| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 9:36:49 AM | There is a difference in men who want to have sex with children under say 13 or somewhere around that age (These are the real Pedophiles) and those who would like to have sex or look at girls who are older but still teens... The way teenagers are having sex these days, many are experienced as adults. It has only been in the last Century or so that suddenly anyone under 18 needed to be protected... Before that, there were marriages and such and as I seem to recal, a girl who reached 18 and was single was an old maid...
Why do guys like to look at young girls? The key word here is "young". They usually aren't wrinkled, their bodies have not gone through the ravages of time and prenancy. I have occasionally looked at the sites... and the main reason is, many of them do not have large breasts. If I could find a site where older women had small breasts I would gladly go there... I have done the 19 year old fling and although it was great, but I would prefer women my age who share my interests...and have small breasts...unfortunately most women my age do not share my interests...younger women do. If only the older women out there did...
ROFL I can hear the flames starting to rise as soon as I post this...
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Alba19
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 9:43:01 AM | | Most of the soo called teen porn I have seen has be girls 18 and over trying to look 12. School girl look with pig tails. Thats kind of scary its feeding the pedophile in some of the freaks. Guess its better they get their kicks that way than actually acting out on their desires. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 9:53:38 AM | | teen girls are hot and ready to go and are very experimental when it comes to sex its perfectly natural plus these so called teens in porn are usually 20 somethin so get over yourselves there is no pedophilia going on in these moves plus folk in Canada the age of consent is 14 so it just seems that the porn has stricter rules than government does also have you seen the school uniforms they have these girls wearing latley talk about creating a fantasy so i'm sure some of the moral police will be comming after me for these thoughts so bible thumpers fire away | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 10:05:44 AM | Yeah that is another thing... Due to laws, the girls you see on those sites are 18 or older... As long as the girls portray teenagers I see nothing wrong with it...now depicting children (I do not consider teenagers as children..they are young adults), is wrong and I agree there should be laws against it.
The average age of consent is 16 worldwide...
http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 10:35:20 AM | Who said anything about pedophiles?
Gosh people, chillax, eh? :P
Legal teens, featured in porn sites. Older women dressed like school girls. It's a fetish, a fantasy.
We are talking about legal adults here, not 12 year old girls... | |
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Alba19
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Joined: 4/19/2006
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 10:38:08 AM | Legal or not the idea of grown men wanting to think they are little teens scares me. Must it go that far? My EX had this porn on his PC that was about a father doing his minor daughter. "Daddy I will be the first slut at school"
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 11:49:52 AM | | when a company gets at there target market early in life, they will get more $ from them overall. cuz the lil teen girls will buy that same shit for years and years. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 1:12:43 PM | I am watching SciFi Channel Ripley's Believe it or not as I type this... They are doing a show on a 12 year old black girl who is a model and wears all sorts of sexy clothes... Guys want young girls? Well Just like the media making "thin is in" they are pushing very young girls as sex symbols...
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Posted: 4/21/2006 1:35:43 PM | ya most men are pervs... if ur young u like it and when ur old u like it.... works for every one... like no 20 year old guy wants to watch a 30 or 40 something woman masterbate and pay for it... more likely to enjoy some one around there own age....
just at it goes fro dating someone... most men perfer the young barbie doll type.... am i right or am i right!!!!]
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 3:15:00 PM | | I have to agree with a lot of what's already been said -- the media & clothing all market for young sex appeal; they don't look like they've been rode hard & put up wet (and many may still be virgins, another guy fantasy); it's a fantasy that ALL men have at some point in their life; it's a power trip. I'd like, however, to throw out something else that I personally have noticed. I don't remember the 14-15-16 yr olds looking like they do when I was that age. I mean, I have seen a girl recently that can't be more than 14 or 15 (but looks older, until you see her up close), but has a Dolly Parton size chest. She knows it, and dresses to flaunt it. So, yeah, she gets looked at & drooled over, until it's realized that she's so young. This is why the pedophilia is on the rise; and why there are so many cases of statutory rape being reported, because the guys think that if she looks that way & dresses that way, then there's no way she's under 18. Personally, I'd be fine with someone who is 18-19, but NO WAY IN HE|| any younger. I mean, I see some profiles on here that list the age as 18, but then you read the full description, and they say "I'm almost 17", or something like that. That's when I use the button to report them. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 3:32:00 PM | Here's a question... Do you like to buy used clothes, used cars, dirty vegetables, things in broken or tampered packages, etc? No right? Unless you're really poor or a miser.
Comparatively, the idea of a late teen/eary 20 something person is that: They're "fresh," hopefully haven't been on a lot of "test drives", clean, emotionally not all messed up, innocent etc. So why shouldn't the idea be sexy like the newest exotic sports cars?
The idea of a young'un is a Catch-22. Yes they're great to look at, want to have fun etc. But mostly they don't have enough life experience to be really interesting to be around. So there's some perks of older women which I find sexy which young'uns don't have; but then the young'uns have something most older people don't. Now porn sites are designed for someone to look at, fantasize, and get themselves off. Obviously you can't fulfill the emotional need of a real relationship (which older people satisfy better), so you're left with mere looks. So the idea of a firm butt, breasts, petite, girl on girl etc. is what people are going to go for when looking at porn.
ya most men are pervs... if ur young u like it and when ur old u like it.... works for every one... like no 20 year old guy wants to watch a 30 or 40 something woman masterbate and pay for it... more likely to enjoy some one around there own age....
just at it goes fro dating someone... most men perfer the young barbie doll type.... am i right or am i right!!!!]
I'd be one of the people who fall out of the most men in this quote. I do like some older people, 30's 40's etc. I've had plenty of fantasies of older women, but yes, watching a woman masturbate is actually quite boring regardless of age. As well, the only "barbie Doll" person I know I actually find rather revolting, because she's plastic everything just like the real doll.
School girl look with pig tails.
Maybe it's the plaid skirt?? Ever think of that one? I know women love it when I wear a kilt. There's something enticing about thinking you could lift the plaid skirt ever so slightly, and see a tanga underneath :)
SexayLaday - was thinking the same thing myself about whomever brought up pedophilia. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 3:52:46 PM | | Oh yeah, to finish off my post, that's why I've always found people 23-26 the most attractive, even when I was 12. It's almost a perfect balance. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 4:02:14 PM | | When you get faced with questions of this sort i usually look at history. As a part, woman gaining their independence since the mid century, our views on marriage and how a woman should treat a man and how a man should treat their partner have changed. Woman have gotten more open minded and opinionated. But look at the mans side of this. From as early as the stone age and the start of human existence, when a woman bleeds, a woman is ready to breed. This is in part of their basic functions as a male species. So should this change in the last 50 years over 4000 years of instinct ? I do NOT believe in pediphilia or anything of that sort. But i see how a man when they see a new blossoming innocent teenager 13-15 etc, they are attracted. They might be ashamed by their feelings, but its imprinted in their brains ladies. The ones that are into young children need to be shot. Thats just sick. Im just stating some facts to your question. Also, when a woman is young, its always the deflowering of a woman thats instrumental in making a girl a woman. Its all in the human brain, and our society has changed so rapidly in this century, our bodies are running like 2000 years behind. Yup, its called Anti-depressent age for some very simple reasons.... | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 4:02:18 PM | | I'm 19, so I don't really think there's anything wrong with me admiring 18-20 year olds. What would be creepy is if I were checking out the middle aged women. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/21/2006 4:56:45 PM | Cuz our morals and values have declined....... and we have Lots and lots of freaks in this world!!!!
Actually younger women have been preferred by older men for ages in allot of cultures.
Some cultures to this day have no problem with the concept.
Nothing has really declined in that regard.
Agreed about the freaks, but those come in all shapes, sizes, and gender. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 5:30:42 AM | Men have always been attracted to younger women... Look at the average age in Playboy(or others) or even the men's mags you can pic up in any grocery store....
I think there is a difference between men attracted to the 18-22 range and the creepy stuff that is out there regarding minors (under 18) | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 3:21:54 PM | @ Haha & Sexay:
Well.... give me a sec, I'm just putting on my nomex suit here.
Here's a question... Do you like to buy used clothes, used cars, dirty vegetables, things in broken or tampered packages, etc? No right? Unless you're really poor or a miser.
I smell.... a troll! Ew, stinky! And really not worth a response.
Comparatively, the idea of a late teen/eary 20 something person is that: They're "fresh," hopefully haven't been on a lot of "test drives", clean, emotionally not all messed up, innocent etc. So why shouldn't the idea be sexy like the newest exotic sports cars?
I have news for you - people don't get emotionally messed up in their adult years. It ALWAYS stems from some kind of childhood trauma. And yes, I'm speaking as a professional in this area.
So if you would like to maintain the illusion that younger women aren't emotionally messed up, go right ahead. Every one of us is innocent, no person deserves to be hurt, no matter what age. To claim that pedophilia isn't a factor is grossly naive and insulting to the legions of young girls who end up working as strippers, in the porn industry, or sex trade... because they've been "trained' from a very early age that this is all they're good for.
If you would prefer to pretend that it doesn't exist, you can go right ahead and do that too. You might even get away with with it, right up until someone you care about (or even yourself) starts exhibiting symptomology.
SexayLaday - was thinking the same thing myself about whomever brought up pedophilia.
Yes, that would be me :)
I'm simply responding to the topic - it's amazing how many people get incredibly uncomfortable when this kind of information is brought forward. Gee, I wonder why that is???
I work with abuse survivors all the time, and I see first-hand the emotional and physical toll that kind of trauma takes on people. So, no, I'm not really inclined to 'chillax' about it, because until the general public becomes aware of the gravity of the issue, it will just keep on happening, behind closed doors, in suburban homes, in schools, churches, wherever adults have unrestricted access to children. It's precisely that kind of complacency that allows this type of behaviour to go on unchecked. People can hardly believe it... and yet, there is a deep vein of discomfort whenever the subject is brought up.
You can make all the offensive comments you want about how older women are just not as appealing, saggy, wrinkled, smell funny, etc... those of us older women who take good care of ourselves know exactly how much bullsh*t that is. And you just demonstrate your lack of good taste. :) | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 3:42:03 PM | | Personally, as my profile says, i adore younger women... than me. Even as a teen, i admired women in their 20s and 30s. Of course they were older women then. But the fact is we all like what we like. For me my admiration and love for women of that age hasn't changed in my years on this blue planet. Its the same as when you hear younger women who like older men as they are generally more mature, are out of the binge drinking phase, and will treat women with more respect. (A 20 year old woman told me that. She wouldn't date younger than 35) | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 4:32:01 PM |
Because Dirty Ol Men watch them....LOL
I'd rather look at you any day lipsmacka  . . .
But seriously folks . . don'tcha think society is getting a bad case of pedophobia? I think us old men like to look at young ladies (teens) because they used to lead us around by the . . . um . . . heartstrings . . yeah that's it . . . when we were youngsters and there is still the desire to have what we could not have then and cannot have now . . that being the captain of the cheerleading squad or whatever variety strikes your fancy. . . that's all there is to it .
We aren't looking at children . . we are looking at blossoming young sexual figures. . . and we are FANTASIZING . . . don't shoot us for daydreaming a bit
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 4:49:55 PM | I imagine its because theres a market out there. Take child porn, as sick and disgusting as it is. There are some scum out there that look at it, Hence it going on in the world.
I think if any grown man gets a kick out of looking at a girl the same age (Possibly) as his daughter, then he needs help. Its sick. I mean I doubt these girls want to be doing this, and yet dirty old men take advantage of their situation by drooling over them.
Disgusting. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2006 5:12:49 PM | Strange world we live in now, my grandma got married at 14 by a 27 year old man. This was the norm back then you could support a family on a shitty job, like many many factory workers did. Now with inflation these simple job options barley support yourself, that could be one of the main reason we dont see 14 year olds getting married.
Although in some states it is legal to get married W/O parental consent as early as 14 or 15 I believe, then they become a married minor and from what I hear it's kind of like when a child can get emacipated from their parents. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2006 5:13:49 PM | | Because we remember back when we were young guys and most of the young girls had nice body's,nice skin,which turns a young guy on.We've all aged and women or men don't look the same as we did then.But theres nothing wrong in fantasizing about a young girl.I'm sure theres a lot of older women that fantasize about the young male hum=nks they see.Lets be honest.Most of us are not perverts or dirty old men ,we just have fantasies like anyone else.Are the women who like younger men dirty old ladies and perverts? | |
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