| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 4/16/2007 9:55:32 AM | my previous comments were NOT directed at any one individual .. my comments are simply MY OPINION. and as i have had my share of married cheaters trying to get me to change my mind - i have the Right to express that as well.
as i said before .. if you don't care for my opinion .. too bad. you're entitled to your own.
be careful how much you Assume is directed at you.. this is the internet .. taking my comments on married people using a SINGLES DatingSite "personally" is unnecessary - unless of course you are one of those married people who just hates us singles who prefer other Singles over someone elses partner.
here's another item "someone" is bound to take personally - I am a straight woman on a Singles Dating Site. That "should" say it all .. but unfortunately there are some who apparently don't comprehend the written word well! . .. Women who contact me (ewwwwwww) .. are likely to find themselves with the cheaters who contact me - OUTTED! .. don't like the way i operate - don't contact me.
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| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 4/17/2007 5:38:48 AM | Hi, and welcome back, I wouldn't have known who you are if not for PEIprincess outing you. LOL.
I like your style, and your honesty, and like you, I've discovered that there are a lot of liars on here, and I don't believe they belong with us. I'm talking about the married people who are looking to cheat and using vulnerable single ladies as targets. There, I said it, not as well as you stated it, but at least I got it off my chest.
I HATE cheaters and I'm not too fond of anybody who sticks up for cheaters and tries to find some lame way to make what they do permissable. The "to each his own' addage doesn't work here, because this is a SINGLE'S site, so our 'own' should be singles only! What does it take to make that point clear! | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 5:09:55 AM | I like your style and honesty,and like you I've discovered that there are a lot of liars on here,and I don't believe they belong with us.
Ok now i'm confused isn't a liar one that makes up numerous accounts????
I HATE cheaters and I'm not too fond of anybody who sticks up for cheaters and tries to find some lame way to make what they do permissable.
Still confused hmm Isn't someone that has (again) numerous accounts cheating and being a bit selfish.If you can't attract a man/women with your true identity why bother??????Lieing and cheating by using multiple identity's??
If people can't believe who you are.How are we to believe any thing about you?As far as for outing ImNotReel,hippychick,cinaton,Dreamcatcher,DeemythDfied etc etc....(cant remember them all now lol)To use your own words on your post and profile anyone that lies cheats gets OUTTED.
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| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/3/2007 12:11:36 PM |
Ok now i'm confused isn't a liar one that makes up numerous accounts
This thread is more confusing than confusion itself! What odds if someone wants to be on here...if they are being honest about the fact that they are married ....so be it!
What about the ones that are married and lie...how the heck are any of us going to know anyways.........Use ya own judgement...leave the married ones alone the ones that are jsut in here to make friends....
MMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....""""""FRIENDS""""""
This is a dating site but alot have got looking for FRIENDS on their profile (((( And I'm talking about single people)))) What up with that?????? To much debating.....have fun...give an opinion but for the love of God...give up the nonsense....Geesh ........
C68
((((I got a feeling that I am gonna get some "OPINIONS" on this post)))) | |
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| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/4/2007 7:35:42 AM |
To much debating....have fun...give an opinion but for the love of God...give up the nonsense...Geesh...
Couldn't agree more well put cindy.
((((I got a feeling that I am gonna get some"OPINIONS"on this post))))
Well you didn't think I would not put my 2 cent's in.Did ya??? LOL  | |
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| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/15/2007 11:20:53 AM | hmmm I think that people automatically assume that if they person is married or living with a commonlaw partner that they shouldn't have any sort of friendships after that...it's unfortunate that you would think that adults can't have an actual friendship...no sex involved..however they do exsist and should you ever wish to see a healthy active loving relationship then you must realize that it's not all about possession or making sure that your mate has no other friends other than the ones you approve of...my spouse and I trust each other ...I don't cheat because I don't want to..I have too much respect for myself and our relationship to do that.......hmm I'm ranting...food for thought...later tater   | |
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| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/24/2007 4:11:46 AM | Why shouldn"t married people look for adventure, friendship and sex? According to statistics, most men and a lot of women are having affairs. Why not just own up to the fact that people have needs in their lives that run contrary to what we are brought up to believe? I do not advocate lying about your status, or pretending to offer more than you are.
I don't know anyone who hasn't felt betrayed in some way by their significant other.
So, to my thinking , if this is so wrong, why are so many enjoying extra-marital affairs? | |
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Posted: 5/24/2007 7:55:23 AM | So, to my thinking , if this is so wrong, why are so many enjoying extra-marital affairs?
Who says they're enjoying anything?
Just because a lot of people are doing something,that doesn't make it the right thing to do. When we marry, we swear before God and our families and friends to be faithful and keep ourselves only to our spouse. That promise has to be worth something more to all of us, than just meaning that we now share the same name and anything either of us does against the vows we took is OK because lots of people do it!
People kill other people every day, it's not the right thing to do, just because it's being done! Stealing isn't right just because it's done!
You have put forth a very poor argument, and it's very sad to read such foolish(stupid) words from an adult. | |
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| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/24/2007 8:34:55 AM | LOL well maybe stupid arguement, but based on truths and common knowledge . I am asking the question, not telling anyone what they should do. That I leave up to each individual their belief systems and god and /or goddesses.
I don't know whats best for anyone else, nor would I try to tell you what that looks like for you.
Subject is married people should not be looking on a dating site. I simply disagree. I think its totally fine as long as they say they are involved. | |
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Posted: 2/20/2008 2:51:35 PM | I agree strongly that married people should (not)) be on this site , as it is very clear that this is a "Dating" site.  or  ??
If you are new to a town or Province and want to meet new friends there are Community forums in the City, Town, Province you move to and you should start there. This is a suggestion! 
It sounds like a good excuse to get on this site to say that you are looking to meet friends in a new area you moved to.  Sorry, my opinion only. I also believe that if you are living as a married/common-law couple you have each other to get out and meet new friends. 
Don't want to upset anyone and if I do I am truly sorry. However, I am not sorry for stating my view on this topic. | |
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| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 2/27/2008 9:53:54 AM | | i haven't had time to read all the comments and views for this one but i know the few times i hung up my fishing pole for whatever reason....i still enjoyed comin on to check out the forums and i mean i guess the problem is that the married ppl are not always stating that they are married...is that it? or are they stating they are married and on here anyway....i would mention that they may be the reason there is an option on the what are you looking for? that is phrased..."other relationship". i do understand it complicates things maybe a bit but......don't sweat the small stuff ? | |
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Posted: 2/27/2008 12:48:00 PM | 2 cents no more its all its worth besides if a married guy/girl hits on u can ignore them just like when a song that comes on the radio u do not like change the station soon if everyone did then bad music will not be played
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Posted: 5/18/2008 8:09:58 PM | | I'm sorry,but I disagree.I am married,happily... but there is life 'outside' the marriage.Get with the times,married people have 'extra-marital' relations all the time,it keeps the marriage 'fresh' if you will.I disagree to 'cheating',but my hubby is helping me find a person(s) for some 'fun' for me. No secrets in our relationship.I can't wait to find that 'fun' and my hubby is rootin' for me.It'll only make our moments that much more intense. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 11:34:37 AM | EWWWWWEEEEE! Puke, Puke, Puke!
Doesn't that post just say it all?????????????????? SICK, SICK ,SICK!
You're kidding, of course! You must be!
You don't expect single ladies to be happy and agreeable with that point of view! There may be a few single men who might go along with it for a ride, but when the chips are down, no real man wants to have anything serious to do with a married woman who has sex with other men. I'm pretty sure I speak for most decent single ladies when I say, we want our own man, not someone who already has a wife or SO.
You think it makes your moments more special? How about that moment in front of the judge? How special is that? | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 1:26:14 PM | Motor Mouth is back for I can not pass this thread in neutral! "SEXYLADY31".... What is wrong with the marriage that you need someone else to keep it "fresh"? Secondly, the userame you are using is all wrong for if you are sexy, you should not "want" or "need" another man to keep it FRESH nor would your husband be helping you out! (Then again my guess is he is getting off on it as well... I may be wrong of course but...)
Thirdly... The "LADY" part of your user name does not fit the package for there is no LADY that would be doing what you are!
Fouth... If you need some other man to be with you to keep your marriage "FRESH" as you stated, don't you think it's time to call it quits with the hubby and move on?
What would you do with a salad that has lost its freshness? Toss it aside in the garbage I would like to think! Well, the same goes for the "stale marriage"!
Seriously though, if your marriage has lost some of it's spice, do OTHER things with each other to spice it up! With you doing what your doing, your husband and these "other men" are having sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths. fifths and so on... and you are lowering yourself to a snakes level! My opinion, I think it's disgusting! Just my opinion, each to their own of course!
I would rather stay single than be doing what you are doing! All the best to you....
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| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/19/2008 5:58:13 PM | Look out forums...... I'mmmmmmmmmmmmm backkkkkkkkkk 
On a more serious note though (me being serious ) My comments are just that, not intended to judge or critize anyone, just my opinion on this topic. One thing I got o problems with is saying what I think or feel 
Being online as well, anyone may say anything, open for all !
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