| | What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's?Page 2 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | I think it is immprtant for a woman to be more aware of who she is, to take care of herself both physically and mentally, to have more confidence now that she has weathered a few bumbs in the road. With luck there is also less drama going around now that she has hopefully decided that not everything is a crisis and the world doesn't necessarily revolve around her.
I thin women get to this stage at different stages in their lives though...just as men figure it out at different stages too.
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 4/18/2006 4:16:34 PM | | I really dont know dear felis48, I have to be a men to say that hahaha , also that is why i am asking What do men expect from a woman in her 30`s, sorry for no answer you the question, take care | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 5/18/2006 6:08:14 AM | Been through this already
Men want the four big As
50% Acceptance 25% Affection 10% Ass 5% Appearance
So tropical. Unless you re arreance your priorities all you will ever score will be 5%. Note that you only mentioned appearance in your initial posting. | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 5/18/2006 7:08:57 AM | | I can tell you Tropical has more than 5% of my interest. Seriously, women in their 30s rule. The more mature a woman is the more she has to offer. I'd have to say your 4 As are a little off - Want to be accepted as I am cause if I haven't changed by now I won't. Affection is very important as that's how I know you accept me. As for appearance, well beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if the woman has a good heart - she is beautiful. | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 5/18/2006 9:29:34 AM | | For me...I really like woman my age...more so once get past the dating stage...I find that the intimacy, friendship, trust and the sex is incredible...and thankfully they feel that way about me. | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 5/18/2006 6:15:37 PM | I am going to offer my perspective rather than fixed objectives if you don't mind.
The thing I really appreciate from a woman in her 30's is that she has pretty much had the opportunity to become the woman that she wants to be.
By 30 most people will either have started to let themselves go or are making a go of life. This makes it so much easier to weed out the good from the bad. | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 5/18/2006 7:32:50 PM | My 4As are not the least bit off and I'd like to thank you for demonstrating that so clearly.
You are right. You are what you are and nobody has the right to go picking over it. (Note that the opposite of acceptance is intolerance) I doubt that any woman would dare kick up a fus over your son because you would dump her pronto.
But what about the rest? There's a whole heap of stuff in your lifestyle that the women will go all cranky and intolerant about . The prime one is your studies. You have to atttend a lecture or an exam, and she's already double booked BOTH of you, without so much as ringing you about it, to attend some gala opening night or something. And part time studies do take a BIG chunk out of your day. Happens all the time.
As for your totally outdated taste in music (shouldn't really talk like this of course becasue classical is making a bit of a comeback) Well, that outdated stuff will bring ot the intolerant streak faster than anything else.
You are right about atitude of course. It does make them look more beautiful. And don't I know it. I've worked for years as a pro photographer and wives, with the right attitude, are a real problem. The attitude doesn't come through the lens and their husbands get really stroppy when the photo doenst look as beautiful as the wife. Or, to put it accurrately, when the photo shows the wife as she really looks and not as the loving husband sees her. | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 5/29/2006 5:54:44 AM | well I prefer them not to refer themselves in the male gender :p
That's always a worry :p
Seriously though ya know the expression milf, wel it's niot far off the mark i have seen 19 - 20 yr olds walking the street with thier mothers and thier mothers have looked hotter because they have paid more attention to themselves, not just by wearing loads of makup but just generally.
Sadly I am not a gym junkie myself so kind of probably puts a lot of ladies who are fit off a big cuddly teddybear like myself :p  | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 5/29/2006 7:37:21 AM | | i don't know but it's been my experience to have a much better time with women in their 30's. they do seem more comfortable in their own skin and easier going. i've only had the pleasure of being with a few women older than me and they totally stick out from the rest. they are more mature, confident, easier to talk to, and no i am not shocked at all these days to see some of the most beautiful women being in their 30's. maybe i have been rushing. | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 6/30/2006 8:22:49 AM | I'm a 36 year old female! i agree with exactly what you have stated but, I find myself attracted to late 30's early to mid 40's for the same reasons. You know what they say!!!lol I find the ones my age or younger to be less understanding and respectful! | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 6/30/2006 9:46:37 AM | My 30s were spent climbing the corp. ladder and raising my son. Now, my life is mine. Woo hoo!! I wouldn't want to revisit my 20s or 30s, too much work and much too little living. I do think I'm less mature now, blissfully so probably!!
~OT~ The 30 year old in my life just wants me to be me.  | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 7/16/2006 3:51:44 PM | Why most of you are so surprise we are in good shape and look as nice as 20`s? ========================================== That was not your question Tropical
In this age of equality I expect the same thing I expect from a man in his 30s
- Somebody wroking a steady job
- A mortgage half paid off or, if working on the road or other circumstances where a mortgage is not feasible then a sound enough bank balance to just about pay cash for a home in later life.
- Completed or half completed tertiary qualifications
- Drives and largely maintains their own car. | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 7/16/2006 4:24:42 PM | | Aren't women in their thirties close to or in the middle of their .......peak? If there is a God, he certainly has a weird sense of humor... We 'peak out' way before women even get into theirs. On the other hand, it seems that younger women, who haven't reached that yet, not even close, are then more compatible with older men. Strange. | |
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| What do men exspect from a woman in his 30's? Posted: 7/17/2006 8:30:50 AM | | Based on personal experience I expect to be told loads of lies, I expect to be expected to pay all expenses incured on the date, I expect the woman in question thinks we are meeting to have sex, I expect to walk out after an hour or two, sorry ladies but thats what life has tought me :( | |
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