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Posted: 6/25/2006 9:20:09 PM | | I also agree...by all means, because you know a couple ppl who use this site to cheat on their spouse then ALL the married ppl must be on this site to cheat. Talk about generalizing and painting all ppl with the same brush. My next door neighbour stole my ladder from my shed...ALL my neighbours MUST be theives. LOL. No...but honestly, a site for married ppl looking to chat and nothing more, is a damn good idea. Know of any? | |
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Posted: 6/25/2006 9:22:31 PM | | P.S> I'm sorry you've had such a bad experience on this site with married folks. I guess I'll have to be sure not to message you when I'm looking to step out, eh? LOL (meant to be said sarcastically, I dont swing both ways) | |
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Posted: 6/29/2006 7:59:39 PM | | well there you go .. this really p's me off .. i deleted.. removed.. altered my profile .. a single woman with lots to offer and hoping to meet a GOOD man .. and i've removed my profile as a result of tooo frikkin many married men messaging me .. trying to change my mind .. some have even tried changing their handle thinking it'll fool me .. well ya know the favorites lists .. they are a great way of keeping track of people who change id's to have their way .. anyway its no surprise that the jerk removed his profile .. he was either caught by his "partner" .. the poor soul .. or he was reported by someone like me who's tired of married jerks getting in the way of my fun .. and refusing to respect my request for messages from SINGLE AVAILABLE MEN ONLY!!! that would seem clear enough .. yet they still felt the need .. wow .. its probly not that your partner doesn't understand you .. she MUST have a major problem .. besides her cheatin hubby .. and geez // how many spots is this referred to as a dating site .. even offers dating advice .. there should be a site for married a.....oops ..guess i cant say that word in here .. really p'd at the moment .. i was having SOME fun at PoF . til the frikkin jerks started ruining it for the rest .. just find it absolutely amazing how some of those jerks are actually trying to justify what WE ALL KNOW is crappy behaviour. .. thanks for letting me get it out .. c ya .. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 6:52:33 AM | OK, my two cents worth.
I have seen very few if any "couples" on here looking for friends. I have seen single people here looking for friends because that is what they are comfortable with starting a relationship. Many married people here are here to screw around on their partner, and if they are saying they are just looking for "friends" why are they looking for friends of the opposite sex only. That is asking for trouble and I think they are just fooling themselves and trying to fool others. Fact is, in my opinion only, if you are married you should not be looking for anything on this site. I'd love to do a poll and ask the married people if their partner knows they come to this site, or any dating site ... bet 99% do not. I do give credit to those that admit to being married, at least that way someone can make their own informed decision if they want to get to know the married person or not... Shame on the cowards who lie about their status. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2006 9:43:39 PM |
The people who pursue relations beyond friendship with those who don't hide the fact that they are married should also be ashamed. That is All.
And what about the ones that are truley here for the friendships????
Does this also mean that singles looking for FRIENDS only should not be here as well???? | |
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Posted: 7/4/2006 10:00:21 PM | | Married people, people living together, and dating have just as much right to be on here to meet friends or that little option in the 'looking for' category would not have the word 'friends' in the list. I have met my mate on here and many wonderful friends as well.....is that greedy? Am I taking to many people away from you? | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 8:15:45 AM | WOW! This is funny. This topic has been done already on here, and the opinions are the same then as they are now. It looks like that 'seeking friends' option is the culprit in the mix. Except that this is a dating site, and 'friends for marrieds' can be found in many other places, while dating sites are still supposed to be for singles hoping to find mates. Some single people like having the option of choosing the 'friendship' thing first to give them time to get to know the person before they commit to dating. I know, I know, there are some who just can't wait to get to the bedroom part, but that's not everybody. Some folks want to get to know you first.
The young man who started POF is still running it from his apartment in B.C. and in his words:" This is the biggest DATING site in the world today. What a God-send for SINGLES" | |
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Posted: 3/28/2007 9:52:58 AM | THOSE WO LIVE IN GLASS HOUSES SHOULDNT CAST STONES.
instead of spending ur days and nights online judging other ppl l;ook at ur self first befire u judge im SURE you arent perfect
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Posted: 3/28/2007 1:11:24 PM | That's funny! If I look at myself, I see a single woman, on a dating site, hoping to find a wonderful mate. What do you see?
What makes you think my house is GLASS? And I think you just threw a big rock, what's wrong, didn't your request for an 'intimate encounter' pan out for you?
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Posted: 3/30/2007 1:49:26 PM | who said i was married or even involved with someone?
im just not ready to get serious with anyone which is why INTIMATE INCOUNTER
i just dont sit around and talk about other and what they are doing.. its not my business or urs for that matter... to each there own. I live my life and and dont judge or worry about what other ppl do. I guess ppl do things for a reason.. u might not like it and i may not like it but its not ur life is it? | |
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Posted: 3/31/2007 4:06:54 PM | this is the most obvious thing about those who are married - they list "prefer not to say" in the marital status part of their profile, and are usually looking for hangout or intimate encounters. This despite their vehement claims to be "innocently" seeking "friends" on a DATING SITE! lmao.
Furthermore IT IS "our" business! This IS a public forum, so if you don't want your dirty laundry aired, don't provide reasons. Too many of us who ARE single on this Dating Site are simply voicing our opinions regarding cheaters. There are way too many married people on here who ARE looking for more than "friends", some are very persistent, lying about their status, trying to coerce 'us' into something we are NOT interested in. If you're married and looking for friends, perhaps you should start with your partner. At the very least, leave those of us who are NOT interested in your type alone and you will likely not be put on the defensive when we react to your b.s.
If you're married and playing on a Dating Site - I would suggest you get use to the justified criticisms - You are free to be any kind of jerk you want, I am free to speak my opinion too.
Interesting how the only people who get all righteous and defensive when this topic comes up are those who are married / cheaters. Not the type I'd want even as "just" a friend! lol
Maybe y'all should start a site called "PlentyOfCheaters" .. all kinds of your "friends" would surely join! | |
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Posted: 4/1/2007 1:48:52 PM | YES! YES! You go girl! Man I wish I had said all that just that way! But I can't, I get slammed when I tell it like that! But you, you're my HERO! Thank you for having the courage to say it like that. And you're so right! It's usually the cheaters who get all bent out of shape when they get 'caught' looking for a cheating partner on this singles site.
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Posted: 4/2/2007 12:18:40 PM | fargin, what is it with pple that r married and on this site?
R u married and living with ur spouse in the same household and if ur shagging each other why r u looking for others here?
THIS is NOT the place for u and go join a support group or something.
Does ur partner know ur looking and u need to get into marital counselling.
GRRRRRRRRRRR! 
If u need someone to spice up ur life, u need help and please don't bother us pple that r single as I don't like to share or compete or put up with being ****ed all day long from ur spouse.
I feel sorry for u pple.
Go ur own way pple and don't drag others into this please its' not fair.
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Posted: 4/9/2007 8:32:45 AM | there are many type of relationships and not all people want to be in a monagamus (sp?) relationship. i say if you don't like it don't talk to them... hey, atleast they tell u up front & not play you!!!
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Posted: 4/9/2007 9:04:52 AM |
respect the honesty at least if nothing else
It says 22 on your profile are you sure?Very wise SLM.I' not saying cheating is cool/ok.Not for me,just that everyone has a story.
I have been cheated on,hurt's like nothing i have experienced before and never want to again.
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Posted: 4/9/2007 9:08:26 AM | Thx ;)
I like to think I'm wise because of life expereinces.
I understand where you are coming from. I just think when it's online we don't always no everything.. for all we know his wife could know he's looking for another woman and she could be looking for another man.. relationship come in lots of different types and we all don't value the same things, thats the best thing to remember about relaitionships. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2007 10:36:34 AM | hmm...
I don't think people are b**tching about "honest" cheaters.. I think most of the singles on this SINGLES DATING SITE are fed up with the Liars who claim to be single or unattached .. those who play with the heads and hearts of others ..
I too say "to each their own" .. just don't F**k with mine and i wont have any need to b**tch about yours. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2007 12:01:29 PM | exactly what I was doing! and if that "bothered you" well touch nugies! get over it!
No one was yapping about those who are honest about their intent .. or about those who RESPECT those of us who are looking for SINGLE person on this Dating Site. WE are yapping about those who lie about their status and their intent.
Something wrong with my expression of that simple truth? | |
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Posted: 4/9/2007 1:57:07 PM | I should have said this in earlier post^^.I took it as directed at you as well SLM.Don't let this sour you on the forums.Take them for what they are just opinions.There like a$$holes everyone has one!!
We're all entitled to our opinion what ever the subject is.
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