| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/22/2005 1:15:17 PM | Sometimes you wanna be original...
I guess if you do something special it will be easier for you to be remembered :P | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/22/2005 1:15:32 PM | @ leather - that's saved for getting a specific person's attention. This thread is just about "getting noticed" - for whatever reason.
My suggestion - hop over the bar, grab as much as you can, hop back over, and make a run for the door! | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/22/2005 1:18:33 PM | | I would feel weird taking the little guy out to bars, he's still very young... besides, why should HE get what I want :P | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/22/2005 7:07:33 PM | product/society-I am him & all that followed....how could a lady resist this entourage!
well done boys, you really will have fight off those pesky chicks *lol | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/22/2005 7:34:47 PM | | I once Asked the bartender if they serve Milk ...then sit there like a cowboy an ask for a sasperella (soda) | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/22/2005 9:42:28 PM | | I can honestly say that sending a drink to a lady thru the bartender does not work....lols Least not for me thus far. I have to admit tho that i was too shy to follow thru with anything more that a glance in her direction later. Reading the threads here has given me some ideas. Now i just have to work on using them!!!!....lols seriously tho, I will be trying some of these ideas out soon and will post the results afterwards!!!!!!! | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:56:38 AM |
I guess if you do something special it will be easier for you to be remembered
Catering to, and attempting to leave favourable Impressions for the Judgement of the Target of your Admiration.
You are setting yourself up to get hit, going UP or DOWN at the Discretion of the Focus of your Attention.
A Game of Mercy ... begging to be potentially played, manipulated ...
You are not holding your Ground, shows you have no Strength, Direction or Objective if your Game is nothing more than the way you want to be thought of.
Better yet, drop these kind of 'Psych-Games' altogether.
Just enjoy yourself, enjoy the Company you are with, crank the Communications into high Gear, find some common Ground, and the rest will resolve itself, things falling into place quite naturally. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 7:42:13 AM | Ok, I'm confused...
Doing something special to get her attention doesn't mean not being yourself... | |
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Jivin
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Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 161 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 9:49:29 AM | I'm unorthodox. I go by myself and sit at the bar, close to an area the bartender tends to serve their drinks and collect tips. I pay no attention to anyone, and pretend I'm having a great time alone. Eventually
1-A girl will sit (or is already sitting) across the bar and make eye contact with me, and we'll exchange smiles, upon which time I'll walk right up to her and ask if she minds if I sit there...
2-A girl will sit next to me and either start a conversation or make it obvious she wants to talk
3-A girl will be buying a drink and start a conversation with me
But You have to be well-dressed and groomed so you look more like an sophistimucated and intelligent guy with imortant decisions to make as opposed to the lonely loser who has no friends.
You absolutely CAN NOT be drinking anything cheesy. Unless she has a unique sense of goofball humor (and that's 1 in a 100), she'll think you're a loser for sipping on a Shirley Temple.
--for me this makes it easier to start a conversation. Its not a guarantee to taking them home, but it almost always ends up with at least a phone number exchange.
--I rather do this than go with friends because for me it only adds pressure when I'm in a group. I work better alone. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 9:54:40 AM | your hittin' on the bartender ? I was a bartender many years
I never dated the customers but...I would set them up with a pretty girl !
maybe I learned too much watching you men all these years you have no secrets
and if you did you told them to me when you were drunk...ha! | |
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Jivin
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Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 163 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 9:57:38 AM | Im never hitting on the bartender I know better than that...unless he's hot...I mean....
But seriously I know bartenders almost never give their customers that type of attention. I simply sit there because I know women will be standing next to me, noticing me over n over, each time drunker than before  | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 10:04:44 AM | ^^good plan^^
I just strut in ...glance at prince charming
glance away ...works everytime ! | |
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Jivin
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Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 165 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 10:59:40 AM | | easy for you to say you're a female. Its a lot harder for us guys! Sometimes just for attention I walk in naked...kind of sucks on cold days though... | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 1:53:53 PM | Your posts being deleted now makes me look like an idiot, Leather :P
Anyway, another to get noticed is this... Walk into the place, go up to the dj and when he's not looking, grab the microphone!
I do it a lot, but then again the owners are friends of mine so that helps me in the 'not getting your ass kicked' department...
It doesn't matter what you say; if you say 'Let's hear it for blah blah blah', everyone will be freakin screamin congrats to whatever...
So fun... | |
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Posted: 2/23/2005 1:55:21 PM | | I have a friend that will talk to anyone. I just follow him and follow his routine with some mindless banter and intellegent conversation. that seems to work. Oh, and smile.. | |
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xander
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Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 169 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 2:12:44 PM | | Depends on the bar. A couple of times I've done karaoke and I've started out the first song of the evening in a very shy, awkward manner. Then, as the song progresses, I pretend to become more and more confident up until the song hits its crescendo by which point I'm at full voice. Even when I don't do that trick I usually have a few people coming over to say something nice (though not always attractive women). | |
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Jivin
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Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 170 | |
| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 2:32:15 PM | Here's something that's worked for me--since I LOVE Kevin Smith movies, and I tend to like the sense of humor that girls that also love Kevin Smith movies have, I find a group of hot women and say: "I am the master of the kl*t! Remember this phckn face wherever u see kl*t u see phckn face i make that $h.. work. no one rules the kl*t like me not this little ph*ck not...."
If the girl(s) are into Jay n Silent Bob strike back they will laugh their heads off and I'm pretty much in from that point on. Often times, even if they don’t get it, they’re amused if not intrigued by how much nerve I had to go up to a group of hot girls and play the fool when the rest of the club is fool of useless fools to shy to come up and even say hi. Once again, I'm in. Of course there's always the chance (and its a much smaller chance than you'd think) that they will be disgusted by what i said and blow me off. No big deal, if they're that uptight then I guarantee I'd be bored of talking to them within 10 minutes anyways. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:04:47 PM | jivin
somehow I get the feeling you wouldnt have any troubles getting notice at any bar lol
ok...smile is great, boring conversation isnt. | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/24/2005 1:36:43 AM | | another way... being a meanie? lol..might get ya noticed, but in a good way? not too sure... | |
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Jivin
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Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 173 | |
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| getting noticed at the bar
Posted: 2/25/2005 4:55:48 AM | Did I tell you about the time...
I was chatting and laughing with a couple catywompled to my left when a man saundered up to my right - at the bar. He jumped into our conversation and sat down. In a minute he stood up (so now his crotch is just below my eye level) and proceeded to unzip his drawers.
Well, he started searching around in there. Lots of hairy stuff came out as he yanked around. But he never, ever, found what he was looking for or bragging about.
I looked to the folks on my left who had wide open eyes and mouths - just like me. We all busted out laughing!!!! ...he left. But oh boy did he get noticed. And we still laugh about him!! | |
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