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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:03:21 AM |
Im incensed at the cavalier attitude some people are taking concerning this topic.
Me too!As I said in a previous post,i'll never understand.I try to but each conclusion I come up with leads back to the first one,sick minded. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:11:41 AM | | Really it is not sick minded. It is nothing more than human. As people get older they start to desire thier youth. So, in that respect they pursue the youthful look. It is not only men who do this either. When a woman is still early in adulthood she desires a man slightly older than her, but as she gets up in years her desires change to want a man considerably younger than her. For the best examples of this theory lets take Playboy and Playgirl Magazines. Has any one looked at one of those magazines and saw a person posing who was much over the age of 25? I mean don't get me wrong I know it happens, but think about it. How often does it happen? It is nothing more than human nature for aging people to desire youth once again. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:12:06 AM |
Me too!As I said in a previous post,i'll never understand.I try to but each conclusion I come up with leads back to the first one,sick minded.
Well one positive thing about this thread...
At least We know who the perverts are....................
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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:19:56 AM | Antione1121...There is nothing sick about wanting to feel youthful....but then take up jogging and eat healthy.Any mature adult person knows they wont magically take ten years of their age by engaging in sexual activity whether in the form of porn or otherwise with someone in their teens.Sexually exploiting teenagers for a persons own selfish instant gratification purposes in order to feel youthful?That is really a perverted way of thinking and highly disturbing.For the record,Im happy being in my 30s and wouldnt go back to being in my teens or 20s again if given the chance:) | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:25:19 AM | | Alis kat I don't think you understand his point, It seems more about being accepted as a lover by a younger person that makes the older person feel younger. Or these old people never really did have a change of preference and have loved the youthful look their entire lives. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:29:24 AM | | I understood his point .I personally find it a little twisted for someone older to have a deep seated need to be "accepted" by someone younger than themselves.Talk about having major self esteem issues.As mature adults dont you think its our job to set examples for the up and coming generations and ,not to exploit their youth in order to feel better about ourselves?Were talking about teens here :P There is nothing wrong with being young at heart,but if its through a means that preys on a younger persons self esteem and emotions...my opinion still stands.Admiring a persons youthful look like a work of art is one thing.Getting your rocks of to teen porn is quite another | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:34:25 AM | | Yeah you misunderstood the entire idea of what I was saying. I never said that getting older makes you look at child porn. And, that is exactly what you are saying when you say exploiting teenagers. I never said that at all. I simple said that as you get older you desire your youth back. In turn you seek out the young girl IMAGE. IMAGE being the key word in the whole question. That is not saying that men or women seek out teens to try and seduce. Unfortunatly that does happen, but not here it doesn't I am a 30 year old man and the woman I am dating now is the youngest I have dated since I was 25 and she is 23. Okay, so don't go accusing people of being petophiles until you know for a fact that they are. This question or topic which ever you prefer, is a question of theory not reality. It is a question of IMAGE not of actual young girls. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:36:40 AM | | Well as you know not everybody gives a damn about the next generation, also not everyone can be as caring as you. I think it's less about self esteem and more about age defying behavior | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 12:42:02 AM | | I wasnt directing my comments at you as an individual.I was merely saying that attempting to live vicariously through someone elses youth is messed up.I never once accused you of being a pedophile.I apologize if my post came across that way. I reread what I said and I dont see myself accusing you of that at all.The actual topic of this thread is relating to the reasons teen girls get involved in porn.We all have our own views and opinions..... | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 6:42:59 AM |
Bottom line is that you have an adult, someone in a position of authority, who is supposed to be mature, taking advantage of someone who is inexperienced, naive, and probably quite easily manipulated
it seems we are forgetting...that it works both ways. These girls you speak of....come on to the men...don't be so niave yourself, it's happens..more than you realize, it seems. I see it all the time, and I partake in it myself...
Sexually exploiting teenagers...
I'm pretty sure they sign up themselves....and happily accept their paychecks....
I assure you, that not every single teen (18+) porn star, were sexually abused, or corrupted into the industry.......
Sometimes sex is just sex. Why do things always have to get so complicated?
So a man wants to look at an 18 y/o girl on a porn website. So what?? The world's not ending, I think there are more important things to worry about...
A man ( or woman for that matter) jerking off to these pictures, isnt going to ruin lives. If anything, by signing up for the site, he putting money in the girl's pocket..Maybe..just MAYBE this girl is in the porn industry..to make money for college? Or to help out family members?
I think tossing around the word "pedophile" is absurd. We were discussing legal adults here people, whether or not you like it, not children.
Have any of you SEEN 18 y/o girls lately? I assure you, they are adult enough to make their own decisions. If they want to f*ck older men, that is their choice, and if it's a wrong decision, they were learn their lesson.
It's purely instinct..to desire youth..it's imbred into out heads...how many times do we see older women 30's, 40's, saying hot hot and sexy men in their early 20's are? Same idea. Except when it comes to men looking at younger women, it suddenly becomes a naughty topic.
No offence ladies, but all the put downs, and everythign else..have come from the older ladies. Jealous or...something? Dont get me wrong, you are all sexy and look great for your ages but....Don't think more to a situation, than there actually is.
Just let things be...let the men desire the younger women.....we ALL have our secret "hard ons". Men like youth, some women like youth, some women like firemen, and police men and doctors..........
It's all fantasy, accept it for what it is.
JMO~ | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 6:58:49 AM | Personally I don't find a young girls image appealling at all! That's not my thing!
However in defense of older women wanting younger men I can understand that!
But, over 20 for sure, no jailbait at all..
I think it's the young, innocent, mouldable nature about them that does it!
And firemen.........yummy! It's a rule of thumb that in order to be a fireman you have to be hot.....all the ones I know are anyways.. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 6:59:40 AM | I'm hoping the people who have commented on this topic and say they find younger girls/boys appealing are talking about my age range...that's ok.Seeing a person who is 21 and consider them to be young is great...but I do hope that the people who look at this casually aren't talking about actual kids and teens.Anyone understand what i'm getting at?Sometimes my words are ramblings.
Just because people feel strongly about this topic doesn't mean they have been abused,whoever thinks that is ignorant.My childhood couldn't have been better!With the exception of being grounded all the time. =)
I work in admitting and see the affects of this alot.When you actually see what happens to kids who have been sexually abused it may change your mind,or if you have children of your own put them in the place of the teens and kids who some find attractive.They should feel safe!
As I said in an earlier post there are plenty of adult girls and guys who are attractive,leave the kiddies(including teens) alone.I've said what I feel and i'm repeating now..so with that being said this thread is dead to me.=)
Glimmer..Indeed,my friend. ;) | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 7:08:12 AM | its smart advertising. grown women have already established their favorite brand. They are trying to appeal to the young ones that haven't established loyalty yet.
As sick as I think it is, I think the appeal of the young porn star has something to do about innocence. It makes me sad though that some find it a turn on to destroy that innocence. or mabey i'm just being too harsh? | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/25/2006 8:09:08 AM |
Sometimes sex is just sex. Why do things always have to get so complicated?
Then it would be a pretty boring thread, wouldn't it? :)
Have any of you SEEN 18 y/o girls lately? I assure you, they are adult enough to make their own decisions. If they want to f*ck older men, that is their choice, and if it's a wrong decision, they were learn their lesson.
Looking mature and actually being mature are two entirely different things.
It's one thing to make a choice out of free will, and yes, these girls have their lessons, as do the older men - I just question the males' responsibility in this over the generations. As there is more and more exposure of the sociological and personal impact of childhood sex abuse, we as a civilized society have to take some kind of responsibility for the dynamics that this creates in our culture. All of us have free will, and all of us can make choices... do we make that choice based on an unconscious program to fill a need of immediate gratification, or do we make a choice as intelligent, civilized beings, fully aware of the consequences of our actions? If we aren't willing to do the latter, then who will? Because we're goin' down the tubes as a culture and a civilization if we refuse to face these issues.
In many indigenous cultures, as a rite of passage, the young males are counselled by the elders in the tribe that there are two things that are absolutely taboo, that will destroy their community. And those two things are - don't ever beat a woman, don't ever molest a child. Those cultures are far wiser than us, in that they acknowledge the dangers, and are willing to be honest and realistic about the effects it has on their society. We're quite clearly not.
No offence ladies, but all the put downs, and everythign else..have come from the older ladies. Jealous or...something?
Perhaps it's just the voice of experience. Look me up in 20 years and tell me if you really feel the same way about it. I know it may seem trite to you now, but when I was your age... nah, you'll just have to learn it the hard way, like the rest of us.
As for jealousy? I'm in no way jealous of those young girls, nor do I have the slightest interest in getting involved with a male who would unconsciously or even consciously perpetrate those patterns throughout our society. I like my men a little more evolved, thanks. It might be more accurate to say that I'm sad to see so much potential go down the drain.
It's all fantasy, accept it for what it is.
Nothing wrong with a little fantasy, in moderation, and used with awareness. But like anything that provides a temporary escape from reality, one must be careful not to fall into an addiction.
It doesn't matter what you're addicted to - whether it's teen-porn fantasy or heroin, in the long run, it's damaging to both the individual and society. Our society is filled with dysfunctional people who resort to addiction to feed their desperate need to feel OK about themselves, even it's just for a fleeting moment. There was a thread recently talking about the deputy for Homeland security getting busted for attempting to solicit what he thought was a 14 year old girl over the internet. Does that make you feel safe? This is what we're creating here folks - a world where people in positions of enormous power over global security feel that it's OK to feed off our youth - as long as they don't get caught. I ask again - does that make you feel safe? | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 8:09:38 AM | whoops, double post...
I'll just add that as an energy worker and healer, I work with people of all ages. And the one factor that comes up predominantly when people find themselves blocked in moving forward or finding success in their own lives is ALWAYS some kind of childhood trauma. Not always sex abuse, but most of the time.
And these are people who are making conscious choices to break those patterns and to find a healthy sense of self-esteem, because they have made the connection between the personal and the larger-scale reality we live in. As long as the majority of people think it's OK to behave unconsciously, we will live in a world that is brutal and cruel for the vast majority of humanity. Personally, I don't want that, so I take a stand wherever I can.
I'm neither surprised nor offended when people don't like that... I know first hand how uncomfortable it can be to break free of your illusions. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 8:25:14 AM | To be honest i think there is alot more to do with this than just "sick perverted men"...first of all what are we talking about here?
is a teen "18/19" or "13/14"? cause they are 2 different catagories for starters...
There are varying factors for the first catagory, and i dont think they are all necissary perverted and evil.
A girl/woman/lady who is 18/19 atleast in my country is able to do whatever she wants, and lets not forget, most women years ago were married and having babies by that age (i know my mum was 19 and many of my friends mums were the same or similair)...so to say that this is sick, isnt a fair observation.
So what attracts men?
Well there is the obvious answer "beauty/youth/naievity" men are attracted to woment (mostly in general) that are youthfull and beautifull, simply cause that is how man was made... man primitavely knows that a woman has limited child baring years.
Beauty well thats simple, we all like beautifull things...women do too.
NOW society has come and added a new and unusuall punishment to the male psyche...
Society (and mostly this is attributed to women in cosmetic/fashion/beauty magazine/ industries, has come along and sold an entire generation of women on "dressing sexy and looking sexy" and then ofcourse its been a whole 20yrs of sex this, and sex that, safe sex, oral sex, sex sex sex..... through sex education in schools, thru film, and magazines.....society in its great wisdom (being sarcastic) has said "lets make sex more open and less guilty, and lets make all our young women/girls buy the necissary products to make themselves feel good about how they feel, since we are spending so much time showing them that they arnt already pretty enough thru media"
Great...isn't it? womens liberation hmmm how much good has it done? men no longer know where they stand...do they open the door? or not? are we being discriminatory if we do? or dont?
Men are left with the feeling of inadequecy (bad spelling) because no longer are we the hunter and gatherer or the Head of the house hold, no longer are we tribe leaders and the primary sourse of income....NO we add/contribute nothing of great importance, and society tells us, when women dont need sperm anymore, then we are gunna get the boot!!
That brings us back to the appeal of younger women?
Younger women arnt hardned by lifes knocks, they arent jaded by ex-lovers, and then ontop of that they are excited about sex, and open about experimentation, they are not yet ready to support themselves and most likely havnt got a career they are married too...
THEY NEED US. we feel needed....wanted.....desired....important....
Now why the hell would any man choose "i dont NEEEED a man, i can look after myself, and im much to busy anyway" over "i need someone to protect me, keep me safe, and look after me.....cause im just a little doe-eyed girl"????
derrrrrrr
I personally think women (especially the older generation) mostly got caught up in a whole "i want i want..gimme gimme" attitude, and well now, men have adapted..... and ontop of that, in the feminist movement they managed to provide everything necissary for the younger women, to replace them much before before they were supposed too.
If this is to change....men NEED to be the head of the pack, not equals, i know that seems harsh but its basic instinct, we were designed that way, so that when a women was in labour and COULDN'T fend for herself, WE WOULD.....just cause the govt. hands out $6000 for a baby, and then gives families all this money for having the damn kid doesnt mean men now dont feel they need to be the protector.....we do.
Ok well, thats my thoughts:)
cheerio. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 8:38:03 AM | Tia, good post dear. I dont disagree with you, or agree with you completely, but I understand what your saying, and you have a good head on your shoulders, you're one smart cookie 
Younger women arnt hardned by lifes knocks, they arent jaded by ex-lovers, and then ontop of that they are excited about sex, and open about experimentation, they are not yet ready to support themselves and most likely havnt got a career they are married too...
THEY NEED US. we feel needed....wanted.....desired....important....
Now why the hell would any man choose "i dont NEEEED a man, i can look after myself, and im much to busy anyway" over "i need someone to protect me, keep me safe, and look after me.....cause im just a little doe-eyed girl"????
That sums me up pretty nicely. I'm not a teen anymore, but I am still pretty young. I like older men, alot, and I think the reasons you stated...are part of the attraction. Perhaps basic instinct. I still swear that I was supposed to belong in another era- one where the men controlled everything, and the women stayed at home and took care of the house and children. All this womens liberation stuff..doesnt jive with me, or my lifestyle. Damn.  | |
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| why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/25/2006 9:28:47 AM | | as for moi... I'm more smitten towards the Coug's if you will... 30's and 40's for me pls. The 20's are ok, fun to look at but very few are liberated enough to really get into the sexual frame of mind that goes along with the "been there done that" crowd. This is just a guide and should only be used as such!!! lol.. now for the freaks that are talkinging younger than 20's...C'mon, get a life!!!! | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 9:47:04 AM | | It all has to do with survival. Women usually look for strong older men who can support a child and provide. Sometimes this manifests as physical strength to protect, or other times it is inteligence and status in life. Men look for young and attractive healthy women to carry their child. Good genetics on both ends is an important trait. Even though we don't realize, it's inbred in all of us from thousands of years of evolution. Humans are very complex so there is also a lot of varialbes at work, but regardless of the situation it is for self preservation and our eternal quest for happyness. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 10:29:35 AM | I have to disagree with this point. Young women usually look towards their counterparts to have children. Usually a 3 to 5 year difference. And this makes total sense. What exactly is the point of young men then if the young women are hooking up with older men??
Now if we are going to compare ourselves to other animals in the animal kingdom you are going to see that it's the young that breed, are the strongest, the more attractive etc etc. I was just watching a show on Lions on the Discovery channel. Never will you see a single lion breed with the lionesses in the pride for more then 3 to 4 years because there is always a young lion that is going to come along kick his ass and chase him out of the pride. The same holds true for wolves, bears etc..etc...
Now back to us, I remember reading somewhere that a high percentage of men after 40 have problems maintaining an erection. It's only know because of the advent of drugs like viagra that we see older men getting that second shot. But if we are going to look at nature, that is unnatural. There is a reason why this occurs, as well as the whole menopause thing occurs in older women. We step down as breeders and let the new wave of young breeders take over.
Plus they are now finding that men also have the proverbial "shelf life" as well. They are now linking older men having children to birth defects like down syndrome and schizophrenia.
Here is an interesting article about that very fact for those who are interested.
http://www.malebiologicalclock.com/docs/mbc/MBC-BioClockTicks-JAMA.pdf | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 11:39:20 AM | | beacause ur going back to the virgin time in ur life and her too, when you were all hot to trot to do it the first time...do pigtails turn you on too? You should c my p/f | |
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Posted: 4/25/2006 11:42:53 AM | | Personally I think thats hilarious that those homeland security guys are doing that, but then again I have quite a sick sense of humor. But so does my 18 year old finace and she is laughing her head off about it. | |
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