| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 7/6/2006 11:05:03 PM | okay okay... so now that I have said that crap, I met a younger guy that im attracted to, and hes definatly more appealing than most older guys. lol.   | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 7/7/2006 2:36:19 AM | Biology Lesson
At the beginning of this century the average age of menarche was 17 yr. Now its 13. Food for thought.
Theres a huge difference between;
a. occasionally glancing at teens and feeling aroused
b. admiring a young girl or guys looks
c. acting on that impulse to basically destroy someone
Its not that any of these "lustful" thoughts are evil. Its how we deal with them. Do you feed them and make them grow? Do you let them turn into a compulsion? Or is it harmless fantasy?
Oprah Winfrey did a huge special on the new cult of "pre-teen" websites, there was a girl on there who couldnt have been more than 12 named Cindy who has a HUGE fanbase of mostly older men. The internet has let our fantasies come to life. It can shape our sexuality, sometimes in some pretty funky ways.
I dated a gal 2 years ago whose primary sexual fantasy was seducing her father. Was she a perv? Dont think so...she called my fantasies vanilla.
As for real life....sex with underage girls can destroy them psychologically. Does having them pose for a camera destroy them? Hard to say. I was sexually "abused" at 15 by an older gay man. Did it destroy me? No....I thought he was a perv and left. But if someone is coerced into the act....very nasty.
Yeh its a biological urge to look at pretty young girls. And its also a biological urge for their father to break your neck.
I think if you admire all forms of beauty, mature women, young women and pretty teenagers thats not so unhealthy. But if your porn collection consists of 7 year olds, honestly, its time to see a shrink. That crosses the line. We do have some say over what fantasies we will feed and which we will pull our energy out of. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 1/15/2007 3:27:29 PM | It's a caveman thing-Women wanted to atrract the best Hunter/Provider. Males wanted a mate that would give them lots of Babies! For more on the Caveman Theory see the womens skin Thread in the Off Topic Forum! | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 1/15/2007 3:54:41 PM | | i work in the adult industry and anything that is not straight male/female sex is considered fetish...so its just like anything else....just personal taste | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 1/15/2007 4:01:52 PM | | --PLease define young girl-Hopefully we mean Young woman! BTW, are old men more attractive than youner ones to women? HMMMMMMMMMMMM | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 1/20/2007 4:34:26 PM | | i know this person who is 31 years old and just last year he was with a 15 or 16 year old. it makes me sick thinking about it because his 2 daughters are 14 years old. how sick can it get. i mean he messes with a lot of young girls and sometimes when i think about it i want to tell him how sick it is and i have told him that before and the only thing he has said is she was a cool girl to hang with | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 1/20/2007 5:33:06 PM | I sure hope you ^^^ take the advice I gave you on your thread you posted all about that story.
It's important to protect the lives of children who can't protect themselves!!! 
There's a difference in being attracted to a "young look" and statutary rape!!! | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 1/20/2007 5:58:59 PM | Please, that question is set as if it were a universal truth.
Personaly as long as I can remember, I've always been attracted to older ladies. My experiences have really hard-wired my nuerons in this way. When I see a young prety lady, I tend to think,'in-decisive','un-realistic','fanciful','vanity',etc.
The last thought in my mind is," boy I would love to ...with her " because the negative associations have a really large impact on me emotionaly.
And in all fairness, I know it's a bias of mine, but we all have biasis whether we admit it or not.
Although, I've wondered why ladies in general seem to have a hard problem with younger men. I remember having a girl-friend who was 1 year older then I , and that was a really hard thing for her to come to terms with.
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 1/20/2007 6:27:33 PM | i know this person who is 31 years old and just last year he was with a 15 or 16 year old. it makes me sick thinking about it because his 2 daughters are 14 years old. how sick can it get. i mean he messes with a lot of young girls and sometimes when i think about it i want to tell him how sick it is and i have told him that before and the only thing he has said is she was a cool girl to hang with.
If you know that child molestation/statutory rape has taken place, you have a moral obligation (hopefully also a legal one, depending on where you live) to report him
Pick up the damn phone and report this man to his local authorities, what are you WAITING for?????? | |
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