| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/20/2008 9:17:55 PM | Sexylady31 is simply offering her view on the topic of the thread. That's what we do, we make comments about the thread, not about each other. Sheesh... to each their own, karma, what's good for the goose, etc. Down, ladies down, please.
OT: If their status says married and they try to message you, either say thanks or no thanks. If they aren't hiding it, it is because this is something they are undertaking with all the other little fishies knowledge. No problem. If they post themselves as something they are not, i.e. single, divorced, etc... BIG problem. | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/21/2008 2:44:18 AM | I agree with you island damsel, it's to make comments on the thread not about each other! I am not judging anyone, nor is any of my comments, views, or opinions on here, to hurt someone! BUT What happened to those vows one took before God? Is there anything thats pure anymore?
If the husband knows about it and is trying to find some "FUN" for his wife, that is just as bad. But I am to assume that one would get off on that! Each to their own, definitely!
It's not the fact of MARRIED people being on a site looking for friends as such, it is the fact of MARRIED people being on a site and hooking up with someone! I strongly disagree with "outside the marriage FRESHNESS" !
If someone has to look outside of being married, they shouldn't be in that marriage! Or would that just complicate things even more so?
Just my motor here running away
cindy is back | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/21/2008 3:24:07 AM |
I strongly disagree with "outside the marriage FRESHNESS" !
You speak for a lot of people cindy,not all but enough.Their will always be that few that are not happy with anyone their with.
If your not happy and need a 3rd person to join the marriage for fun I think it's sad!
If someone has to look outside of being married, they shouldn't be in that marriage! Or would that just complicate things even more so?
You answered yourself cindy,of course it's going to complicate things!
If you don't want feed back on your post,then don't post.Simple enough right?
 | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/21/2008 5:15:43 AM | It's sad actually that "MEN" and "WOMEN" look "outside" the marriage for some spice when they can "CREATE" their own "TOGETHER" with "ONE ANOTHER"!
My dear GOD! For those who are doing that, get ya a$$e$ a divorcee! Then you can have all the freshness and spice that you want! Very simple, don't you think?
cindy is back
P.S.
And further more, whether the "hubby" or the "wifey" knows about it or not... """It is still cheating"""! | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/22/2008 4:37:07 AM | Relationships are as individual as people are. Relationships can only be defined by those two (or more) people who are part of it. Whether we agree or disagree is our own personal opinion and should be treated as such: an opinion, not an effing world decree.
To impress upon people what is "right" or "wrong" in a relationship is totally out of our scope of comprehension. What's right for some, may be wrong for others. If adults choose to go outside the relationship for something that is missing, so be it.
Seriously, who are we to judge others? | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/22/2008 11:11:02 AM | Speaking for myself, I'm not judging others for what they do or don't do, BUT I still strongly disagree with outside of marriage rang a dangs, even if both partners agree with it and help one another look...still wrong!
Just because "I" think it is wrong, disgusting, and sick...doesn't mean I am "judging" anyone! Just stating my "opinion" of the whole "outside of marriage rang a dangs"!
Each to their own I guess!
cindy is back | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/22/2008 1:05:10 PM | Seriously,who are we to judge anyone?
I don't think anyone is judging anyone,were all giving our opinions.If she didn't want it don't post.
Just because "I" think it is wrong, disgusting, and sick...doesn't mean I am "judging" anyone! Just stating my "opinion" of the whole "outside of marriage rang a dangs"!
rang a dangs...I love it,too funny cindy.
 | |
|
| |
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/23/2008 7:38:30 AM | seriously, who are we to judge? Well, I think Ican judge because it was the attitude that it's OK to step outside of marriage which ruined MY marriage! I think I can step up and say it's wrong. No matter what anyone calls it, it's against the vows we take at marriage and that's enough to make it the wrong thing to do!
I am simply blown away by the fact that there are people who publicly defend that low down behaviour! What kind of trash are these people? Besides being greedy for sensation they are so careless of the risks as well. It's not fair if you cheat on your mate & they don't know about it, it's disgusting if you engage in extra marital affairs with the knowledge & consent of your mate!
They shouldn't be on a site designed for single people who are honestly trying to make a connection with other singles. Unfortunately, there are lots of sites avaliable for the 'married-looking-for-extra-activity', let them climb down to that basement and leave the rest of us alone.
Princess & Cindy, you rock with the humor! Hide, Slide & Ride! Hilarious! | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/23/2008 8:38:31 AM | | While you don't have to agree, people shouldn't come out and attack people for posting their opinions. That seems to be what ruins the local forums in small areas. One group picks on another , and back and forth. People wonder why they can't get events off the ground, it's because of cliques and gangs and goons. | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/23/2008 7:26:54 PM |
People wonder why they can't get events off the ground, it's because of cliques and gangs and goons.
You have your opinion ComefromAway and your entitled to it.
While you don't have to agree, people shouldn't come out and attack people for posting their opinions
Maybe you should take your own advice,calling people gangs and goon, isn't exactly very gentlemanly
| |
|
| |
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/24/2008 6:26:48 PM | It's, to say the least, "AMAZING" how when there is a "certain thread" started, the discussion goes away from the TOPIC and heads in the direction of what one thinks, feels, comments about... A.K.A. "OPINIONS"! From what I can see including myself, it is a forum, a place to start a thread or post in one. Open to anyone and everyone that is on this site unless banned etc... So, with it comes, opinions! All different, some good, some not so good! But it is still OpInIoNs! Freedom of speech!
Back to the topic....
I disagree with outside of marriage "rumping and pumping" A.K.A "Cheating" (my opinion) but that is exactly what it is..."MY OPIONION"! As for Married men / women being on this site, depends of course!
cindy is back | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/24/2008 7:00:42 PM | Well, I gotta add my 2 cents worth too...
To start, I have never cheated, nor would I ever consider or even tolerate that within my own relationships. Tomorrow if I were married, I would probably be too busy to be online.
But if I were to have extra time on my hands, I would probably pop on to POF, the forums are addictive, and somewhat entertaining at times, and there are some interesting topics. If I was in a healthy relationship, there would be trust enough between the two of us, and I would definitely make it clear that I was married, and was not looking for a relationship.
It is hardest for the single people who approach others who, purposely hide the fact they are married. That has never happened to me yet, at least I don't think so. Although I had been contacted by a couple of men who were married but were only looking for friendship. Did I believe them? Was I even going to go there? No, I didn't. I didn't feel right about it.
Do I think it's ok for a married person to be on this site? I don't see why not, as long as they are forthright. ...just my 2 cents. | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/24/2008 8:50:20 PM | Let he who is without sin cast the first stone....wow, I did remember something.
Glass houses, m'dears, glass houses.
Good for you mzincoqnite,no glass shattering around you I presume?
I can and will only speak for myself,I have never been with a married man,nor would I do that to another woman.
To each their own,just don't expect me to agree with someone that would agree/condon with couples helping each other find other partners for their spouse!
Some peoples children!!!
 | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/25/2008 6:30:54 AM | Nope, peiprincess, not a shard of glass lingers near me. I don't judge; I'm not that special. I don't point fingers, nor do I join in petty spats; it bores me.
I live my life the way I choose to and let others do the same. If others want to judge me? So be it; I have big shoulders. | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/27/2008 1:31:13 PM | Nope, peiprincess, not a shard of glass lingers near me. I don't judge; I'm not that special.
Good for you mzincoqnito,wish I could say that,but I'm afraid I'm guilty in the past of judging people.Doesn't make me special just me!
I've had my pretty little glass house shattered in the past,great thing about getting older is with it comes wisdom,and I'm not so quick to judge anyone anymore.
With that said though,I will not compromise my morals for the sake of going along with the crowd.
If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything. | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/27/2008 9:15:35 PM | In all honesty I to am guilty of judging people... In the past! We live and we learn!
As well, with the wisdom I gained along the way, I can honestly say that I do not judge anyone today in the present! Like the book with its cover.... Sometimes we come across a book with no cover!
When much younger, yes going along with the crowd fit right in for me... Today, Ummm No! I speak my mind, give my opinion and stand for what I believe in!
Sometimes, we "ALL" need a little fall so we can appreciate the "STANDING" that much more!
((( Just doing a lap or two around this pond)))
cindy is back | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/28/2008 3:09:13 AM |
It's sad actually that "MEN" and "WOMEN" look "outside" the marriage for some spice when they can "CREATE" their own "TOGETHER" with "ONE ANOTHER"!
My dear GOD! For those who are doing that, get ya a$$e$ a divorcee! Then you can have all the freshness and spice that you want! Very simple, don't you think?
cindy is back
P.S.
And further more, whether the "hubby" or the "wifey" knows about it or not... """It is still cheating"""!
Looks rather judgemental to me..... | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/28/2008 7:13:33 AM | Comesfromaway:
Looks rather judgemental to me.....
ummm you do realize that you just made a judgement by saying that another posters OPINION is judgemental. Perhaps some view the truth as being judgemental, if so .. then what would you call a lie? | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:49:57 AM | | It's all in your perception. It is difficult to respond to most things posted in a forum without SOMEONE taking offense to what you type. To bad so sad. It's much easier to not take stuff personal, after all the vast majority of them you'll never meet in real life, so really what does their opinion or judgement matter. | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/28/2008 1:25:25 PM | after all the vast majority of them you'll never meet in real life
holibatcrap! Welcome to PEI!! The vast majority have met in real life, about half are related and the rest just don't admit to any of it!!! lol
Comefromaway - There is far more that goes on behind the scenes in PEI than what is obvious (at first) -pretty much the same as is reflected in these forums. And btw - You were the first to toss out the judgemental card! :tongue:
OT - I take it Very personally when some married a'hole (esp one who LIES about his status) hits on me. If a married person (esp one who is looking to CHEAT) thinks so little of their partner, then I must assume they think much less of me. So .. yeah - I take it personal. Most (not all) = Most Honest people are offended by lies.
Just the way it is.
Disclaimer: Please note - I said "Most" not "All".
Welcome to "Friendly" PEI!
A.S.is
 | |
|
| Married People Should Not be Looking on a Dating Site
Posted: 5/28/2008 1:40:31 PM | "ComeFromAway"... God love your comments! Or was it an "opinion"? Then again...perhaps you are being "Judgemental"????
For what it is worth... (Maybe 0.01 cents) ...
VVV VVV VVV VVV VVV VVV VVV VVV VVV VVV
It's sad actually that "MEN" and "WOMEN" look "outside" the marriage for some spice when they can "CREATE" their own "TOGETHER" with "ONE ANOTHER"!
My dear GOD! For those who are doing that, get ya a$$e$ a divorcee! Then you can have all the freshness and spice that you want! Very simple, don't you think?
cindy is back
P.S.
And further more, whether the "hubby" or the "wifey" knows about it or not... """It is still cheating"""!
^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^^
It is just "MY OPINION".... Just to clear it up
cindy is back | |
|
| |
| |
Home
login 
I got a few other choice sayings like The outside of marriage "slurp and slides"... Outside of marriage "Hide, Slide and Ride"... Got a few more but I might get banned so I keep them to myself :lol
