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Posted: 4/28/2006 7:58:16 AM |
im glad i live in UK it appears we are more open minded in this country.-sassilass
Oh please, ive been to the UK, plenty of times and i know people over there and none of them thinks like you, youre more a disgrace to the good people of the UK.
A perv is a perv not matter how you slice Cupcake, you can put all sort of salad dressing on sh!t, guess what its still sh!t.
Whether is legal or not, if you were to marry a 17 yr most people would look down on you except for the perv crowd and the donut gang. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2006 8:24:35 PM | | I stand by my support for sassi. She has done no wrong and broke no laws in her nation. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2006 9:50:35 PM | | You say 17 years younger, but you should say your twice his age. And at 17 he may be able to put on a good act of maturity or maybe you're just extremely immature. Either way you're taking advantage of a young mind for sex and that's just wrong. No relationship will ever develope and the only people who would agree with what you're doing are the ones who also want sex with kids and are looking for common ground with another person to settle the guilt. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 4:58:55 PM | maybe you should try n older woman it may chill you out a bit | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 5:08:45 PM | Which country is this?I'm lost, I thought 17 was minor and older men/women aren't/weren't allowed to date or have sex with them.I'm so lost, why do the rules keep changing????? Jeez there has to be some consistency somewhere........... | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 5:18:56 PM | | as i have said over and over i am breaking no law | |
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Posted: 5/4/2006 5:22:41 PM | | one thing that comes to mind is that you said you were his manager or something.. was he working for a company where you managed?.. if so... would you be considered to be in a position of trust over this young man... if so under uk law that would be statutory rape | |
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Posted: 5/5/2006 1:23:36 PM | nothing ever happend until after i left the company. he is not a child i was his employer not his carer. get your facts right on the law in the country i live before you start pulling the rape card | |
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Posted: 5/5/2006 1:36:42 PM | | i dont think the age thing really matters i ususally and perfer to date younger guys, they arent intimidated by successful women and are usually alot of fun!! I do draw the line at some point they need to be at least 21. If two people love eachother more power to them, its hard enough to find someone that you click with! i say go for it!! | |
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Posted: 5/5/2006 4:52:02 PM | I am a mom who just today found out that my 16 year old daughter is very likely involved in a sexual relationship with a 30 year old man.
Needless to say, I am furiously and thoroughly angry. I don't however, know what to do about it. Her father can't know because it would be Armageddon for everyone. I can't confront her because she will most definitely take the most rebellious path. And I doubt that a 30 year old who finds he's got "so much" in common with a 16 year old, will be any more reasonable than she would be.
Now, in all honesty, I believe that she is exceptionally mature for her age on some levels. And I've considered that my reaction is just a knee-jerk because she's my baby. On the other hand, she *is* still a baby in a lot of ways, and I feel like this ADULT is taking advantage of her naivete and powerful drive to be considered a grownup.
While I personally hold to the belief (in general) that age is just a number, that ceases to be true when one of the parties' brain hasn't even reached maturity yet.
Ok, so I'm kind of babbling now, but if any of you have some serious, coherent* advice to offer, I'll sure be happy to listen!
Thanks!
*coherent being not calling him a perv &tc. I already know all that, I'm seriously just looking for a way to handle this that will have the least amount of collateral damage thx | |
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Posted: 5/5/2006 5:18:19 PM | .
Do you think it is wrong to be with a male 17 years younger than a woman?
At 34 years old you’re dating a 17 year old boy? LOL
Why?
Wonder what’s going to happen to you when his mother learns you’re using her young son in place of a BOB. . . .
Lucky for you (and the boy), that someone like me is not his father. Stuff would happen.
At my age, I could get away with dating someone 17 years younger simply because a lot of people wouldn’t notice. But, even though I could, I would still be asking myself why I would want to do that. On the other hand, if I was 50 years old, no way would I be hitting on someone 17 years younger because their mindset would be totally different.
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Posted: 5/5/2006 7:08:54 PM | i agree with you, dbndon, i think the mindset of guys quite a bit younger than me is totally different. and, i dunno, there is something comforting and more intimate about being with a man who is of my own generation, or even a bit older than me, i think we can have a closer deeper even unspoken or 'quiet' kind of identification that i think i'd never have with a guy who is quite a bit younger than me. it just feels right somehow, being with someone my age'ish.
have a beautiful night!  | |
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Posted: 5/6/2006 10:41:50 AM |
maybe you should try n older woman it may chill you out a bit-sassilass
like im going to take advice from a craddle robber who is a pig ................
have another drink
Im 28 and i wouldnt date a 17 yr old , but at least i can meet some one thats my age instead of cradle robbing | |
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Posted: 5/12/2006 8:16:19 AM | | ya that is true but there is a piont when they are too young or to old but it is ok if it is a few years between they couple and age it a number and they say youy are as young as you feel. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2006 10:58:59 PM | I was casually seeing a woman whom I've known for about 7 years, nothing more serious than dinners and day outings with her youngest child. She is 44, has one son 25 and three daughters 23, 18 and 6. The 23 year old's husband is around 40.
I called her after seeing her at the bank talking in a group and I just waved as I went in.
She was embarassed to call me because the young man I thought was her son is her new boyfriend 21 years old. I would wager no small sum that this will not be a lifetime relationship, I'd be surprised if it lasted to the end of the year unless he's living his fetish.
We are now talking a true generation gap.
She is embarassed because she likely feels what she is doing may not legally be wrong but family and friends perceive it as wrong.
What bothers me is if were me or any other male with a girl that young would be considered a pedophile in training even though both were over the legal age of consent, drinking and voting. What is there for me to discuss with someone 2 years less naive than my daughter let alone try it for years. My family would pass the guilty verdict and so would the rest of my friends for doing nothing illegal but making a pretty poor decision. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2006 4:42:21 PM | his mum now knows what is going on with us and she is fine with it. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2006 4:55:43 PM | | i am now trying for a baby our future is for ever | |
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Posted: 5/16/2006 5:10:34 PM | ewwwwwwwww
I thought this thread would go away
ewwwwwwwwww
At the risk of getting suspended again...you're SICK! | |
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Posted: 5/16/2006 5:18:23 PM | | no not at all i found a gerat girl on here and shes 15 years younger then me we get along great and she gets along with my girls as well we are ingaged as well but yes the age dont matter at all bye and good luck to you both | |
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Posted: 5/16/2006 8:11:29 PM | | hey if its legal then go for it :) | |
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Posted: 5/16/2006 8:45:34 PM | yeaaaaaaa, i'm with you, jenni...
and the two most recent posts from the OP sound the least believable of all, in fact. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2006 9:40:54 PM | i recently started dating a MAN...yes a man..not a guy or a boy...he is 47(48 in november) and i just turned 24 in march. at first this seemed strange to me...why am i drawn to him, he's four months younger than my mom and dad, what could i possibly have in common with him...but i realized that our personalities just click. our views on life situations, morals, and beliefs all match up. we are both go with the flow type people and we find that we really compliment each other...he makes me act with more maturity, and i bring out the silliness in him. ohhh, did i mention that this is also an inter-ratial relationship?!? yes..he is african american and i am white. my parents know this part, but i haven't worked up the nerve to let them know about the 24year age difference. all i can say is i hope they will look beyond the age and see the wonderful man that i see every time i look at him. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2006 5:07:58 PM | | who are you to call me sick, i have taken on board every comment that has been made although most of them are negitive however to be as narrow minded as you are is beyond belief. if you dont like what i am doing fine but dont be abusive | |
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Posted: 5/17/2006 5:10:05 PM | | i have no reason to make up comments, just to post them. his mum is fine with every thing what is the big deal have you never got on with your partners mum? | |
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Posted: 5/17/2006 5:16:18 PM | We're narrowminded because we don't think sleeping with a child is ok? hahahahaha alrighty then.
oh and if your 'future is forever'...why are you still on a dating site stating that you're single? | |
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