Alba19
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Joined: 4/19/2006
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 5:14:45 PM | Folks, it all goes back to the hardwiring males have since they learned to walk upright, for seeking-out good breeders to continue the species: Young generally=good breeding potential.
That's the way it works. Aboriginal customs had girls married early (often at birth) thru reciprocal deals to one of the elders. As soon as the girl was old enough, in her husband's judgement, she was breeding.
perverted into pedophilia
All species breed as soon as they are old enough. So it is not a perversion, it is just normal in nature. Now don't get that wrong. We've advanced beyond the red claw. But we need to remember were we have come from.
Humans are special in that females are able to breed years before they have physically finished growing and should breed. Same with males. That's why strictures against pedophilia are so necessary for us. | |
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shivan
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Joined: 9/12/2005
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 5:35:02 PM | Yah that's socially unacceptable in the world we live in now.
Personally, I go by that golden rule. Divide your own age by 2 and add 7 :P. For example, being 29, that'll make 15 + 7 = 22 year old acceptable to date :)
You, being 19, means you can date as young as 17-18 :)
Maybe they should make that a law haha. Because I think the age of consent is 14 certain parts of the world which is kind of gross.
Funny thing is remember when you were a kid and you heard about the cool kid in school dating a college or university student? We al thought "wow HOW COOL!". However, once we got into college and university, and we saw the guy or girl dating someone in High School, we thought "what a LOSER!". Intersting world we live in eh? | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 5:39:31 PM |
Personally, I go by that golden rule. Divide your own age by 2 and add 7 :P. For example, being 29, that'll make 15 + 7 = 22 year old acceptable to date :)
Hear that ladies? So those of you who are 47 . . leave me alone until I'm 80, then I'll come for ya LOL
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/22/2006 6:40:58 PM |
We aren't looking at children . . we are looking at blossoming young sexual figures. . . and we are FANTASIZING . . . don't shoot us for daydreaming a bit
That is an excellent statement 
Tiamat....darling...."People can hardly believe it... and yet, there is a deep vein of discomfort whenever the subject is brought up."
Of course. Because the original post wasnt about Pedophilia. It was about legal 18+ girls on porn sites.
When we hear that "P" word, we automatically think of children, and children do not belong in these sex threads, it's repulsive.
I understand your points, and I fully respect them, and you.
But I think what the OP was trying to get at, was leaning more towards Why men look at these sites, what is the appeal...not about young girls who have been -forced- or -traumatized- into their choice of lifestyle...
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 8:30:11 AM |
Of course. Because the original post wasnt about Pedophilia. It was about legal 18+ girls on porn sites.
I beg to differ - the OP said nothing about legal 18+ - he simply asked "Why is there so many porn sites linked to young girls particuarly teens."
I was merely offering my anthropological insight as to why, culturally and historically, there is such an overwhelming demand for this.
Given that this is a very real problem in our world, I find it strange that people are so resistant to looking at history and context. Maybe when we evolve a little further as a species, men will mature enough to start recognizing how creepy it is that they're all getting off to images of girls who, while they may be 18+, frequently (and deliberately!) look much younger. I have no problem with a male who is in his teens or early 20s being interested in women in the same age range. but I think I'm not alone in getting creeped out by guys in their 30s or 40s wanting to date teenagers. (My own father married an 18-yr-old Polish girl - when I was 17. Damn right that sh*t creeps me out).
I'm also pretty sure, judging by some of the spam in my inbox, that there are lots of porn sites (especially in eastern Europe) that feature much younger girls. I swear to god, I've seen enough stuff that looks like 8 or 10 year old kids doing beaver shots to last a lifetime. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 8:35:50 AM | the immiage of a yourng girl is so appeling .. i would think 1 because it is a taboo and evry one loves what they are not supose to have and 2 caus as a female gets older hunny she don't always get better lookin and hensforth that brings in the topic of teen porn .. the young female body 9 times outa 10 looks better than an older woman... and then there are always the sick **stards that live in this world | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 9:19:03 AM | meh. i like guys that look younger too - so same difference.
my profile says 'men under 35' but should say 'looks under 26'.
surely there is a big femme-blender that is blurring the lines from 14 years of age to 30... all us girls dress the same now! 'tasty' on the baby tee's 'princess' on the rump of my pants, the 14 year olds have skimpier underwear than mine even! it's cheaper to buy thongs, baby tees are on sale, and nothing looks better with baby tees and thongs than pigtails ~ it's fashion, it's media... we created it. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 9:29:27 AM | | Teen porn sites feature women who are 18 and 19 (anything younger violates federal law). As women age they tend to get sagging boobs, wrinkles, stretch marks, gain weight, etc. These things are unattractive so obviously men tend to avoid them. Still, there are plenty of MILF sites out there featuring older women who are fvckin hot. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 10:44:18 PM | I don't care what is "legal" in each state. I find it very disturbing to know that so many grown men lust or fantasize about young girls including teenagers. There are so many women out there that aren't wrinkled,stretch marks,etc..that are adults. Why don't men leave the young girls alone and try for someone their own age?So many children are being exploited by these sick individuals.
I notice some people in this thread are trying to justify this behavior.
This is a subject that no one should ever be 'lax' about.
I'll never understand it. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 10:49:33 PM |
But theres nothing wrong in fantasizing about a young girl.
Zepplin,
You are appaling.That statement you made is disgusting and if I had kids I would NEVER let you around one of them.Kids should be able to feel comfortable around people,not fearing that one may be "fantasizing" about them.To answer your question women are sick if they view young BOYS NOT MEN in a sexual way.
Quit being in denial it DOES make you a pervert. =) | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 10:58:21 PM | | Just because your a young teen girl doesn't mean you dont have stretch marks puberty creates that, on their inner thighs, butt's and obviously breasts. Plus most teen girls tend to have acne too, I guess there is a upside to older women. Thank gawd my teenage fiance has a good complexion and wonderful skin. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:04:26 PM |
I notice some people in this thread are trying to justify this behavior.
This is a subject that no one should ever be 'lax' about.
I'll never understand it.
I hope you can get over being a 'cynical one' because it is not every man's fault that you were abused as a child. Seek help!
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:10:24 PM |
To answer your question women are sick if they view young BOYS NOT MEN in a sexual way.
Quit being in denial it DOES make you a pervert. =)
Hey, it's not just men that do it. A couple of decades ago, male celebrities were popular for their manly good looks; Cary Grant, Sean Connery, Gregory Peck, etc....now, they're celebrated for their boyish appearance, vis-a-vis George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, et al. We have no right to complain when men fawn over anorectic bimbos like Nicole Richie, Paris Hilton, or the Olson twins.
I don't know how the media managed to convince us the youthfulness rules all (though I, personally, blame the baby boomers), but it's been the most successful media campaign since sliced bread. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:16:41 PM | Daring2care,
I wasn't ever abused thankfully,however I do work in a hospital and see the results of child abuse often,sexual and otherwise. If that was your attempt to be humorous or you may be trying to say it's ok to find young girls appealing? Maybe?
Anyway, being cynical is ok,my friend. =) | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:18:51 PM | Young girls are more easily impregnated than older women.
When it comes to mating we're all just animals after all, of course we have progressed beyond this point and we know what is acceptable but we can't deny instinct.
A man can go his whole life and never sleep with someone of an innapropriate age but he will still look at one and have the desire from time to time. When a man is 40-50 years old he still has the ability to easily produce a child while the women his own age are on the way out as far as there ability to bear children is concerned.
Part of being civilized is being able to control these instincts and maybe find healthy outlets for it by getting your g/f who is of an acceptable age compared to yours to wear a private school girl outfit. 
Real pedophelia is an attraction to a pre-pubescant individual which has no instinctual reasoning and is a real sickness. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:19:30 PM |
If that was your attempt to be humorous or you may be trying to say it's ok to find young girls appealing?
Ummm probably both...and as always he failed miserably........... | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:23:58 PM |
Real pedophelia is an attraction to a pre-pubescant individual which has no instinctual reasoning and is a real sickness.
I realize that this is slightly off-topic, but: when did the phrases "pedophile" and "child molester" become interchangeable?
While both have a similar end-result, the distinction used to be one of intent. When did that disappear? | |
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Posted: 4/23/2006 11:27:50 PM | ^^^I always though it was a word to describe a mental condition.
I would describe a child molester as a real evil sonofa**** who actually acts upon these tendencies. There are probably a lot of guys out there who are pedophiles but would never tell anyone and never act on it just think about it when they masterbate. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:33:29 PM |
There are probably a lot of guys out there who are pedophiles but would never tell anyone and never act on it just think about it when they masterbate.
The distinction used to be that the intent of "molesters" was to victimize the children being abused, while "pedophiles" actually saw themselves as having a relationship, on an adult level, with a child. While both were equally scarring to a young person, the difference was one of intent. But with the media deluge of Catholic-priest-abuse stories, that seemed to fall by the wayside. Molesters are now pedophiles, and vice versa. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/24/2006 12:03:17 AM | Tiamat, Cynicalgirl -- fantastic posts.
Porn involving "young-looking" women/girls only caters to pedophiles -- much the same as child 'beauty' pageants (I'm referring to the ones where the little 5 year olds look like freakish 20-something women after makeup, hair, false teeth, etc.), parents allowing their young girls to dress outrageously, etc. does.
I'm sitting here shaking my head, absolutely stunned to see men and women seem to gloss this issue over...Pedophilia is everywhere; I dare you to look a little deeper into the issue. You'll never recover from the images, pain, etc you'll find.
Did you not hear in the news just a while ago that the police brought down a ring of pedophiles who were taping the brutal raping of children live on webcams?
What about child brothels in Asia, etc. where 5 year old girls are forced to have sex with grown men? Remember what you were doing at 5 years old -- playing with barbies, cars and trucks, etc. If you were blessed with a healthy childhood, the though of giving a grown man a "yum yum" (which I believe it was called -- little girl slang for oral sex) never entered your head. Imagine living that life.
Not easy to hear about it, is it? Still easy to gloss over?
It's not JUST about the "teenage porn" -- pedophilia, childhood traumas, and women and girls being raised to believe they are nothing more than what they can do for men -- they're all interlinked. And you're a fool if you believe every woman in porn (and on the "teen" sites etc.) is over 18. Do you honestly believe the makers of porn are the most law-abiding citizens? *Lol* Keep telling yourself whatever makes you feel comfortable. But remember, if you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem.
I could care less what the legal age of consent is. The fact is, wacking off to an image of a young girl (even one at 15 years old) is wrong -- unless you're in that very age group.
*expels one looooooooooong breath*
Alba -- I can see why he's your ex!! Ohhh, that's disturbing..... | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/24/2006 12:13:09 AM | A teen-ager is a child.......it's sad when children are presented as sex
objects whether it's on the internet, TV, or in print somewhere.......
......they seem to be robbed of their childhood by people trying to make
them look and act older than they are.......when you make it socially
acceptable for children (teens) to have sex with each other, you naturally
make it less objectionable (to some) for them to have sex with anyone......
older people, men or women, who take advantage of this are pedophiles. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/24/2006 12:30:00 AM | | I would think one reason could be that younger girls are less likely to have AIDS or STD, and sometimes for guys I'm sure they think it's fun to be a girls first. My fiance is 18 she was not a virgin when we started dating, but a virgin to plenty of other stuff like never been on top during sex, never had oral sex,smoking pot, never been drunk. | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/24/2006 9:41:02 AM |
If that was your attempt to be humorous or you may be trying to say it's ok to find young girls appealing?
It was a shot in the dark based on person experience. I have known a lot of women, of all ages, who have an attitude similar to yours (or at least what I gather from your posts) . . . the VAST majority of them suffered some form of sexual abuse as a child. . . . It is frustrating to those of us who have never abused ANYONE either physically, emotionally, verbally, or sexually because the women I speak of tend to have an antagonistic aproach to relationships.
Just My Humble Opinion | |
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