| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 7:17:30 AM | | There are alot of men who cannot be seduced. if I am ever lucky enough to meet "The One" i would never do anything to jeopardize our happiness. Life is to short to spend it alone. | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 7:18:53 AM | *chuckles*
In reply to Mac....and others as well...
Fidelity is always a strong trait. And while yes, I can be seduced, there are limits. I will not be a party to being a relationship-breaker.
"Fashion, I think your "falling" is a way for your mind to keep those feelings alive in you.
You may see a married man that has all the traits you would really like, including fidelity! As soon as you have an affair with him, he's lost his fidelity and not the person you imagined."
*hopefully I did that right, otherwise it looks as funny as hell I am sure*
If I see a married man, I feel a sense of pride and happiness for him and his wife. Nice to see that they can make it work. Don't think I would ever have an affair with a married man for two very specific reasons.
1> I do not play around with anyone who is attached.
2> Slightly more interested in women than men. No offense meant to anyone.
So reach for the ones you feel are impossible, as long as it will end up in something healthy for you. Breaking up a marriage/relationship? Bad mojo, man. | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 7:34:55 AM | I know I'm different, but after reading this thread, whoa, I'm the odd woman out, I guess. No biggie. Maybe I'm wired differently but I've honestly never wanted something I couldn't have. Whether it's a man, a car, a job or a pair of shoes. And honestly don't understand it, maybe because I just don't think that way. And please, no offense intended not passing judgment on anyone who does, we're all different. It's just something I don't "get". Apparently many do, I had close friend who LOVED to window shop and drag me along. Went to the most exclusive shopping area, Hyde Park, would walk for blocks and look at $300 blouses, drool through the Sharper Image store, c'mon. There was a Godiva shop, so at least I got some GOOD chocolate!! 
As far as trying to win or seduce a man. The only man I've ever been interested in seducing is the one I'm with. Wow, am I strange or what?? Men who are taken or otherwise unavailable hold no allure for me, none.
Again, I'm totally aware of the fact that I'm different. I just didn't realize how much so.  | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 7:42:39 AM | ^^^^^^ I’ve never seen a statement that was more pro and anti woman all at the same time. Is what you are saying is that while there is no man that any woman can not get but at the sme time there is no woman that can keep a man happy?
No, actually thats not really what I meant, maybe I can explain myself a little better... I think if a woman is in love with a man that isn't in love with her, she might be able to seduce that man, but that doesn't mean he will want her more because of it.
I've been in relationships in the past where I wanted more then he has, being intimate with that man won't change his views if he's just not into you. I think Men can have the sex without the heart involved and be ok with it, I don't think all women can..JMO | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 7:45:52 AM | Well....I admit that I don't like saying I know how you feel, but I do...
I don't think for one minute that you're searching "out of your league"...that's just bitter advice...misery loves company...and I don't think that every man can be seduced, and if he can be seduced on a whim, you probably wouldn't want him because you'd surely be the next heart-broken victim.
Anyway, the only thing that I think I would do is let him know how you feel about him without terrifying him, and then let it go.... if it was meant to be, then it will be. Believe that if he's interested in you in a sincere way...he's going to let you know that. | |
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Joined: 4/7/2006
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 8:20:00 AM |
I've been in relationships in the past where I wanted more then he has, being intimate with that man won't change his views if he's just not into you. I think Men can have the sex without the heart involved and be ok with it, I don't think all women can..JMO
I gotta agree with you there *Tee*....I do think there are men out there that tie their emotions to sex though as well. Just some guys...especially popular guys just have too much temptation. To them...it's just like 'exercise'. Sometimes I wonder if a man like that can ever have his heart captured. | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 8:20:39 AM | | All I can say is that mustang all of us who know you in this dirty little city we call Windsor luv the hell out of ya . You've been a great friend to me and to those around you . It's always a pleasure knowing you . Too bad about bunky though huh ?? who knew ? Peace sweety see you at the gig tonight !! | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 8:49:19 AM | You hit the nail on the head!
Some woman think that their voluptuous beauty can get them under the covers with any man they choose! That's a crock of sh-t....Someday, she will grow out of her dream world and find that the married man is not as vulnerable to the pursueing "Hoe" as she thought she was...Gorgeous or not...
besides what's between their legs; looks, smells, taste and works...with the ugly, as well..
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 9:15:19 AM | Thank you SQUIRRLY!!! Never gave details, was just asking opinions!!! And "SNATCHCHEATER27" seems like such a genuine person..lol
JUGGERS: You are always great, but ya know how well I talk about things....I never tell ya my "stuff"....nor do I tell ANYONE...BUNKY? I am SOOO curious!
TEE: You are one of the only ones I even admitted my feelings to...hope they stay in your heart babe!
I just wanted to know if others have felt this way...and if anyone has a reason, a good one WHY!!! | |
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*Tee*
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Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 39 | |
| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 9:47:01 AM |
TEE: You are one of the only ones I even admitted my feelings to...hope they stay in your heart babe!
What are friends for?
As far as others feeling that way, this is the way I see it...We can't control who we fall in love with, sometimes that love is reciprocated and sometimes its not. When its not, we can't just shut off those feelings like a light switch. Basically you have to decide at that point what you want to do....admit it to the person, or just go on wondering "what if"...sigh, nobody said love was easy... | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 10:22:49 AM | TEE: You are SOO dead on! And even with the feelings "there"..you can't always act on them...so many different situations!!!! And NOTHING is easy!!! Especially if it's good...lol
DRRILLL: I also agree! Only people that get "seduced" are the ones that are wanting or willing!!!!
I guess I just wish life was easier...or AT least the "game" of it...Yeah RIGHT!!! | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 10:33:02 AM | Every human has that type of person. The one that they want but can't have. I have a nieghbor thats a great woman, she is living in a loveless marriage but its still a marriage so to me she's hands off.
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 10:33:44 AM |
gimme a break.
lol..ok Drill , everyone has the right to their own opinion, and I respect that. But I think I'm going to stand firm in my belief (even tho the men are gonna flame me for this one BIG TIME..lol).....given the right time, circumstance, situation, I still believe any man can be seduced IF that woman is persistent enough....*waits for the gunfire to start* | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 12:02:52 PM | I know that happens to me all the time, but I think I have a tendency of going after unavailable men. Not like married or anything like that. These men just are emotionally dead and for some reason I might think that I can relate to them more? I have kept so many things in, and it's easier for me to understand them, but then I fall for them, and they can't reciprocate. So, I totally know what it's like! That's why I am still single after 5 years! Ugh! LOL
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 12:11:20 PM | I think its normal for any gender to fall for someone they know they can't have...its kind of like a dream but sometimes when it comes true its not always good..which is most of the time...lol  | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 1:03:40 PM | I saw a purse once, but I didnt have enough money for it until payday!!..
So I waited and waited until that glorious day came, I ran right down there and bought that purse....
It sits in my closet and I have never used it!!..It doesnt really go with anything!!
Its cute..thats about it!
 
OMG!!!..TUMBLINGWEED IS GORGEOUS!!!!....
oops..maybe not!!..he is like the purse!!..(giggles) | |
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| Why always fall for THE ones that we cannot have?
Posted: 4/15/2006 5:32:42 PM | Let me reiterate Mr. atheletic fun....any SINGLE MAN...........and I don't waste my time with scum.
Tee darlin...............once I have their body I'll have their heart in no time.lol | |
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