| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 3:29:04 AM | | You could say the same things out of the bar scene as well. The bar is actually a bad place to try...so I do agree. A better place would be at a bookstore, somewhere that is more quiet and low key. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 6:45:39 AM | | I was told by my brother, if a guy approaches you in a bar, he isn't one you really want to be with(most of them), a bar isnt a situation to pick up a potential partner... | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 1:09:47 PM | I dont know...the last man that hit on me at a bar...yeah..i was with him for almost a year..it worked out just fine for me!...I think that there are signs to decide if he's quality or not....Grade A beef etc....(LOL)....
I still say that the perfume line will work the best....
(if a guy buys me a drink..I know whole heartedly that all he wants is to get laid..and although I might have the same thought...I really dont want it to be quite that obvious) | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 1:10:22 PM | I let the women come to meeee  w000t w000t! lol
P.S You may come now..... comon... anytime now..... come come.... | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 3:55:26 PM | Hotguy48:
I'm not really sure but.On occasion guys to come up to me and they say things like your a great dancer, love the stomach, can I dance with you. just to name a few. good luck eh | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 4:21:42 PM | | Pour lighter fluid on your head and light it.If you do it just right you won't get burned.At least that's what this guy I was talking to once a long time ago said he heard. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 4:43:40 PM | | You can be surprised at who you meet in a bar - a friend of my sister actually met his wife at a bar, when she bought him a drink. Then again, it may have been more of a "pub" than a "bar" - but what's the difference? | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 4:44:02 PM | | Here's a tip if you're not afraid. Pick a fight with the biggest toughest guy at the bar and beat the snot out of him. That should get someones attention. Oh yeah the second part of this plan involves running really quickly road runner style again. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 4:47:47 PM | | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ - One problem, assuming you win (which makes 2 problems) - the bouncer. Of course, you could alwasy start a fight tobegin with, and then all you have to do is win the fight, and there's no-one left to throw you out... | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 4:50:49 PM | | I like your idea pure genius and simplicity to boot. Anyways of course your going to win, I should have mentioned only if you can win. Oh yeah and the key to this whole thing is running like the Dickens. See you get noticed, and then you run for safety. Oh you need indurance to attempt this and experience in running away from the police. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 4:53:22 PM | | Well I don't really want to go through the whole Flaurence Knighting Gail syndrome. Maybe I should just run period, or get extremely drunk and be very happy go lucky. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 4:59:59 PM | | Go up to them and say "you're totally ****able". It works on guys! *shrugs* | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 6:18:05 PM | wear white makeup.... a red wig and floppy shoes... then run around in circles and scarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeem!!! FIRE!!!! FIRE!!!!!!!!!! FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2005 8:16:14 PM | Talking about shy. You bet. Even at my age, the shyness doesn't go away. No matter how much I try. Still, I rather like the "you smell great" line. Now I know why the gals at the local watering hole looked at me funny on Saturday. You guys were discussing this subject here. She probably thought I read it in a forum.
Actually, two gals did smell great. So I told them that. A lot better than the football player I was drinking with, anyway. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 8:20:39 PM | RE: Yada's post.
I go to bars to try new brews. But then again, if a nice looking lady who smells nice is in there, I am guaranteed to open conversation. Of course, where I go, I am considered an extrovert. There are a lot of computer programers in Santa Monica.   | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 10:50:29 PM | | Hey Cherie Blossom 2005 you smell great! LOL seriously though i seem to have the same trouble as hotguy, any tips? | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/15/2005 11:14:44 PM | | If you came up to me and said, "I'd like to buy you a drink" or "I'd love to dance with you" I'd be more interested then if you asked. I like it when a man knows what he wants, whether he thinks he can get it or not. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/16/2005 3:50:22 AM | Getting noticed at the Bar, or anywhere else for that Matter, is the wrong way to, as in 'Waiting' for something to happen.
Too lame ...
Look around and note who is interested and looking about, scope the target, approach in any way as the Circumstances call for. | |
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Posted: 2/16/2005 4:00:03 AM | Ya know what... this thread makes MEN look pathetic!! Seriously, it does.
No discredit to the author, but seriously... if you need a website to help you inneract with women in a social gathering, then you may want to invest in video games or something along those lines. Women are humans guys, they arent GODS. They are simple beings just like you and I. I want to smack my head against the wall, over and over, when I see threads like this.
Based on this thread, Men are week and cannot figure out how to be a MAN in public. Holy sh*t, do we have to create a manual? Something that says just be yourself and act naturally? A paper that tells you exactly how to be normal?
Guys, they are GIRLS... NOT aliens!!! Just quit with the cheesey lines, the stupid ad-libs and rhetoric... just be yourself. What if the brunette your chasing, wants more than anything to hear... the very words that come out of your mouth?
Quit being chumps, and be MEN!!!! Walk up, or walk away, like you have a set!!! | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/16/2005 4:01:54 AM | A look & a smile than what was posted on the 1st page...."i like the way you smell, what perfume is that" I answer you walk away then come back to join me for a drink.
I like quirky unpredictable behaviour....peaks my curiosity! | |
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