alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 26 | |
| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 4/16/2004 1:30:41 PM | | DOING NICE THINGS FOR YOUR LOVED ONE SHOULD COME NATURALLY. it shouldnt be expected.. taken advantage of or ignored. Its the shows of affection that will get me to stick around and want to make you happy for the rest of our lives.its when he lavishes me for 3 months or 8 years... and stops. It has to be nurteured and never ending. You should always want to do nice things for the other one. I like to make a special dinner..come home with a card...dress up nice and announce we're going out for dinner the sitter is coming....buy a shirt i know would look awesome on him...and make him a cup of tea or coffee the way he likes it as hes geting out of the shower. And for me...the flowers for no reason...kidnapping me and whisking me off soemwhere exciting....letting me stay in bed and make breakfast.. cleaning the house because you felt like it...come up behind me as im making dinner kiss my neck and say you love me makes my heart melt. Its when these things stop thats when i get upset.. you must always show affection and automatically spoil your mate.. it keeps the candle burning always... | |
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Ender
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Joined: 2/1/2004
Msg: 27 | |
| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 4/16/2004 1:34:10 PM | | Personally I really enjoy pampering a woman.....you know treating her the way a lady should be treated.....doidng all the romantic stuff. I was brought up as a true southern gentleman though, so I am not relaly typical. I will sya this however......a woman needs to realize that if she has a man that treats her right she should return the favor. Whenever they start EXPECTING to be pampered and act like it is my obligation to do it.....well lets jsut say that I make sure that there is an understanding between us about how I feel about being underappreciated. | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 28 | |
| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 4/16/2004 2:59:49 PM | | hmm yah i can see that ender.. if a guy is the only one giving.. the lady sems like she not appreciating at all....thats not right..its both ways..to keep it happy.. | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 29 | |
| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 4/17/2004 7:48:27 AM | Now thats wrong for people to take advantage of a good thing. No matter what the good thing is...
I enjoy spoiling a man, but when he stops returning the favor, then bye bye birdie.
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| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 4/18/2004 7:24:39 PM | You really wash a man's feet? LOL Sorry, I just never heard of that before.
Yeah.. I agree with everyone here.. Give and take.. has to be equal.. Keep the spark alive.. and it really is the little things that matter.. :o) | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 31 | |
| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 4/20/2004 4:52:14 PM | | lol yes I have washed a guys feet before. It may sound pretty eww, but the thing is, we were in the bath together, it was lots of fun, I can tell yah, bubbles were almost gone, and we just had a great time lol....*sigh* great memory.... | |
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chovy
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Joined: 4/20/2004
Msg: 32 | |
| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 4/21/2004 12:53:31 AM | i don't mean to sound like an assh*le, but you sound like high maintenance. I can't stand woman like that who think men outta spend all their cash and time on 'em just for the "good" sex they return. Why go through all that? find a better woman, or whack off for free.
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| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 4/21/2004 7:30:40 AM | Ahhh Chovy.. If you read back on the posts here.. she said she was not looking for the high maintenance crap..
Reading is knowledge.. :o) hee hee | |
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chovy
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Joined: 4/20/2004
Msg: 35 | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 36 | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 38 | |
| Re: Is it Wrong ? Question for the Guys !
Posted: 5/3/2004 12:11:06 PM | HMM MEN RUN FROM HIGH MAINTENANCE....
also women from a guy who wants to be mothered. Man i cant stand dependent men..arrgghhh. My ex was like a third child. BUt if you treat eachother to nice unexpected things like flowers..a massage...making dinner going on a surprise date..or bring home a litte gift because you thought they would like it and you thought of them that day..that is what really impresses me.....and will make me fall head over heels for you. | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 40 | |
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