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 sean_30_Surrey

Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 526
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Posted: 10/27/2007 8:24:13 AM
Hi
Well I must admit that I am perfect in everyway so ladies look no further ha ha!! So for a perfect male I must meet a perfect female..What im trying to say is no one is perfect and I think most women know this , they want to men men who are honest and treat them right, that ss probably the most important thing..If someone was perfect they would be boring and lifeless so in fact that would make them not perfect!!

:-)

sean
xx
 beachblanket

Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 527
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Posted: 10/27/2007 10:30:56 AM
>>>---------> Almost each and every one of thoes "EXISTING PIECES OF CRAP",
'''you and almost all of the other women on this site, and in general''', are ****ing about, were given birth to by women, were raised by women, were cared for by women, and were praised by women for thier real and/or imagenary attributes. >>>>>-----------------> These "EXISTING PIECES OF CRAP" were created by you. >>>>>-----------------> Also you are raising your sons, with the help of sisters and aunts, to be the "EXISTING PIECES OF CRAP" you are ****ing about. >>>>-----------> ps 'to be continued' jwc
 joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 528
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Posted: 10/27/2007 10:48:14 AM
well sweetie you asked a question, Why? Im going to tell you and you might not agree, but then who cares... im not out to please anyone ...but the people I love ... now to get to your queston. when you go to the store to but fruit, do you pick out the peices that are already rotten ? enough said : much the same way with men, I would not , given my choice, I want a man .... even a man with baggage can still be a man .............. stop feeling sorry for yourself, and maybe some of that baggage will dissappear ........... every one has baggage, were all human " at least I still would like to think so, having three x husbands doesn't make me a bad person, it makes them stupid... i set that baggage to the curb along time ago ... and refuse to appologize for their stupidity ... or even claim it as my baggage ... get it?
 joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 529
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Posted: 10/27/2007 10:51:16 AM
well sweetie you asked a question, Why? Im going to tell you and you might not agree, but then who cares... im not out to please anyone ...but the people I love ... now to get to your queston. when you go to the store to buy fruit, do you pick out the peices that are already rotten ? enough said : much the same way with men, I would not , given my choice, I want a man .... even a man with baggage can still be a man .............. stop feeling sorry for yourself, and maybe some of that baggage will dissappear ........... every one has baggage, were all human " at least I still would like to think so, having three x husbands doesn't make me a bad person, it makes them stupid... i set that baggage to the curb along time ago ... and refuse to appologize for their stupidity ... or even claim it as my baggage ... get it?
 PandoraJR

Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 530
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Posted: 10/27/2007 11:01:40 AM
I don't kid myself........I'm single and 55 ...and been alone for 8 yrs now........been on POF for 2 yrs,and what I get are married man or man who only want webcam sex lol
I want a real single man ...no man is perfect or the woman they may meet...but woman are here and it's not just a man world ...with out us woman you would be masterabating way to much...nothing like the real thing ...man want looks ...so do woman..you want passion ...so do woman...man want free sex ..so do woman...I have one live to live and I want to enjoy it ...one way or the other.
 Li2O2

Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 531
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Posted: 10/27/2007 12:02:18 PM
joebobbriggs
nothing about me in reality ...

...My photo shows a handsome man
Hummm... does that mean you're confirming the misrepresentation of your profile and someone else's pictures? Playing undercover of a fake cover? Ok smarty... Are you looking for being banned and barred on POF? Go for it, you rock then!... BTW, where did you get from this impression that your "photo" portraits a "handsome" man? Certainly not from me...


YET - in less than Three Months, I have received over 400 unsolicited emails from POF women of all ages ...

Buddy, math seems definitely not your forte... based on only 400 emails you project an entire whole of thousands and growing at POF, at least read and keep your fakey eyes peeled for the real statistics displayed on the top of the pages... ok ok ok, now is too late to say it was a typo and you meant maybe 40k or 400k???



Ridiculous.
 whisperingsilence

Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 532
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Posted: 10/27/2007 12:09:48 PM
woman as well as man have a right to ask for what they want in thier life.....
the word perfect is being used to wide. as the only deffinition which isnt true.
 Just JJ

Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 533
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Posted: 10/27/2007 2:41:04 PM
OP.. you're right!!! We ARE kidding ourselves! Stick to forums for entertainment!! lol
 D Dixie

Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 534
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Posted: 10/27/2007 2:56:46 PM
Food for a hearts thought.......
One persons trash ... May be another persons treasure...
Just a snack for the soul


 joebobbriggs

Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 535
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Posted: 10/27/2007 5:09:46 PM
Li202 -

I made no projections and I am not sure what you are talking about. I still have six pages of received mail and many more pages of the early messages have been deleted automatically by the system.

There was a large surge of mail in the first month or two - but they are still coming in at a steady clip.

I have read many POF posts and confirming reply posts on various threads stating it is the norm that men receive only a handful of unsolicited emails from women even over a year's time. And that letters men send to women go unanswered most of the time. Many POF women have similar stories.

I send very few letters to women and answer very few.

My profile generates scores more mail than the average male POF profile and my profile is nothing but male fluff - no substance - just a pretty face and a silly article.

Therefore I believe what I have said is revealing and tells the secret for attracting the attention of a LOT of POF women.

JoeBob
 Luv Karla

Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 536
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Posted: 10/27/2007 5:14:18 PM
Don't speak on behalf of all women.I am not looking for someone who is perfect,
just someone who I am compatible with.
 NancyGooGoo

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 537
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Posted: 10/27/2007 5:31:13 PM
"women on this site are kidding themselves"


...And, your point is, what, exactly...
 chelsea_hou

Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 538
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Posted: 10/27/2007 5:43:09 PM
JoeBob are you sure it's not HATE mail? I wrote you, at your request BTW over the marriage strike thread. I never heard back I guess you were working on getting those email numbers up. Just so everyone here is clear it's not 400 emails it's 399 as I find your silly face and pretty article repulsive. Nice to know that your profile scores more mail than the average male POF profile. Wonder how you know that....
 sunsetstormx

Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 539
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Posted: 10/27/2007 6:33:43 PM
Exactly and there's nothing wrong with that
 Li2O2

Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 540
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Posted: 10/27/2007 9:14:25 PM

Li202 - I made no projections and I am not sure what you are talking about. I still have six pages of received mail and many more pages of the early messages have been deleted automatically by the system.
There was a large surge of mail in the first month or two - but they are still coming in at a steady clip.
I have read many POF posts and confirming reply posts on various threads stating it is the norm that men receive only a handful of unsolicited emails from women even over a year's time. And that letters men send to women go unanswered most of the time. Many POF women have similar stories.
I send very few letters to women and answer very few.
My profile generates scores more mail than the average male POF profile and my profile is nothing but male fluff - no substance - just a pretty face and a silly article.
Therefore I believe what I have said is revealing and tells the secret for attracting the attention of a LOT of POF women.
JoeBob


You sound now contradicting your prior post, in which you had made more confident affirmations to big numbers and talks… and by this one now you seem backing off to your little inner circle box and thread froggy whiner … even thou, you continue to pretend to know numbers to justify your theories… so, where did you get all these numbers and counts from? Do you know the exact number of the “average” male profiles, on which you have based your comparisons?

Speak for yourself… lost in semantics and basic counting… not worth the comment.
 Sunnydays68

Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 541
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Posted: 10/27/2007 9:28:38 PM
I haven't read the countless pages of responses, but my first impression of the OP was that his photo looks like it was taken in the visiting room of a prison......prison garb and all. Am I mistaken? Please let me be mistaken. Is that somebody we should choose rather than "the nonexistant perfect man"?????
 EternalBlue

Joined: 1/12/2007
Msg: 542
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Posted: 10/27/2007 9:38:18 PM
The real problem here is that these type of women aren't actually looking for anything, they don't want to date or meet anyone; find friends or talk to anyone, they want nothing; and know nothing about online dating. Many have contacted me on here, and after the initial message they all send saying 'Hi' and that is all they say, that is all they ever say.

It is extremely easy to attract women on here, as there are that many who will contact you; best thing is to write an honest profile about who you really are, include a photo of who you really are (not of tattoo's, cars, or other pieces of society) and you'll see an unbelievable amount of responses. A secret of online dating is to avoid the fake people who don't actually care about anything but getting as many 'fav's' as possible, all those people are, are folks looking for attention. If you are honestly looking for a real woman, show that you are a real man; the chicken heads will leave you alone, and you will not view the women here as kidding themselves, or dub them as looking for anyone but you.
 islgurl

Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 543
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Posted: 10/27/2007 9:58:50 PM

oeBob are you sure it's not HATE mail? I wrote you, at your request BTW over the marriage strike thread. I never heard back I guess you were working on getting those email numbers up. Just so everyone here is clear it's not 400 emails it's 399 as I find your silly face and pretty article repulsive. Nice to know that your profile scores more mail than the average male POF profile. Wonder how you know that....

Oops...JB..outed???? Oh my!

Welll....the ONLY redeeming thing about "whoever-he-is's" pic is the artistic-computer generated clever stuff.
I am wondering (NOT sayin...just wondering) if ole JB isn't the proverbial 'puter-geek kid "renting" the rec room in the family basement

This venue? All is possible. BUT when empathy, warmth, and genuine personality are missing? Makes a person just...wonder.
 Beholder

Joined: 5/23/2007
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Posted: 10/28/2007 2:58:43 AM

It is extremely easy to attract women on here, as there are that many who will contact you; best thing is to write an honest profile about who you really are, include a photo of who you really are (not of tattoo's, cars, or other pieces of society) and you'll see an unbelievable amount of responses.

I hate to say this, but that sounds incredibly naïve; you only need to barely skim the forums to see that's not the case.

Ideally, yes, I'd be very happy if that were true - but until pof can implement a checkbox on the search page that says "only show honest profiles with real photo", even the women genuinely interested in a relationship are going to have to deal with the overwhelming number of men available (which of course contains the requisite players/liars/cheats, etc).

However keep hope alive - if you're right we should see the forum traffic take a huge hit as people somehow find themselves almost exclusively contacting only people that won't cause pain down the line (and not repeatedly having the topics pop up that go along with it, of course).

Yep, my mailbox should be flooded any minute now...
 ousu

Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 546
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Posted: 10/28/2007 3:35:22 AM
I believe it is like with job advertisements: you describe an ideal candidate which you hardly will find. The selected one will meet something like 60-70% of the description. There is flexibility in criteria.
 atlast

Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 547
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Posted: 10/28/2007 3:35:39 AM

most of the women on this site are looking for the nonexistant perfect man WHY???


What do you mean nonexistant perfect man? Here I am, right before your very eyes!

 ItsMargo

Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 548
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Posted: 10/28/2007 3:51:05 AM
Well, personally... I was just looking for a pervert who presents well.

JoeBob... you're not factoring in that forum posts increase email traffic... there must be way more lurkers than there are posters. I've always thought your review (yeah, I checked out your profile when you first started to post) was a particularly clever technique that stood out and left plenty of things as conversation starters. A "show how I think" rather than "tell who I am" (although I think how someone thinks is far more revealing about who they are). Wow. I'm disappointed to learn you blundered into it rather than the impressive manipulation I had interpreted it as (and given you credit for). Kind of like discovering the wizard is an old guy behind the curtain. Or there is no Santa Claus.
 blonde_4_u

Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 549
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Posted: 10/28/2007 4:44:24 AM
Cmon JoeBob..men are just as bad as women. Why is it if you don't respond to an email..you must be a gold digging hussy ...or too picky? Maybe your not that particular woman's type...this is online dating..and the name of the site fits it..when fishing you could get a great catch..or a bottom feeder..but like actual fishing..you have to be patient until you get a nibble!Great things come to those who wait!
 beachblanket

Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 550
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Posted: 10/28/2007 5:27:55 AM
>>>----------> It's not because you can, it's because there are plus five
(+5) men for each women.
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