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 Author Thread: Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 101
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 1/30/2007 9:13:04 AM
hmmm I think so...I just couldn't bring my S/O around Smyllz who has a eye phobia hehehehe
 Blacktied

Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 102
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 1/30/2007 10:05:03 AM
LOL...no. I guess I am just mean.
 catch of the day:

Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 103
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 1/30/2007 2:08:08 PM

I can't say dating someone with a lazy eye would be high on my priority list, no. But if she was perfect in every other way, I don't think it would stop me from dating her again.




theres nothing like high expecations here! wow!
 Cwgrlboots

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 104
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Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/2/2007 9:15:42 PM
Sure - as long as it found its way back to me eventually......

~Boots~
 Sombient

Joined: 9/29/2006
Msg: 105
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/2/2007 9:40:05 PM
I have this condition; its called Amblyopia. I was treated at a young age with vision therapy. It only returns briefly, and rarely, when I am very tired.

http://www.lazyeye.org/#causes


Treatment of Amblyopia (Lazy Eye)
Treatment involves glasses, drops, vision therapy and/or patching. Recent medical research has proven that amblyopia is successfully treated up to the age of 17. See National Institutes of Health -- National Eye Institute; Older Children Can Benefit From Treatment; Lazy Eye.

Treatment of amblyopia after the age of 17 is not dependent upon age but requires more effort including vision therapy. Although improvements are possible at any age with proper treatment, early detection and treatment still offer the best outcome.

To quote Dr. Leonard J. Press, FAAO, FCOVD: "It's been proven that a motivated adult with strabismus and/or amblyopia who works diligently at vision therapy can obtain meaningful improvement in visual function. As my patients are fond of saying: "I'm not looking for perfection; I'm looking for you to help me make it better". It's important that eye doctors don't make sweeping value judgments for patients. Rather than saying "nothing can be done", the proper advice would be: "You won't have as much improvement as you would have had at a younger age; but I'll refer you to a vision specialist who can help you if you're motivated."


In other words, there is no valid reason why it can't be successfully treated.
 lamadrmmer3

Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 106
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/2/2007 10:47:14 PM
I think it depends on the severity of the eye... and of course their personality. For instance, I've met someone who had a slight lazy eye, and a great sense of humor, so it was really easy to get past it.

At the same time, I've met someone who was nasty to people, had a chip on her shoulder, and her lazy eye was one of those that would just kinda roll around in her head. So sometimes it would look at you, and other times, not. Kinda hard to get past that kind of thing.
 Violet Tigress

Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 107
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/2/2007 11:32:15 PM

At the same time, I've met someone who was nasty to people, had a chip on her shoulder, and her lazy eye was one of those that would just kinda roll around in her head. So sometimes it would look at you, and other times, not. Kinda hard to get past that kind of thing



Juust think, maybe she knew that lots of people felt just the way you did about it & that's whhy she had a chip on her shoulder.
 scarydave

Joined: 2/23/2006
Msg: 108
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/3/2007 12:46:32 AM
I would date a one armed, deaf, mute,blind, midget with a peg leg and an eye patch if I liked her. Everyone has something great or a whole list of great somethings an usually once you like them, it's easy to see those things if yer not too busy comparing the person to a fashion magazine fulla digitally enhanced mythical imagery.

Looks are easy to adjust to and become fond of. It mean spirited, obnoxious, self centered behavior that is just plain intolerable.

DAve
 ryouforme

Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 109
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/3/2007 12:17:10 PM
I have a lazy eye, and wear corrective lenses because of it. It has never, to my knowledge at least, been a problem with men I've known. It did cause me problems in school though, as teachers often thought I wasn't paying attention when I actually was.


If I met a man who had a lazy eye, that would not be a problem for me.
 This is Now

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 110
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/3/2007 1:13:22 PM
A lazy eye is the least of my worries when I am choosing someone to date. I am 50 and hopefully in the next five to ten years I will meet someone who will be my live-out love of the rest of my life.

Being raised by my great-grandparents and grandparents, and having worked at a couple of positions where I dealt with the elderly, I know the latter years can be Heaven or they can be Hell when it comes to physical problems.

It's the emotional content of a man's heart I'm concerned about and that it's mutually felt.
 timegoesby

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 111
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Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/3/2007 1:57:24 PM
I was born with a "lazy eye," it runs in the family. I had it surgically corrected when I was just a babe, but it eventually came back. I had the surgery again about 8 years ago, that was not fun. The lazy eye pretty much does quit working, so getting used to both eyes working together again was a trip. I can say it was pretty difficult to make eye contact with someone who didn't know which eye I was actually using.
 MysticalRose

Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 112
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/3/2007 2:15:48 PM
(bornyesterday) sounds about right...!!
How about this??
Would you date someone who seems so superficial, I have never met anyone yet who is PERFECT...???
And can't beleive some of these stupid threads they allow here!
Prefer lazy eye over Lazy Bum..!!
 tomozzo

Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 113
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 9/19/2007 4:26:12 AM
the first girl i ever had feelings for in 3rd grade had a lazy eye and to this day i find them very sexy.

if you watch Rock Of Love with Bret Michaels one of the ladies Lacey, has a lazy eye and she is the Bomb!!! i love them.
 blueyesrsmiling

Joined: 5/31/2007
Msg: 114
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 9/19/2007 4:33:58 AM
Its not lazy eye its wandering eye,,,,,,,,the nerve was probably damaged during birth. My Daughter had the very same problem and surgery corrects it. Lazy eye is the eye that needs to be covered to make it stronger.
 Katertots37

Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 115
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 9/19/2007 4:35:23 AM
I've got a lazy eye but it doesn't stop me from doing anything any normal person can do. I don't even realize that it wanders until my kids start laughing at me. They only do that because they say it creeps them out..i can fix it on my own.
 star100280

Joined: 1/27/2008
Msg: 116
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/15/2008 5:23:21 PM
If he/ she said to look me in the eyes id p*ss myself laughing as i would have to dart my head about to chase the lazy eye and other than that i would be constantly staring at it and think i was dating a chameleon , everything about a guy has to be straight and normal
 No Imagination

Joined: 11/1/2007
Msg: 117
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 2/15/2008 7:00:04 PM
I went to school with a girl that had this. She was by far the most attractive girl in school. To this day I regret telling her that her eyes only added to her attractiveness.
 musicfan1980

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 118
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 6/2/2008 8:50:14 PM
Before i reply to this, have to say that some of the posts regarding this topic are really ignorant.

I've had it since birth (born 12 wks premature) & if anybody wants to crack jokes about it, they can seriously **** off. Fortunately a great majority of my friends have never even brought it up once to me & i don't really like discussing it with others. This is me, so take it or leave it.
 blondago56

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 119
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Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 6/2/2008 8:56:42 PM
i REALLY hope by now, that is the VERY LEAST Thing i have to be concerned with regarding another person i let into my Life!
 Naughtical

Joined: 4/27/2007
Msg: 120
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Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:03:55 PM

I've had it since birth (born 12 wks premature) & if anybody wants to crack jokes about it, they can seriously **** off. Fortunately a great majority of my friends have never even brought it up once to me & i don't really like discussing it with others. This is me, so take it or leave it.

Being so obviously sensitive and touchy about it...
Why in the world did you resurrect this old thread???
 musicfan1980

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 121
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:09:22 PM

Being so obviously sensitive and touchy about it...
Why in the world did you resurrect this old thread???


Uhh maybe because i felt like it....
 Naughtical

Joined: 4/27/2007
Msg: 122
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Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:15:27 PM
Hey...you are the one who said you don't like discussing it with others...
and then you post about it on a public forum seen by thousands.
Too funny.


Oh...my opinion on someone having a lazy eye:
Not even worth mentioning. Not with all the more serious physical and mental challenges people face everyday.
 musicfan1980

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 123
Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:18:38 PM

Hey...you are the one who said you don't like discussing it with others...
and then you post about it on a public forum seen by thousands.
Too funny.



"Discussing" as in face-to-face...definitely not online with somebody who i'll never see in real life...**** outta here with that bullshit.
 snickers06

Joined: 9/12/2006
Msg: 124
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Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:47:12 AM
Naughtical nimrod let's see your tramp stamp. Get a clue lady, even I got the point of what he was saying while you were busy forming your critical of why he posted it. Start with Doctor Seuss and work your way up.
 yoodle

Joined: 9/30/2006
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Would you date someone with a lazy eye?
Posted: 6/3/2008 3:35:22 AM
I dated a guy with a lazy eye...I always took it to mean the other part of his brain had wandered off in the middle of some of those eyeball to eyeball conversations that people have.

I also dated a guy with a glass eye. It took me 2 years to have the courage to ask which one was real and which one was fake. Had some fun with my 2 year old nephew and the extra glass eyes that were in boxes ...oh, my eye jumped right out into my hand!
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