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Posted: 2/12/2005 11:58:51 AM | | You ? your not a nobody! you have great post on here and you make time to give to others here. Ive seen you write your a beautiful person If I was single Id ask you to be my valentine. | |
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| What the freak should i do?
Posted: 2/12/2005 12:03:47 PM | awww dont say that missmissy. HAPPY V-DAY to you! look on the bright side. we have an excuse to indulge in chocolates as much as we want. SO WHAT if we bought em for ourselves!!!
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| What the freak should i do?
Posted: 2/12/2005 2:45:46 PM | | Kitty, I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do. Just remember money comes and goes. A deep, true love is forever. | |
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| What the freak should i do?
Posted: 2/14/2005 7:02:41 PM | | you are being shallow, all that matters is that he took the time to send u a card and it comes from the heart. Not his wallet | |
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Posted: 2/14/2005 7:22:46 PM | | I don't think presents should be the basis of a relationship. You should appreciate the fact that you have someone who cares for you. How much money they spend on you should be irrelevant, it's the thought that counts. At least he remembered and found a way to express he cares in some way right. | |
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| What the freak should i do?
Posted: 2/18/2005 2:29:27 PM | | hey kitty, i would say hang in there. i believe he's being honest and up front with you. if you know he really cares about you, then wait and see what happens. i wouldn't just leave because of the money. try to put yourself in his position. like he told you, when he gets out of school things will be different. then he can get a real job and treat you the way he thinks you should be treated. | |
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Posted: 2/18/2005 2:36:30 PM | Scuse me???????????
He treats you well...but he didn't send you flowers or get ya a gift? Boo-f'ing-hoo.....
My goddess, DON'T YOU SEE WHAT YOU HAVE? He didn't send you ONE ecard, he sent you TWO...he gave you what he could right now - HIS TIME....
And you have no idea how he will change once he has money...
If you book, I hope he finds someone like me who would appreciate the time he took to send those ecards...
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Posted: 2/18/2005 3:06:52 PM | He treats you well --- that's saying a lot. I'm glad you've taken the most useful of advice here and you're trying not to be shallow.
I think you were more disappointed because he wasn't more creatively thoughtful (a picnic somewhere wouldn't cost a lot of money, just some food either of you could prepare from your refrigerators) but think about it: HE CAN'T READ YOUR MIND. If you wanted a little bit more, either SHOW or TELL him.
Good luck in your relationship with this guy.  | |
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| What the freak should i do?
Posted: 2/18/2005 7:52:27 PM | I enjoy buying things, for my girl.... But not to the point, where it's expected... because, tangible items, mostly expensive one's... Can be confused for feelings, with some people...
If you're constantly showering them with presents... Then it slow down, to a normal pace. They start to think that, you don't love them anymore... It happens, sometimes...
And if they want the other things, more than you... Their not worth, your time or effort...
Sad harsh words, but true...??? | |
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Posted: 2/21/2005 11:38:47 AM | SHALLOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHALLOW!!!!!!!!!!!!SHALLOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!If this guy makes you happy on just being with him, why do you need more...... The buy is trying to better his life right now. He also thought enough of you to include you in it. So he cant buy you the things YOU want.... Look for a sugar daddy if thats all you are looking for honey! You need to grow up! There are people on this earth who would give anything for a man like that...
You do not know what you have .... Gawd girls like you make me sick! I wish he could ahve seen this forum and realized what kind of person you are. SHALLOW! | |
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| What the freak should i do?
Posted: 2/21/2005 12:13:53 PM | | First off, he could have plan something cheap but romantic like taking to a park and having a picnic there. Second, if you love him for him then money shouldn't be the case, unless you guy's are married and he refuses to work. Also it is nice to recieve a nice gift for valentine's day that show's you he care's in the same token... when giving gift's never expect something in return. | |
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Posted: 2/22/2005 12:21:36 AM | I feel like i need to defend myself here. I am really not a shallow person. I don't want his money. All i'm saying is... screw a rose, a hallmark card, fancy dinner whatever... is it too much to ask to take me out to the park, "make" a card for me out of coloured paper? that's free but it's beautiful.
does that make sense? | |
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Posted: 12/27/2005 3:39:46 AM | | i must agree with hahanow, if there were more people thought like that men and women , than god would have to scratch this world cause we would be to happy. seriously he wants you not needs you, but you seem to need more than him. ... needs are things like breathing, eating, and knowing you wont be alone. wanting is where you choose nothing less than that of which you want. remember kindness goes along way. | |
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