| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 8:58:47 PM | | indi.....I guess that means Im out....What if I changed my age on my profile....Rob | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 9:02:49 PM | In answer to the original question....
"When instead of hearing your vows, you hear ASHES TO ASHES, DUST TO DUST." | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 9:06:00 PM | | Isn't Brad Pitt like 42-43? I'm sure he wouldn't have trouble finding young tail. Although I'm sure he'd get tired of them leaving their gum on the headboard, as I have... I said it before. For men: 1/2 your age + 7 years. It seems logical for me, and I'm sure you won't get too many disapproving glares form others. This formula is commonly used by Jewish and Muslim matchmakers, (a cultural thing). ex. He's (40) 40/2 = 20 + 7 (27 years) minimum age. | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 9:08:23 PM | oh, and maximum age is whatever you can stomach... | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 9:16:01 PM | Come on indie! Whisper his name in my ear! All my life (except once) I have dated guys younger that me. I now believe it may have been some sort of mothering or possibly a control trip, i.e.money etc. Here's something to ponder(well for me anyway), tell me if this makes sense to anyone....when I date a younger guy I should feel 'older'(which was very good when I was very young, and yes I dated guys in their 30's when I was still in my late teens, but wouldn't it make sense that now that I am older, a guy older than me would help me to feel younger?? I think so I really do....it's a maturing thing, in reverse, kinda, does anyone understand what I am trying to get at? Indie what do you think hun? And blues when I said out of the mouths' I was being well, fascitious......so sorry hun, I hope nothing , well 'unatural' has happened in your life, to make you feel this way, age is simply a number, we have said it all though time and it still stands! | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 9:23:26 PM | I'm torn the young sweetie is so sweet hasn't been ruined yet .. the older man is just everything I ever wanted my soulmate and unavailable ! soooooooo the young sweetie spoils me rotten and I like it ..looks like happy old girl to me ! Not sure yet...so many men so little time ! | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 9:29:31 PM | | old as in age...or in attitude....i've seen girls in their 20's that act like they are 70 | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 9:45:26 PM | HHHhhmmm. the oldest gentleman ive dated was 11 years older than me, the youngest is 7 years younger.... ( but i have the kind of personality and a "high octane rating" , lol, that needs an understanding & humerous man...)  | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 10:33:36 PM | Indi... if you ever get old, drop me a post card.... The old man wants to know... ;-) Maybe thenyou would actually TALK to me ;-)
~~Dragon Rider~~ | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 10:40:23 PM | How who you " older People" feel if your say 13-15 year old daughter or son was dating one of your "close personal" freinds speically if they where like 30-40 .. ok thats just nasty!!
Um Babyblues....13-15???? Does jailbait mean anything to you?
And you sure like the word nasty....I can tell you must be about 19...if that...
And as far as wrinkled ****/penis...jeez...that sounds mature....
Go back to school Baby...you ain't grown up enough to be in here...with us old folks...
Squeak
Oh yeah - I can't wait til you get old...that is gonna be hilarious...
And a grammar class wouldn't hurt either... | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 10:48:23 PM |
you ask me it just means the older plp are tried of all the rinkle Pu**Y and D**ks
uhhh.....if it's wrinkled....you're doing something wrong.
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 10:52:12 PM | | i would rather date someone 20 years older than i as opposed to 1 yr younger ...weird, i know..but there you have it... | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 10:54:39 PM | Ive been in love with a lady 4 years older... Age is a number... | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 11:15:35 PM | I fall into that category there Twenty2Libras ;-)
Thanks Squeaks... I don't think I have ever seen a wrinkly one...
~~Dragon Rider~~ | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/19/2005 11:22:33 PM | | twenty2libras has her preference as does everyone else. We are making an issue out of something that is as individually varied as there are members on this site. I have dated older women as well as women less than half my age. The younger ones weren't with me merely because of their youth. They were there because we connected on some level or several. To each his or her own, as long as it feels right and is mutually beneficial then go for it whether there is 2 years difference or 35. | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/20/2005 5:47:02 AM | this thread is too funny... as one "ages" and get wrinkly, the differences disappear (into the folds i guess)
when I was 20, she was 13. (ouch) when I was 30, she was 23 (some would say not so bad) now I'm 45, (soon to be 46, shut up, I'm still alive)and she's 38 (what the problem?)
Of course I met her last year. | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/20/2005 6:43:19 AM | | yes i believe age makes a difference i have 43 soon to be 44... i have younger guys asking me out all the time ...usaually i will response my saying i am looking for someone is my age or older... i have had several men say.. the age doesnt matter.... so i recently tested this point of view out... what i found is yes if someone is younger you can like their personality and enjoy there company but in reality to spend everyday with them ...i believe conflict will arise. due to age differences... possibly lack of respect.. trust issues etc..if you are looking to date more power to you i dont believe age doesnt make a difference in that forum ...but for the long haul yes i do... cindy | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/20/2005 6:57:20 AM | "errrrr.....when it's 13 to 15 yr olds with 30 to 40 years olds it's not dating, it's pedophilia."
That's hebephelia. Pedophelia is when prepubescents are involved.
Umm... not like I have any great knowledge on the subject.... :|
As for the topic. 19 would be too young for me. I don't think my brain could stand it, esp if the person is anything like what comes to mind when reading babybules' profile. I worked recently where the average age of the women was in their early 20's - much eye candy, but not much I could discuss with them. Since coming here I've been fortunate to meet people closer to my own age and the difference is quite refreshing.
'babybules' - intentional or typo? | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/20/2005 7:37:40 AM | "errrrr.....when it's 13 to 15 yr olds with 30 to 40 years olds it's not dating, it's pedophilia."
That's hebephelia. Pedophelia is when prepubescents are involved.
Semantics. (shrug) When you are the parent of 13 and 14 yr old girls (as I am) it IS pedophilia. | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/20/2005 7:48:35 AM | | i honestly don't know if i could date anyone else younger than myself....i believe experience has everything to do with it, and that would usually come with age. | |
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/20/2005 7:50:17 AM | Um Folks... READ his post again... He just met her last year... He was merely comparing the relative age of his current girl friend...
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| How old is too old Posted: 2/20/2005 7:56:21 AM | I noticed the earlier post mentioning the 13 and 14 yearolds and wanted to clear up my statement regarding dating soemone less than half my age. I was 43 she was 21, no pedophelia and I couldn't fathom being with anyone underage. If I were a parent of early teen children such as Pandora and found that my daughters were with a guy my age his least worry would be one of semantics I can assure you. I have to add after viewing Pandora's profile I was awestruck, such a beautiful woman | |
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