like this that ensures at least the feeling of cleanliness. And in a similar way that of my lover.
In my younger days, I had a feeling that I could not expect my lover to taste or swallow my semen without understanding the taste. So, in my own privacy I tasted it. And really - it is nothing to write home about. I won't go out of my way to have more. If it was a choice between that or Irish cream, then Irish cream gets my vote.
What I do have a problem about is when my lover has my penis in her mouth, that I am getting all the enjoyment. Because I love it (it is fantastic). And I feel guilty that I am getting all the enjoyment and not giving it. I like cumming in her mouth, over her face, in her hair, over her breasts (- and if its not inside her it makes me feel very guilty -) in a way I get the feeling of selfish pleasure. Even though I have in most probability have brought her one way or another to orgasm. I am not sure how to not feel guilty.
However as much as I enjoy the juices of my girl, I am not going to go out of the way to take in my own juices out of her unless it is a matter of "heat of the moment" Let's remain in perspective about this. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 6:50:09 AM | | All I can say is that if the guy wants me to suck my love juice off him, then he'd better be prepared to do the same for me!! | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 7:31:16 AM |
All I can say is that if the guy wants me to suck my love juice off him, then he'd better be prepared to do the same for me!!
I guess that was what I was trying to say in a long winded way - Damn - I wish I could be succinct. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 11:30:19 AM | | I love these forums, they are so educational!!!! | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 11:40:01 AM | | I think it's a good problem to have, because if eating it after you have sex with her is sort of taboo for you, whenevr you get over it, it will be awsome for you because you'll feel freaky. I love when a girl asks me to do something i wouldn't normally do. If you can't get past tasting your boys, first you need to realize that you kiss your girl after she gives you a blow job anyway, right? get some flavored lube and call it a day. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2006 2:06:10 PM | Manofmyword...
seems you speak from expierence -- on the control factor how far have you made your men go ????
Never quite that far! As you said "Who would want someone elses jizz" I think the closest I've ever been on the control thing, is tried to make a man jealous, by exaggerating a situation. Ok and I know alot of men who seem to have a problem with even kissing you after you've gone down on him. So I've been there and done that too. HMMMM.. Just never seems to work.
But I do know how women think. Not ashamed to admit we always go that extra step to see how far we can take you. Just as a man does also. I know many men who have done what you described also. [quote} I knew a guy who got off having woman suck on his rytym stick
after sex -
only thing was he often times had been with a woman earlier in the day and had not showered,,,, But I don't think that is a control issue with men, more like a turn on to him, or even a way to degrade her in his own way. Both sexes take things too far sometimes, which is what we all call "GAMES" How silly that we all still play them after all these years, and at our age. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 7:09:45 AM | bachelors- babe
you are the hot momma,,, and I think your wisdom comes from expierence
..... I've ever been on the control thing, is tried to make a man jealous, by exaggerating a situation. So I've been there and done that too. HMMMM.. Just never seems to work.
But I do know how women think. Not ashamed to admit we always go that extra step to see how far we can take you.
bachelors-babe as your name and age show the wisdom of a woman with such sexuality-
&& MMBHL - mmmmmmmmm....
overall I do think many of the views on this subject would vary as to the decade of first sexual activity --ie: if your were frist active in the 70´s you may think or act differently
than someone who was first active in the 90´s..... just my opinion
now miss babe :
Ok and I know alot of men who seem to have a problem with even kissing you after you've gone down on him
this is not so bad -- but would in part depend on at least two things,,,,
does your woman spit or swallow
how much load do you / the guy blow
and how does your load taste ?
question for the ladies --
would you kiss extensively a guy that you gave a glazed donught to???? | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 8:06:00 AM | | Well said longtoe20!!! I agree with you 100% | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 10:27:27 AM | Uh Oh, Manofmy.. Not too sure if the years have anything to do with it. I'd like to think it has to do with age, as in growing up.
Yes, in the 70's we were more free with it, but did we really ENJOY it?
I myself didn't give it a second thought if it was enjoyable or not, It was just something that you DID.
But now I'm at the age, when I wonder what the heck happened. If I knew THEN what I know NOW.. hehehe...
And of course the older the man gets, thank GOD, they take their time and actually seem to CARE if the woman gets off or not. (ok some of them) And if they don't well, trust me when I say this, flashlights are not what Duracell is used for most.  | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 10:41:52 AM |
question for the ladies --
would you kiss extensively a guy that you gave a glazed donught to????
Hell yes! | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 10:20:44 AM | hey not evey1 into oral
it could be for religion
taste
missunderstanding on the information
the risk of inbarssing cuz it there first
my thought on it
its not for every1
i dont knock if if you like
but shouldnt diss others who tried it and didnt like
i admite i tried it dont like taste i was sooooooooooo inbarseed cuz i threw up on his penis
there are guys who like bj but wont give to other partner that isnt fair
i believe there other stuff a couble can do to spice up there sex life and dont need to do the norm of oral or anal or intercourse there so much to explore and try that is sexy or exciting
for example
role play
tell each other fantesy
explore each body with lotions and oils even body paint ie chocolate
try sex in diferent places
just use your mind
sex is not a chore it a way to bond with you other half
i love my bf and satisfied and happy
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Posted: 4/26/2006 10:39:08 AM | after the act?
Aren't you cumming inside her? And aren't you focussing on the clit when your licking? I don't see the problem...
I love to suck him off after he has been inside me, I like how I taste with him. | |
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| Oral after sex
Posted: 4/26/2006 10:40:54 AM | Alot of it depends, but I like to have my****licked and sucked after we come together, especially the tip! And I hve no problem returning the favor, depending on her hygene and I usually work around the lips and clit after intercourse, lick the sensitive parts!!
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Posted: 4/26/2006 12:17:10 PM | well i love to give oral sex to my man and he loves it and he gives it back without hesitation. i do before sex and after sex. we are always suckin and lickin away on each other. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 12:25:04 PM | | GEEEZ! ...after sex, after I catch my breath, I want to take a nap or get something cold to drink, go take a pee, for sure, maybe get something to eat, but not get licked all over again! I mean, weren't we already finished? Anyway, Boston Legal might be coming on...! | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 12:36:14 PM | | Because it's awesome that's why. If you can bring yourself to do it initially why not after? | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 12:49:19 PM | | too tired, too sensitive, mouth dry from all that panting! I'm finished and want to rest, dammit! Nothing wrong with the taste, I'm a swallower from waaaaay back! BUT...just been there, done that a minute ago, time to do something else: eat, drink, pee... | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 3:05:27 PM | What's an extra five minutes of play time before you eat/drink/pee, it keeps you both primed and eager for the next round!
*wicked grin* | |
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Posted: 5/1/2006 6:37:03 PM | | i agree hygene should be good and no stds or open sores | |
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Posted: 5/1/2006 7:12:30 PM | | Nothing is a must about sex, like someone said , its all about your comfort zone. Come to think of it, if she aint ready to curl up and sleep after sex, then you need to rethink your equipment and strategy | |
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