| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/16/2005 6:30:40 AM | Looks Like I've been too subtle all my life. I thought the "nice smell line" would be too agressive.
How do you solve the problem of not being able to hear and the temptation to shout? | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/16/2005 6:31:42 AM | Hey smitty how are u
a friend of mine use to walk up and whisper something disgusting in womens ears he either got a slap or a laugh if he could get a laugh he usually took them home p.s i was not one of these women he was a mate | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/16/2005 2:57:24 PM | I have seen places where just about everybody is busy 'Being Noticed'.
Nice Theatre !!! Lots of Show, little Action, and Everybody goes home miserably ...
Forget the Lines, Sinkers & Hooks !!!
Try something a little less 'Player-like:
Notice something you ACTUALLY like about the person you would like to contact.
Then go up and say it, if suitable given the event, along with something like:
"Is it Ok if I sit down and talk to you?" or ...
"Please feel free to join me at my Table. I am over there ..."
Class will never go out of Style ... | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 104 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/16/2005 3:09:28 PM | the only problum with walking up like you got a set .. is they might just hand that set back to you. LOL! | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/16/2005 4:10:18 PM | | hey hot....well what works is eye contact...you can totally find out if they are interested that way....if im interested in someone and want there attention...i catch there eye and hold eye contact...smile.....and see how long i can hold it till they look away | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/16/2005 5:37:54 PM | | I agree with ticket...What ever happen with walking up and being polite. You will get my attention if you ask me to join you at your table. You would be amazed with the eye contact, straight forward approach really does work...give it a try. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/17/2005 3:43:12 AM | | i agree with Dragon send her a drink via the barmen that would be the easiest and most flattering way | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/17/2005 3:48:36 AM | Send her a drink....via the bartender or waitress.
Why should the possibility of rejection cost money?
That's like paying for a ticket but not knowing if you'll be allowed to see the show.
I'm not keen on a relationship that starts off with me making purchases for the other person.
It's a slippery slope, soon she'll be wanting me to buy her jewelry and clothes and stadiums and such.
I'll stick to using my charm. The horse idea is pretty good, too.
Then there's the straws-up-the-nose walrus impersonation - a classic.
Or "Nice perfume ... really clears the sinuses!" | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/17/2005 4:11:57 AM | Ok, you said that as a joke.
But what if someone did send you a glass of milk?
What would your reaction be?
ps. Milk still costs a lot at a bar.
A glass of water would be way too cheap, imho.
I'm gonna have to stick with my charm and good looks. I like a challenge. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/17/2005 4:14:04 AM | | lol i was just kidding and i have never been a drinker but i would thank the guy and give the drink to my little brother who would love me forever lol and then i would have a conversation with him by the way (handing him a drink ) your gorgeous | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/17/2005 7:41:16 AM | | Unfortunately i am one of those guys who does not get noticed so i have no idea, perhaps i should change my nick to INVISABLE GUY lol | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/17/2005 8:15:42 AM | I catch her eye and while she's looking I point at my crotch then put my finger in my mouth.
jj: Ok, so the whole 'glass of milk' idea is not good. I would have the audacity to do something like that, but not if it just comes off as stupid. I would comment on the rest of what you said, but I'm having a hard time understanding it. Who is gorgeous? Me? Whoever buys you a drink? Your brother? | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/17/2005 10:02:13 AM | "ok , what is the best way to be noticed by women at the bar"
This is why God invented beer. Get drunk and act a fool. Nothing turns a girl on like the smell of beer and nicotine. LOL  | |
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| Know how to dance!
Posted: 2/17/2005 10:06:17 AM | I love a good dance partner so I'm always watching the dance floor. Dance well (I'm talking Gene Kelly, not bump and grind), and you have my full and complete attention.
You can see why the bar scene is not my thing. Not too many Gene Kelly's there.  | |
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Jivin
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Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 118 | |
| Know how to dance!
Posted: 2/17/2005 1:07:34 PM | Like the poster says "Beer: helping ugly guys get laid since 1850"
No joke, find the drunkest girl at the bar, and go talk to her. Often times she's on the rebound and looking to hurt a boyfriend or ex thereof. | |
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| Know how to dance!
Posted: 2/17/2005 1:09:20 PM | Well, actually, I would try the 2nd drunkest girl, the drunkest is usually puking in the corner...
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remi
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Joined: 2/13/2005
Msg: 120 | |
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| Know how to dance!
Posted: 2/17/2005 1:14:51 PM | You know, that was a joke...
I never go for the drunk chicks, mainly because I normally am the drunk guy and well, things just sort themselves out. :P
But I do get noticed at the bar, just being myself I get a lot of attention, for better or for worse... | |
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| Know how to dance!
Posted: 2/17/2005 1:15:57 PM | Ya strut in, slap the bar, smack the bartender upside the head, grab a girl and kiss her, and then yell out "I struck Gold!"
You wanna get noticed right? Nobody said anything about impressions... | |
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| Know how to dance!
Posted: 2/17/2005 1:18:56 PM | | I still think that someone telling you that ur wearing a nice perfume is a good way,wether some think it is cheesy or not,much better than the old buy you a drink thing.What if you dont drink? what if its something you really dont like? If he is going to buy you a drink at least have the bartender/waitress ask you first and should be your choice as to what you want to drink.Best way is plain and simple,just walk up and say hi.Like what do you really have to lose? | |
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| Know how to dance!
Posted: 2/17/2005 1:20:52 PM | That reminds me... One time I walked into a friend's club and ordered a drink for me and a friend, I take out my wallet to pay and my friend already gave the bartender the money. So I tell him to take my money instead of his and he says no. I just smacked the bar really hard and screamed "CAN'T SOMEONE TAKE ME ****ING SERIOUSLY IN HERE???" just as the music went down...
Must say, I really was the center of attention, till my friend (the owner) just burst out laughing... he was in tears... d*mn mofo :P | |
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| Know how to dance!
Posted: 2/18/2005 4:10:58 AM | fancy weighing up the economics of whether to send her a drink or not on the probability that she may reject you!!!!!!!!
Id buys someone (& have ) a drink simply for good conversation. Im no gold digger but the leap from a****ail to jewelry..that quite a leap | |
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