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Posted: 4/26/2006 9:07:32 AM | i think you have made the most valid point
what i seek in a man cud be a million miles from what any other lady wants
my dad used to fish ...and the point is if u lure something you dont want ...u throw it back...and let it live by the way .
But u cud meet ur perfect match anywhere...Just enjoy life and try to have fun without hurting anyone
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 4/26/2006 10:04:01 AM | BIGBOY...are you in a wheelchair part time, full time?
I looked at your profile, saw the chair, looks like braces on your legs...is that an issue you have not fully addressed in your profile? You make no mention of it.
You've lost a lot of weight, and for that you should be congratulated.
We all have baggage since we've all been around the block a few times. | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 4/26/2006 10:34:32 AM | I think this guy could be tired of being alone? No children, he was heavy and seems like he may have needed a wheelchair to help him get around maybe because of the weight? The only thing I can say is keep loosing the weight itll make you feel better as a person, and in return people will see that, you might just rub off on someone..But I must add when I see these post from a man..Its a turn off! I like a positve person around me.. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 10:35:14 AM | I think that the problem here is that most people are looking to constantly upgrade... and do not put the time into a relationship that is deserves.... I have been guilty of this and others have done this to me... it is good for adding walls though  you know the protection so that no one can get close...  | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 10:45:58 AM | Let's be fair, the same can be said of the men on this or any other site my friend.
See women know that the "PERFECT" man doesn't exist.
We would like to think that men know the "PERFECT" woman doesn't exist, but geez what's wrong with wishing and hoping and praying......lol | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 10:48:16 AM |
I mean by the term perfect no bagage no problems
I am going to think that you are just frustrated and angry about something because no one could be stupid enough to beleive anyone is perfect and without some kind of baggage, be it emotional or otherwise. | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 4/26/2006 11:05:06 AM | I expect that anyone over the age of ten would have some baggage, I just don't want to be the pack mule that's stuck lugging it around for them.
I'll keep my baggage limited to carry-on size and handle it myself, as long as the guy is willing to do the same... | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 11:09:11 AM | bigboy...... Speaking from personal experience - Women don't expect a man to have NO baggage...... but rather, as the lyrics say "I'm looking for baggage that goes with mine"
Rarely does a person live past the age of 15 without aquiring some sort of "baggage" lol | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 11:29:04 AM | After reading your profile OP I do believe that you have some esteem issues and perhaps other issues that you yourself need to overcome.
It is unfair for you to throw ALL the women in POF in one classification due to some misses you may have had on here.
Perhaps you have unrealistic expectaions of others and are projecting onto the rest of us. A change of perspective may help you in your quest for the "perfect woman."
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Posted: 4/26/2006 1:26:11 PM |
I mean by the term perfect no bagage no problems
I seriously doubt that any man or woman is stupid enough to think there's someone out there without ANY baggage. What we're all interested in is someone whose baggage doesn't weight heavy on them and make them bitter a$$holes. So.. it's not lack of baggage we want... it's the person who properly handles & stores baggage.
Barbies date Kens, good looking people date good looking people, ugly people date ugly people, average people date average people.
Good example of baggage unhandled, right there. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 2:41:55 PM | everybody has a diferent idea as to what is perfect for them . Most of us know there is no such thing as the perfect man or woman as we all have faults,Im not ashamed to say im looking for the perfect man ((PERFECT for ME)) that is . I do not look for the worlds aproval
on who im dating or who im looking for nor do i think the perfect guy is allways tall, dark ,hansome ,or rich. My perfect guy is the one to who im the perfect girl for . its all in friendship, trust, respect, personalties that click , and yes physical attraction too, but that does NOT mean you have to be a perfect 10 ..to be perfect for someone. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 3:28:46 PM | Pam Anderson does nothing for me, honestly. I'd much rather have an average-to-thick woman with red hair or dark brown hair and an IQ in three digits (leading zeroes do not count!). Pam Anderson is simply a walking floatation device. :)
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Posted: 4/26/2006 3:56:45 PM |
This is how it works. Barbies date Kens, good looking people date good looking people, ugly people date ugly people, average people date average people. Unless you are from India, and your mother chooses who you marry. Where you are from, baggage, and etc has nothing to do with getting responses or hooking up. I except people for who they are and I have friends from all walks of life, but the majority of the people that try to hook up with you are not what you are looking for because they are trying to go beyond what they look like and represent. I held this back for a long time but it is time for the truth. If everyone sticks to what they represent, they will get more responses. Just be yourself and do not exceed expectations. If you are rich well then that is another story. You go pbaby21
a.k.a. Water seeks it's own level, freaking harsh but true.
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Posted: 4/26/2006 4:01:26 PM | | so basicly what you are saying ! is that most of you women are just golddiggers. tell me something I dont know" I discovered your game when least you expected it. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 4:30:36 PM | I'm actually finding just the opposite. I happen to be a woman thats not a ten and I find that the guys are going for the younger, skinny ones. I have sent out over 150 messages and have gotten less than 5 dates and then no second dates. I read profiles not look at pictures only. I have responded to every shape and size of man, so see, Im not looking for a particular "type" of man or particular "look" of a man, BUT and this is a biggie...I'm also NOT looking for sex. I am honestly wanting a relationship with a nice guy. If sex happens it does and if it doesnt, it shouldnt be the expected end of the evening either. I dont expect to be everyones cup of tea but dang ....150? And you are right there is NO perfect man but neither is there a perfect woman. And as far as good looking people date goodlooking people and all that ...i disagree I have seen very good looking men with buff bodies totally into the woman they were with and she was heavy and just average looking ...many times. So its just personal preference on each individuals part. I dont see it as a personal attack on me, because these people dont know me. They choose what they think they want and thats what its about. Thats my opinion on the subject.  | |
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 4/26/2006 4:40:13 PM | Like most of the men on this site are NOT looking for the perfect woman?..Come on!
I'm not being hateful, but everyone keeps complaining about how bad we women are.
What about you men? Can you honestly say that you give any woman who is not perfect a chance?
Facts are way too many people have unrealistic expectations; just read some of the profiles and these forum posts!! ...lol..
We all have some baggage and this is a fact of life. It's how you have dealth with it, or deal with it that matters..I'm honest with any man I talk to and let him know before hand that I have a small issue with trust. Everyman I've ever known has either lied to me or said I loved you, just to walk away..So yes, that has left me wondering if a good man is out there who I can trust and believe his word...Does it make me judge all men and stop trying?...NO, of course not..
No one is perfect, we all have faults, some issues and make mistakes.. When you want to find that someone special, you need to accept this concept, because if you don't no one will ever measure up to what you seek...
Myself, I am seeking an honest man who doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs and one who will take the time to get to know one another and go from there..I don't think that's unrealistic, but again, I'm still single and spending another upcoming week-end at home alone! lol..
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| women on this site are kidding themselves
Posted: 4/26/2006 5:17:46 PM | I don't kid myself, as I've had the worst possible experiences here, other sites, and offline. I know what's out there and no longer have any expectations, belief, or interest.
I read somewhere that no one is perfect until we love them. Works for me. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 6:28:16 PM | well i seen my share tonight .... our work is gettin some electrical ..an i close the buildin up....now we have a nice lookin petite blonde lady at work..as i was standing there talkin to these guys bout work related ...she walked in....all heads turned an the comments started ...holy..i couldnt believe what i was hearing. to be honest.. i expected this to happen and it did...no matter where i go...i see it...all the time. i just walked away...disgusted. so you tell me whos kidding now??? whos being superficial???
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