| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 5/3/2005 11:43:56 PM | I have never been to a bar cause I don't drink.
If I was at a bar, it would be mostly older guys watching sports. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 5/4/2005 2:05:03 AM | left that scene long ago....now I only go there with friends for the beers........
all I can say is I go there for the fun beers dance whatever...I enjoy life spontaneously..
some times i get noticed sometimes I dont....but I dont give a shit...if you dont get noticed...have fun .....move on...next...theres plenty of fish indeed......
funny thing is with this attitude I get noticed most of the time...because im in my element.
most of the guys(including some good looking ones) go like "whats he got that we dont"..answer self worth and lots of confidence...and lots of humor....honestly I was rolling my eyes at the suggestions...you cant force attraction..it happens or it doesnt...and I never buy a lady a drink the first time even if she asks me..my answer is "why dont you buy me one first?"
can I buy you a drink ?.........corny at best
Write this down...enjoy yourself...dont calculate all actions to achieve results you desire,
enjoy whatever youre doing for the sake of doing it..some people will be attracted some wont..so wakey wakey and smell the coffee.. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 5/4/2005 3:47:50 AM | OK im not sure if anyone has said anything like this yet in this post but i havnt got time to read 8 pages, but try this. Firstly you must dress well, better than most of the other guys in the bar/ club wherever u are, walk with confidence, and always have a smile on your face, this should draw some attention, make good eye contact with any pretty ladys that look your way and smile. If they smile back go over and introduce yourself. Simple and it works cause you are showing that you are a confident man, and girls love the attention :P.
Or try this one, find a nice seat somwhere where a fare few ppl walk past, and if a nice girl looks at you wave her over  , 9 times out of 10 they will come over out of curiousity. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 6/20/2005 3:27:05 PM | | YES YES YES ladies any suggestion on a nice way to approach a lady, besides "can i get you drunk" | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 6/20/2005 5:43:40 PM | Hotguy48 and YadaYadaYada ...Get a room you two!
In answer to to the topic question, I think your biggest mistake is waiting for the ladies to come up to you. I know it's a new age, but women still like to be approached. Introduce yourself. Ask her to dance, or if you can buy her a drink.
Or you may not have to worry about it...Blah Blah Blah and Yada Yada Yada seems like a pretty good match to me! | |
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Posted: 6/21/2005 5:09:34 AM | | corny pick ups wont do it,,,it really depends on the type of woman your trying to get with,,,theres not one rule for all of us,,,as stupid as some men think we are we know when your comin over for a f&*& or when you are serious about wanting to know us,,,,pick up lines i hate | |
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Posted: 6/21/2005 5:14:13 AM | | I have worked in a bar for a year and trust me around 2 am everyone gets noticed! | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 6/21/2005 6:44:48 AM | | walk in like you own the room with tons of confidence!!! that to me is sexy and makes me notice a man! | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 6/21/2005 9:01:07 AM | | I stand at the bar and always get served by the barmaid last this has happened since i was 18 what is that | |
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Posted: 6/21/2005 9:53:59 AM | | Yeah, nothing cheesy...just eye contact and that little half smile thing...mmmm | |
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Posted: 9/13/2005 7:01:15 PM | | This is what pisses me off.If i am at a bar with a woman,chics dig me.I can go back the next night without a girl and the same chics will not even look my way.My buddy wears a wedding band to get chics at a bar.He goes up,orders a drink,shines his gold band.Thats all it takes for him.Its just not my area either.We used to work out of town.We have been to Vegas,Miami,New york,Jersey,it works everywhere!Hardest place we had talking to chics was Kentucky.It still is the hardest place to get a womans attention. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/13/2005 7:26:56 PM | | Does sitting on your stool looking around and hoping really really hard that the pretty girl will come over and talk work for anyone? I have been trying it for a long time and so far the results have been kind of disappointing. Being shy blows goats. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/14/2005 6:16:00 AM | | The whole bar scene is a monumental waste of time and money imo.Has nothing to offer me. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/14/2005 7:13:51 AM | Never went to pick anyone up in a bar, so.....Have had lines used on me alot, and I just laugh and tell them there is one over there that would probly go home with you, never going to happen with this girl, but its nothing personal, and wink at them.
They used lines like.
1. I saw you, and you seam like the only normal person in this bar.
2. I always buy the prettest lady in the place a drink, and then my self one. Habit. No strings intended. Just like good company.
3. Are they bump in to me, and say something like I am so sorry, its crazy in here tonight, and just stand there and talk to me, then they ask if they can buy me a drink if my glass is getting low.
and so on and so on.......What I find funny is if I let them buy me a drink and they find out its just pepisi nothing else, the look on there face seams priceless.(Makes me laugh.) Hey. they knew ahead of time not a chance, of doing anything but talking to me. Haven't been in to many bars, just a few times is all, because being honest the places smells bad, and you do if your there a little wile. (Smoke, and beer, nasty)
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/15/2005 6:49:04 AM | I soooooooo miss the 80's when for a brief time the gym had replaced the bar as a meeting place.You saw the women and they saw you sober,unmade and in bright light,so you know if you found each other attractive,it was real,it wasn't the booze talking and you knew you wouldn't wake up with the coyote syndrome and want to chew off your arm to get away unoticed.
These days people are too hostile to be a decent pickup anywhere.People are so self absorbed these days I don't see how anyone meets anybody.You walk into a bar and women already have the snyde comments ready for you before you open your mouth.In the gym women have the earphones crammed in so deep,their MP3 players might as well be surgically implanted.
What happened to people?Churches are even getting that way. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/15/2005 2:16:29 PM | | Try a coffee-bar. Bring a good book. Improve your mind AND maybe meet a decent lady. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/15/2005 2:33:02 PM |
I soooooooo miss the 80's when for a brief time the gym had replaced the bar as a meeting place.You saw the women and they saw you sober,unmade and in bright light,so you know if you found each other attractive,it was real,it wasn't the booze talking and you knew you wouldn't wake up with the coyote syndrome and want to chew off your arm to get away unoticed.
These days people are too hostile to be a decent pickup anywhere.People are so self absorbed these days I don't see how anyone meets anybody.You walk into a bar and women already have the snyde comments ready for you before you open your mouth.In the gym women have the earphones crammed in so deep,their MP3 players might as well be surgically implanted.
What happened to people?Churches are even getting that way.
amen, brother lol | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/15/2005 2:34:45 PM |
walk in like you own the room with tons of confidence!!! that to me is sexy and makes me notice a man!
what do you mean LIKE I own the room, I DO own the room dammit! lol | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/15/2005 2:38:10 PM |
I love it when a man has the balls to grab both of my ass cheeks, and then finishes off by telling me "nice tits". At which point, i'm all his to do as he wishes.
forget the drinks, just start dry humping her LOL | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/15/2005 10:18:02 PM | the you smell nice line might not be that accurate anyway. because 5 minutes after I walk into a bar I stink of smoke anyway.
In this area there are no bars outside of restaurants and hotels. I should go check out a few. I dont want sleazy and cheesy, I want a nice convo!! | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 9/16/2005 1:59:15 AM | the you smell nice line might not be that accurate anyway. because 5 minutes after I walk into a bar I stink of smoke anyway.
Another reason I don't do bars.I'm allergic to cigarrette smoke. | |
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