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 laurelmoonstar

Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 351
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 6/19/2006 4:38:10 PM
I loved that post, the first one, the one that started the thread! God, that is so funny. I needed a good laugh, im not being sarcastic or mean, please dont take it wrong, it just struck me as funny!
 roni43

Joined: 11/27/2004
Msg: 352
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 6/19/2006 5:30:55 PM

(quote) It's left bracket, the word quote, right bracket.
Your quoted text.
Left bracket, the word /quote, right bracket(quote)
But you didn't learn it, you did it wrong. Follow the dang directions. I'm just kidding you.
 roni43

Joined: 11/27/2004
Msg: 353
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 6/19/2006 5:34:56 PM
By golly....we have to learn the quote box to have better pickins.
 Awesomeone54

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 354
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Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 6/19/2006 6:14:33 PM
It has seemed to me that men become the ones that want to get serious and settle down too fast...used to be we women were blamed for that. I think there are alot of lonely men out there who miss being married (I totally loved being married, myself..although don't see a need for a piece of paper at this point in life...that was to have children..lol) and sometimes they get serious just talking online to you. I have had people I only talk to...ok..just type to...get mad when I tell them I have a date!!! Have you had that happen much? I don't understand how people can feel this is a serious relationship when its just been mutual typing...I personally don't think I would feel much for anyone unless I at least got to look into their eyes...the windows to the soul, ya know. There are too many things you can't tell until you are face to face.

I don't think there are less pickin's....just that so many people have just given up...have gotten too used to being alone...or been burnt to many times...or just have rich, full lives and don't want to be involved. Then there is the big health and death factor...that doesn't help!
 aNgeLiCbLoNdiE

Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 355
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 6/5/2007 6:07:08 AM

I don't think there are less pickin's....just that so many people have just given up...have gotten too used to being alone...or been burnt to many times...or just have rich, full lives and don't want to be involved. Then there is the big health and death factor...that doesn't help!


A good thread worth reviving & I like what the person in quotes had to say

what do the rest of you think?
 JDMETRO

Joined: 5/9/2007
Msg: 356
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 6/5/2007 6:32:18 AM
Slimmer Pickens - not on POF. The problem here and on similar venues is SILENCE. Younger generations of women are not so shy. But women in the 45 -55 -65 age range come from a different social / cultural set of norms - much more reserved and waiting for the guy.

Joe
 tungstun

Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 357
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Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 6/5/2007 7:49:17 AM
came in late on the post , agree with tinkerbell , if you go and meet some one , anotheir person , who may have contacted me , , it maybe judged a date after the event or it may have been just a social event , one which i might enjoy repeating , without wanting to get that personal , i may just like the person , for the person they are .
and if i get a call saying theirs something on at the week end , and would i like to go ( they dont want to go alone ? lol ) be it male or female , ( not bi-sexual ) then thats great .
but you dont need p.o.f.to kick start that ,
depends what you think p.o.f can do for you .
i think its great to say , hey im here and im looking and to see who else is , i expect everthing to go wrong , planning is a defonate no go area , but ive no great expectations and as such no great dissapointments .
take it as it comes and make the most off what you have , my biggest worry is that some ex film star with loads off money would become as such my stalker , fortunatly thats as yet,not happend .
but no point living in fear off it , i will just have to let her down as gently as i can , when it does ?.
well i never said i was looking for rich , ex film stars did i . i guess thats the risk you take when u join p.o.f ?
your not a film star , ? wow , u coulda fooled me , i guess its dutch then . lol
 Celticmist

Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 358
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Posted: 6/5/2007 8:44:35 AM
LOL Ackdaw - films stars are highly over rated and definitely high maintenance.

(quote)Younger generations of women are not so shy. But women in the 45 -55 -65 age range come from a different social / cultural set of norms - much more reserved and waiting for the guy. (/quote)

this is so true - when I was growing up (a, long,long, time ago), it was thought of as bad manners and extremely forward for a woman to do the asking out. Since I have run into men my age here, who still think that a woman asking them out for a coffee is an invitation to sex, I am quite reluctant to make first contact (even if it did give me a good laugh ).

Yes I do know most men here don't think that way, but I have met enough of them to be leery of doing first contact. It seems like a case of damned if I do, damned if I don't.
 civic2004

Joined: 9/30/2005
Msg: 359
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 6/6/2007 9:22:25 PM
Can I copy your ad? I think you may hold the record for men as far as getting replies unless you are counting the 'those that have viewed me section' as hits.
 civic2004

Joined: 9/30/2005
Msg: 360
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Posted: 6/6/2007 9:24:48 PM
Forget wanting to copy your profile. I was just kidding in the first place. But I notice you do not HAVE a profile.

Guess you got tired of screening all those hits and hide or deleted your profile.
 Gaddflye

Joined: 9/10/2008
Msg: 361
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 12/3/2008 2:12:35 PM
Actually, OP, a lot of the pickins are not slim enough! lol. It does get more difficult as one ages. No doubt about it!
 Chocolatebrowne

Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 362
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 12/4/2008 10:32:13 AM
I would say "fewer" pickins', because they sure are not (physically) "slimmer...."
 Sapphireeyes

Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 363
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Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 12/4/2008 10:58:12 AM
lol Gaddflye, you remind me of Ismene...where do yall go to find all these all threads...from 2006 ...was a good year!

I think that it isn't about quantity but quality...ya only need ONE...granted the right ONE but only ONE!
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 364
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Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 12/4/2008 11:04:48 AM
And until you find that one.......you either enjoy the others that may be in contention, or you search for "older threads" and savor them like fine wine......

OT.......I think as we all age, the abundance of potentials is reduced proportionately to your attitude and requirements.....

Life has a way of equalizing things out, both good and bad.....

Just my opinion.......
 bcsofnc57

Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 365
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Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 12/5/2008 6:53:07 AM
Six isn't enough, how many do you want lol. In my dreams I could do a search and find 6 men that I would consider dating. I would be thrilled if I found just one!!!
 cdn*guy

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 366
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 12/5/2008 7:08:34 AM
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?

Not really. Most of the pickin's at my age are "a few extra pounds" ... myself, included.

cdn guy
 enquirer

Joined: 11/8/2008
Msg: 367
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Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 12/5/2008 8:06:54 AM
it does seem to be that way, theres a lot of ageism about.
 oldsoul

Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 368
Slimmer pickin's when you get older?
Posted: 12/5/2008 9:30:16 AM
I don't find that the pickin' is gettin' any slimmer in my opinion...it's me, the picker, who's gettin' pickier.

And the older I get, the pickier the picker seems to get also...ah well...to each their own pickin':)



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 drumsafrican

Joined: 5/6/2006
Msg: 369
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Posted: 12/5/2008 4:00:55 PM
You talk about wanting a quality relationship, yet most of your comments about the women are about looks!
Judith
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