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Posted: 6/27/2006 9:24:03 AM | Well hello i thought id say something
im 22 and my bf is 30 and he has some concerns about me as i havent finished my gr 12 or dont have a job
he thinks waiting for me to finish school and then to start a future would be long
what do u people thinnk?
if he loved me that much wouldnt he stay with me?:( | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 11:53:35 AM | "And if you all still think im a perv. i enjoy the time i spend with my younger male and if thats makes me a perv in your books then fine. i am truely happy are u? "
Do you spend as much time WITH your young lad as you do posting about how happy you are with him? I would think if you were that 'happy' you'd be off into the sunset by now instead of caring enough to continue posting on here. A lil something to ponder...
As for the poster who said there is a lot of 'venom' in the posts on this thread...the orignial poster did ask whether or not people thought it was 'wrong' for her to date a man 17 years younger than herself. To me that says that somewhere in her being she herself sees it as 'wrong.' Otherwise, why not just ask the question "What does everyone think about an older woman/younger man (boy, in this poster's case)?" or something along those lines? I think we can apply some Freudian concepts here. JMO! | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 12:05:31 PM | If you are 34 and he is 17.......that isn't only sick........it makes you a pedofile lady !
I don't know where you are, but in my state, 17 will get you 30 ...... in the fu*kin pen !
At 34, I'd have thunk you would have grown up by now ! Jesus Christ !  | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 12:07:57 PM | Sassilass
thats just plain wrong lady, i have a nephew who is 17, and if he came home with a 34 yr old, 1) she would get her ass beaten by his mom
2) he would be taken to a doctor to make sure he didnt catch anything from her
3) if he caught something from, his mom would repeat reason number 1 | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 12:13:01 PM | You suck .......... Period. You are some fat ****in pig that can't get a real man, so you prey on little boys. You know it yourself....don't you ! I hope the kid dumps your ass and makes you feel like the tramp piece of shit you really are in the process.
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Posted: 6/27/2006 1:53:55 PM | | as long as the youngster is over 18 i'd say it is morally ok. a little wierd but not wrong. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 1:55:53 PM | | what about my Q is anyone gonna answer...its up there^^^^^^^^..lol | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 2:11:42 PM | softkisses
The answer is yes you are absolutely right. If he did he wouldn't even think of those considerations. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:02:05 PM | | thanks that kinda helps a little..:) | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:05:24 PM | if that was my girlfriend at 21 didnt finish school, had no job, she lives too far away
I would dump her sorry ass, I wouldnt date her. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:21:07 PM | AGE IS JUST A NUMBER. HOWEVER I THINK THIS AGE IS DIFFERENT BECAUSE OF THE 17YR OLD,
hOW ABOUT 48 AND 30 DOES THAT NOT SOUND SO BAD ?? | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:31:35 PM | | grizzaroo. You be the Judge. I would say no. I do have a problem with 17 and 34 though. What is the motivation? Be it man/woman. Sounds like a mommy/daddy thing to me. Issues at hand. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:40:32 PM | sassilass said "the sex is pretty good so i will stick with it and deal with the complications at a later date"
so you said it all... and yes because he's biologically at or near his sexual peak, your just using him. ...in fact if this were a teacher-student relationship you'd be in big trouble sassilass (??) There's almost no hope of a permanent relationship between the two of you.. (give him a few years and it could happen) and while he's probably enjoying this immensley (at 17 I sure would have) and claiming bragging rights to his friends about it... he's probably way to young to appreciate anything more than sexual satisfaction out of it.
And if he does per chance form an emotional bond and attachment to you, you're screwing up his mind big time, 'cause as you indicate, your in it for a good time, not a long time. Things could get really intense for you both
And because you and your energizer bunny are both at the prime babymaking stages of your lives, one slip and.......
I don't criticize wide age gap relationships because my own nephew did that... he was 24 and his girlfriend was 42... that was 5 years ago and they are still together and are very happy... but he was 24 is not 17 | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:55:14 PM | | love has nothing to do with it ,its the way you feel for each other and get a long because i know i meet this guy 7 years ago and he is younger than me but he is all man in bed and out he is always a great guy and i hope to be with him for ever. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:59:38 PM | | some times a man just likes his life as it is and some day if he feels good about it he will than make a love nest just hang in there if you love him give it time. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 5:24:23 PM | for those of you who post with out reading the previous responses i am breaking no law 16 is the legal age of concent his parents have no problem with it either.
IM NOT USING HIM FOR SEX im not saying the sex isnt good coz it is,but we do more than bedroom activities. we spent 4 hours bowling today wat guy my age would do that and still have energy.to go home and play the game cube whilst watching football.
he is almost 18 24 days to go actually | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 6:31:24 PM | Hes 18 yrs old in 24 days, well good for you? that and 2 pounds may get you pint of guiness in the UK but over here that means Jack shit
Youre a Schifosa and a Pucchiacha, im telling you this, if some one like you tried to pick up my nephew his mom would of had you whacked a long time ago. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 9:57:56 PM | Sassilass
each to there own, lets face it i would never date a man of your age, there is nothing wrong with guys your age its just not for me i find older guys boring and expect you to stay home and watch tv. younger guys are a little bit more relaxed about where you are and what you do without them around. but hey good luck in your search if you find one female who can make you as happy as i am you will be truely content with your life
I meant that if the person was 30, that would the person they were dating 13! | |
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Posted: 6/28/2006 3:05:46 AM | hdroad king
my apoligise, im not dihing guys your age its just not my thing | |
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Posted: 6/28/2006 6:56:54 AM | "my apoligise, im not dihing guys your age its just not my thing"
Because you don't have the mentality to keep up with a man your age would be my guess. Maybe it's because you have nothing to offer a MAN and the boy is easily pleased. I don't know what the men are like in the UK, but men in their 30s and 40s are still pretty darn vibrant over here. I guess when you hit 30 in the UK you suddenly turn into a tea-drinking old man with a cane who has no energy to do anything. You keep saying that men your age are boring. This I don't believe. I think you're using that as an excuse when, in all actuality, you probably couldn't land a man your age even if you tried. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2006 7:05:20 AM | Reading this post reminds me of a story that made our local news this week.
Seems a 32 year old women took her 8 year old son from his home and family to "run away" and begin a new life with the 16 year old student she had been dating. Even though she was married. This women was a teacher at a school for special needs students. He was one of her students. The dad of the 8 year old called police when he came home and found his wife and son missing. The way the couple was caught, was because of an alert transit employee who saw the women "all over this boy" on the bus they were taking to Florida. Not knowing anything about the story, the employee called police because he thought it was "not right" to see an adult lady all over this "boy" like that.
~wonder what kind of damage that did to the 8 year old?
~like it or not, we are judge by the perceptions we project. Is that how you want to be viewed? | |
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Posted: 6/28/2006 10:50:18 AM | | sorry schifosa, im not bothered, I dont date Pucchiacha's | |
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Posted: 6/28/2006 11:08:30 AM | | I think he's too young for you...even if he makes you laugh. Good rule of thumb....if you could have given birth to the person your dating....he's probably too young for you. Re-think this one for his sake if you really do care about him. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2006 11:17:34 AM | yes thats wrong women usually like the bloke to be older than them especially these dayss!
and 17 yrs is a bit of a difference if it was about 6 yrs then tat would be ok but 17 years.
but u got to thing what u what dont u wanna have some fun with someone your own age! | |
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