| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/14/2005 6:25:10 PM | ^^^^^LOL,,,
Come to mama cute boy,,you;d be one of them losers I was referring too,,,,
ROFL,,, | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 52 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/14/2005 6:28:45 PM | | its not just for bars dear.. i have done that at the mall as well and at work. funny stuff.. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/14/2005 6:33:56 PM | | Just walk over and say hi what have you got to lose having a good night do mind if i hang out with you guys for a while we will all be together women travel in packs and yes we always go to the bathroom in 2's everything you thought we did in the bathroom together is true sssshhhhh i should not let out secrets like that it could get me thrown out of the sister hood lol seriously go over and say hi most people are a little insecure we like people to approach us | |
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Posted: 2/14/2005 6:35:50 PM | | if u make frequent eye contact with a women, thats a good sign. and as the others suggested, buy her a drink. then as she is drinking, go sit by her and say hi, spark up something. oh yah im 20, cant get into the bar | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 57 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/14/2005 6:40:38 PM | Now Jennifer.. we older guys know the bars import you girls in there so when we guys try that..you shoot us down and we drink more to cover the pain of rejection.. OH THE PAIN!
you get free drinks and the bar makes more money.. 
plus you girls always have that one girlfriend with you that is like jealous and glares at us the whole time when we come over..
I am a eye contact and soft smile kinda guy. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/14/2005 6:55:48 PM | You don't really need anything to ghet attention jimi... ur a hottie anyway lol
But... my advice is... IF by chance u notice a girl looking at u... make it clear that u would like to talk to her... or that u r interested also. Maybe she will come talk to u. Also... JUST go and have fun and dance. Women love men who r just out to have fun and that like to dance. I know I do anyway.
Or you could always try jimi's idea with the pants down low lol | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 59 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/14/2005 7:03:34 PM | Aww thanks Nb, your to kind .
ahhh... I just wait until I get to hammered and then walk back by and say. aieee...You...you..ya..you look so flooking segxy.. ahh.. what da ya tink of that.. then lean back and forth.with one eye half open. . …never works? | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/14/2005 7:10:57 PM | | Here's a tip. If you want to get noticed at a bar sneak a gun in, then hold it up in the air and start yelling as loud as you can. You'll have everyones attention. Oh yeah, you might want to bring a ski mask, and have a quick exit. By the way wwater guns don't count. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2005 7:21:49 PM | i generally just have a great time and forget about getting noticed...oddly enough thats when it happens!
I find I get noticed sometimes when more rock based songs come on....I just get really into the ac/dc and def leppard joan jett, classic stuff...I've had guys approach me simply because I was enjoying the same music they were and knew the words. | |
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Posted: 2/14/2005 7:23:38 PM | | Another thing that may help... If you actually OWNED said bar!! Thats kind of a more expensive approach, but may work. That way you could dish out free booze to her and her friends. Granted, that could get pretty expensive and all. Buying a bar, dishin out free swill... | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/14/2005 11:38:51 PM | FREE BOOZE!!!
When I'm at the bar, i just walk up to a good looking women and tell her i'm a secret agent working undercover, and that the fate of the world rests in my hands....Why not? | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 1:45:35 AM | Thats crazy, Im only 19 and Im leagally alowed to go to the bars and clubs.
And in my breif escapades, I have learned this.
1) Guys, seriously. Dont be the Lone looser that goes byhimself. Bring a friend, if not at least to have someone to talk to on your "off" days. Even the Strip clubs. I was hit on by a drunk 40 year old lesbian while trying to enjoy myself..bymyself. Thats what friends are for.
2) Expecting her to walk up to you......not gonna happen. I was at a club here in town New Years eve night, the place was as packed as it ever was gonna be that year, except for maybe the next night, doesnt matter not the point. And dispite the fact that Myself and the friends I were with were dressed our best, the most it came out to was a phone number for the only guy who had the...hootspa....to ASK her for it.
3) Confadince speaks lots for a persons character.
But above all, the one thing Ive noticed that really throws me off balance the most, is,
4) Those who arnt looking get found more then those who are. Just pretend your there for reasons other then to...meet....people, and chances are people will be curious of the only one in the room not making noise. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2005 2:00:06 AM | | Get sooo plastered to the point that you cant stand anymore... fall down....that will surely get you noticed!!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2005 2:01:18 AM | I don't understand this not getting hit on by women. I have this happen to me more often than not! I am not saying this to brag either.
If you really don't get hit on...here are some tips.
confidence is a must.
look her in the eyes and wait until she breaks the eye contact.
sit up straight, no slouching.
smell good, hygeine is just common knowledge.
dress half ways nice.
don't use the stupid a$$ pickup lines...this drivel doesn't work.
be yourself.
make yourself stand out...be different then the others. How else is she going to remember you by?
if you are ever nervous or in a hurry, ask for her name, email, and phone number. Have her write it all down on a piece of paper, then leave! It almost always works!!!! don't call or email her within a day or two.
There you go. Now that I am a dating consultant...I will take on any new customers on a contingent basis. The first lessons a freebie...worth $57.95.
Thank you, drive through. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2005 2:08:43 AM | actually, it's not that rare... every girl i know notices guys at the bar, just we're usually too shy or intimidated by the slutty girls that the guy we're interested in seems to be staring at and drooling over, so we don't make a move. plus, if we smile at a guy, it pretty much is an indication to come over and say hi, but guys kinda don't get it and think its harder than that. which it's not. just be yourself...if we like ya, you'll know...  | |
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Posted: 2/15/2005 2:14:40 AM | Oh yeah, and you can always tease her.
Like: "Hey northernlites cookie, what is with your outfits? Is every day Halloween for you?"
Bust her ball$. Make her blush a bit.
Another way to make her notice you...anywhere. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 3:00:37 AM | | its wild that you guys cant go into a pub until your 21 the age limit over here is 18 and if you know the publican 16 lol guess thats why we are a nation of alckeyholics lol p.s i spelt it wrong on purpose | |
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Posted: 2/15/2005 3:03:53 AM | | I bet that if you walked into a bar naked, you would surely get noticed!!!! Hi jennifer j!! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2005 3:07:22 AM | ok i'm only posting to the original topic, haven't read any of the posts after it.
In my experience, women don't go to the bars to pick up guys. Most of us know better than to do that. You never know what you're going to get in this day and age. So, noting that, there's no point in approaching guys at a bar. Plus really, unless you're out to get laid that night, there's no hope of having any kind of conversation over drunk partyers and the sound system.
My friends and I go strictly to hang out with our crowd, drink and most of all, dance.
Of course, we're all out of our teens and have to work every day and manage the bills, families, etc etc. and don't feel the need to waste time at bars looking for anything in the first place. No diss to anyone who does, just stating my opinion and how me and my friends use the bars. | |
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